Supermom Spotlight | Riddhi Deorah | Join Our Easy Parenting Hub Community | Parenting Coach

April is marks one year of my journey in EPH. So like the 19th of April last year I had joined the master class. And like the 19th of April this year it was my anniversary, you can say. So I really celebrated it. Like I can tell you the difference that last year I was in a place where I was about to quit my tax consultancy practice because I was really, you know, in my grief mode. Like I lost my father in 2019, I lost my nanny in 2020. So these people were like my pillars of them who made me who I am. So when I lost them, I was actually in a very, you know, low phase. So you can imagine like last year it was 2024. From 2019 to 2024, five years, I was actually completely depressed. Wow. Even if I gave birth to my daughter in 2020, even if that happened then too, there was always a phone in my heart because of that. What happened, what had happened is I was not able to fully be there for my daughter. But after I joined the Platinum membership, the shift was that I was actually amazed at how I could feel happy. Like initially I was feeling why am I feeling so joyous? Because I was used to the low female.

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So I was like, oh my God, where is this feeling coming from? Because like even we are not meeting a person then too we can feel the energy. When mothers share that wind, we can actually feel the energy pass through each other though. Like the positivity is flowing. And that has really helped me come back to my normal self. Now I'm like back to my normal self and it's all because of you.

So this is my first share. So what happens? You always say, right, you have to write gratitude. I never understood why this is important, but I was doing it constantly. And few things I. I was writing was I never as in I was okay doing my job. It's not that I don't love it, but it's not that I hate it as well.

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But when I start writing gratitude, I was trying to cover all the aspects of my life. And I also used to write gratitude for the money we have, gratitude for the job I have and gratitude for the manager, mentors, colleagues and everyone. So last year I never tried to excel in my job. I never put any extra effort. But this time what happened was instead of meets, I got exceeds in my job. And that come. That came as a complete surprise. I never put any exceed. Yeah, yeah, that is the higher rating. Meat is the average rating and exceeds is only. Only I got that in my team. And I was really not sure what what has changed. My effort has not changed. Nothing has changed and has changed. Yeah. My energy might have changed and other thing that always stuck with me is the way you do in any one area of life. The the same way you will do in every area of my life.

Yes.

So I try to put better actions. So yeah that has definitely shifted. Obviously I had monetary benefits because of that. So yeah. Thank you.

It's been on the 28th of April I will complete my one year journey in easy parenting hub. The day I took a decision for myself first time in my life and taking the money off my brother's death insurance and all. So that was a good decision of my life. I'll never like last time I share in platinum that I want to buy a ring always of a platinum. Now I think what I would do of the ring I just wear it and show off the risk. But I'm delivering the things I have learned from you on a daily dose like a medicine we take daily whether it is BP sugar, so health wise relationship, relationship everything. Career. I have just improved after taking platinum. I have learned one one thing. You should be a lifelong learner. So handwriting was my thing. I was very interested in things that so I've taken the course of that also. And from January I've started all page no Phuket Wallachis now. So from separate to December I have done parenting. Not handwriting but parenting. I have done workshops. So in total now whenever I approach they ask me about my profile whether it is. Whether it is any organization they ask me. So the ratio is 100 plus mothers educated in parenting 70 plus. I have trained in handwriting of yesterday and 10 before. I have done so that thousand students I have trained in my positive pathways program like they have program. So this is my ratio of achievement in one year by keeping you and always being a good student, sincere student learning every time watching my course every day whether it's waking at 4am or 3am I was very consistent in watching my course. That was the only thing and always in our community mothers also say you are very fast action taker also. So now summer camps for kids also that is offline and summer camp for mothers also that is online.

Wow.

So first second batches done with summer camp mother summer camp and I'm taking now third batch. So this is my achievements all around and in journey learning helps me a lot. I have gained my confidence. I have gained my communication skill for taking a leadership. It helped me a lot to communicate with mothers because Hyderabad Chennai mothers don't understand Hindi so I have to. I was forced to speak in English with them.

Yeah.

So that helped me a lot to speak now without any like agenda or something. I can just go on with everyone. The I should know what audience want now from me.

Correct, correct.

