In this YouTube clip, parenting coach Riddhi Deorah challenges the common belief that respecting elders conflicts with protecting your child, asserting that both can coexist. She frames the issue of a child demanding a phone—given by a grandparent—as a boundary problem rather than a parenting failure, emphasizing that a child's nervous system is shaped daily by every adult in the household. Riddhi highlights the difficulty parents face when grandparents enforce different rules and when partners do not support consistent discipline, stressing the need for a single, consistent voice regarding the child. She offers a solution through her community, promising guidance on aligning caregivers without disrespecting elders, and ends with a call to action for viewers to comment “transform” to join the program.
