Riddhi DeorahParenting Coach, Helping mothers become God conscious to raise God conscious children.

When did marks start measuring character?

27 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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Riddhi Deorah delivers a short spoken message (YouTube video) arguing that grades are feedback on performance, not a measure of a child’s inherent worth. She warns that judging children by marks confuses them about parental love and urges parents to value effort over results, using the analogy that a person’s worth shouldn’t be tied to salary.

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If grades decide your child's worth, then shouldn't your salary decide your worth? We judge our kids based on their marks. But hum apnea Salary ki basis Judge Nahi Hona Chaate. Grades are just feedback. Identity. A report card measures performance, not potential. So your child starts to think that if I score well, my mother will smile. And if I don't do well in school, my mother will either get angry or stay quiet. So your child gets confused whether you love their marks or you love them. So while raising a child, please value their effort and not the result. Because your child's worth cannot be graded. Just like your worth cannot be salaried.