And just delivered whatever I can. It's all about your learning only and learning every part. Everything. Ordering books, learning from books also many things inspiring. Like I was so, so so happy. And I was on the other end thinking to whom I should share Fast like very quick. So the came like I close my eyes. I only believe Ramji. So I just closed my eyes and I just share a photo with you. So that was like very emotional that I. That I have no one to share my bin. It's not like a mother in law, father, I have my sister. But still I was feeling very like whom I should share. So the first.

Yes. Always with you. We are one big family now. You should never think whom to share with. You have so many people to share with and all of us are really celebrating you in the group also I saw. So we are super proud of you Ankita. And always remember you have a big family now. So you should never think with whom should I share? We are always with you.

So the journey has been a roller coaster for me. Like I was not a consistent person at all. But now from the, you know, 2025 I am there.

So.

So when I joined I was on maternity leave. Things were like very nice. I was just doing things and I was very happy. And the day I joined back to the office then I also became the same person. I can't do it. Time is not there. I can't manage it. So for like almost a 4 months I was out of the system. And then I realized like how, you know, how can I go into that such situation. I literally went into such a low life condition where I literally wanted to quit everything and just go back to the place where I was. And then I was like I want to leave the home. I literally went into that situation then I don't know from where. All of a sudden I opened my Instagram and I saw your video and I was like oh okay. So I have this also. Let's just try it again. I literally started this my journey again into this one year only. And the experience I have right now, I just can't tell you. Like I'm so blessed that my life, my personal life, my professional life, life with my in laws, life with my own parents was always good. But with my in laws everything has Become so nice. I feel when I wake up and I feel like I want to live my life to the fullest. I want to live my life to the place where I can serve people. Now people have started recognizing me as a calm person. Like I used to be always the one person who used to start the party always. So recently only like, you know, three days back I had like my first cousin marriage last weekend. So everybody was like, you are you. You have something in you which has changed. I don't know what. This time it was something else. Like people were recognizing me that, oh, you are doing such a. Though I've just started putting videos of my, you know, foods or baby food which I have started, you know, making for my child. So many videos. But in that only people have started asking me. We are waiting for more videos. Though I'm not able to record it because my voiceover was so I was not able to do that. But I am going to do it more now. So even in seven videos, people literally asked me, called me, when are you putting the next video? We have started feeding our child like, you know, after looking at your videos. So that was like a big, big, big win for me because I was very like, you know, scared. I do have a bike video of like almost 20, 30 videos. But then one like one day my husband said just because of you, and that literally hit me hard. And the day I started putting in, people started calling me like, my cousins never used to call me like for years. So she was very disturbed. So that is like a big win for me. I went to the marriage and I think I met 60 people out of that 20, 30 people told me about my videos. So that was a big win for me. Last. Last month I faced an issue I shared with Hiral and earlier I was very shy that I don't want it. So I hadn't faced paralyzed thing last month. And because of that I was not coming on video calls for last month. You might have seen like I was not there. So my entire like this area was lifted towards left. So I had faced this and you. I was not wanted to be on the calls. I do not wanted to see the mirror, like for almost 15 days mirror. And then I had a word with. I was like, and the day I promoted as a super leader, the same day I had this attack. And then she was like, no, you have to do it. Like, why don't you share these things? I was like, no, I don't know. But then I recovered from that thing. I. I realized that it's always not important but at least to the people you love. Right. And that I've accepted now and thank you so much for that heal. And she's always there like you know, been there for me and I have a family like though I'm very extrovert person but when it comes to, you know, share my personal feeling, I'm not that I can be very happy, I can do everything but I cannot be somebody like Josh. But now I've started becoming that person. I overcome that thing which I was just waiting and it was not an easy thing for me to you know, go through that all facial thing. But yeah, now I'm back. I'm happy. I'm grateful to you. Because of you I am, you know, I'm having such an emotional breakthroughs in my life and yes people started recognizing me that at least I'm doing something with even I'm putting out videos that you know, learning on weekends with my mentor. People have started asking what are you doing? What you know, what are the things? So they have started asking me. So I have started saying that thinking like parenting is not about teaching children, it's about us. So now yeah, like a lot of you know, compliment I started getting which is a good thing. I think everybody loves to get compliment.

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