Riddhi Deorah argues that grades measure performance, not potential or a child's worth. When parents tie love to marks, kids confuse achievement with being valued. Worth cannot be reduced to a number, just as an adult's salary doesn't define theirs.
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If grades decide your child's worth, then shouldn't your salary decide your worth? We judge our kids based on their marks. But hum apnea Salary ki basis Judge Nahi Hona Chaate. Grades are just feedback. Identity. A report card measures performance, not potential. So your child starts to think that if I score well, my mother will smile. And if I don't do well in school, my mother will either get angry or stay quiet. So your child gets confused whether you love their marks or you love them. So while raising a child, please value their effort and not the result. Because your child's worth cannot be graded. Just like your worth cannot be salaried.