Arsmeet shares her first time speaking publicly and reflects on losing her father in second grade, which shaped her focus on early childhood development. She's committed to breaking cycles of people-pleasing in her family and creating spaces that help parents build confidence and courage in their children.
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And after two months here, my focus and my step by step I'm building up. My focus is more deeper. The activity you gave us, the paper, I had all my vision into it. I have my nurturing space on my paper built that way. Then I would unknowingly or knowingly propagate them to my sons, which I really don't want to. Which hello, I'm Arshmeet. Hi, Arshmeet. And thank you, ma'am. Thank you for giving this opportunity. I'm talking for the first time on the mic, and like come speak from here. Come. No, seriously. First time. Thank you again for this opportunity, ma'am. And I'm Arshmeet. I'm from Rajouri Garden. And hello, hello everyone. So, uh, the top takeaway from all the speakers I just heard too was You cannot gift anything if you don't have it in yourself. Right. So the most obvious thing, the confidence and courage which we really want to give to our children for lifetime is the one thing which I believe results in the holistic development of our kids. And along with that, what I have realized after, you know, I'm into— I'm deep diving into early years of human life. I really want to put an impact by, you know, supporting mothers, parents all over the world to do something on this, uh, this basic space, uh, to transform this world. And I have already started taking baby steps by working one-on-one on those things to, uh, you know, eventually build a nurturing space which I have a vision on. So, but in alignment with that, what I believe, I am also working on my past patterns which I have been carrying from my early years, and which I believe if I don't work on them, I would unknowingly or knowingly propagate them to my sons, which I really don't want to. Which, uh, I would like to list a few of them is people pleasing is one of the main thing which I don't really want to give to my children. Although daughters are the most, you know, vulnerable species around which take that, but still boys also do suppress their emotions. So that is one thing which I really am working on. I, I really, uh, I don't find myself very comfortable, you know, uh, sharing my inner emotions, my inner things with The lovely family I have, and when I was just in class two, I I lost my father, and that was a real turning point for my life. He was my superhero, and I lost him. It turned my life. It turned my my brother's life, my mother's life. So I've realized everything lies into the early years, and if we do work on that, we can transform this world. By empowering mothers, and my mother is a real example in front of me. She has been a you know positive example for everyone. She was a teacher, but suddenly our life flipped off after her retirement. I've seen in seen her in a very low life condition right now. So with all your teachings and everything, I am trying to you know strengthen her up also and to give all the positive learnings to my own son. And also I want to, you know, give a good upbringing to each and every child which comes into my touch, whether in my relation or not. So I have these deep intention into my into my soul altogether. And thank you, ma'am. Thank you for everything. With the daily event, daily offline event, I had a clarity what I have to do. With Goa event, the intention was more clear. I promised myself that I will start taking action, and I have, you know, I've started taking them all together. And after 2 months here, my focus and my step by step I'm building up, my focus is more deeper. The activity you gave us, the paper, I had all my vision into it. I have my nurturing space on my Paper built that way. So I'm taking smaller steps by working because I believe charity begins from home. First time. TPH. So charity begins from home. So I'm trying to give all the positive learnings to to all the, you know, all the young family members in my house and tried to western up that thing by, you know, interacting with parents all around my locality, with the schools. All right. So thank you so much, ma'am. Just joking. Amazing. How many of you think it was amazing? First time, very good. So yeah, you have to be on the stage more often. Deep, deep gratitude, ma'am. Really thankful because your learnings have been putting a checkmark on my list that whatever I've been thinking since my early years, that in academics this was not right, in school whatever has been happening this was not right, and even in daily life. So thank you for everything. Thank you for bringing us back to our roots. And thank you. Thank you so much.
