A parent grapples with letting their child make mistakes and learn independently, despite the fear of judgment from others and the urge to step in. The speaker recognizes that challenges are gifts, not obstacles to remove, and that a parent's role is gentle guidance, not control.
Chapters
I know what's good for my kids and I will make all their decisions for them. I understand that all they need is a little support. They can do it on their own. I provide the right environment and trust my child completely to make the right decisions. I worry lok kya kahenge kyo ki agar kuch karbad hogai to mujai bolinge ki bache ko begaar di a hai. Even though I trust my child and allow my child to make their own decisions internally I worry what will people think about my parenting. I allow my child to fail because I understand that every challenge is a gift from God. I end up doing everything for my child because I think they'll not understand and not be able to manage. I allow my child to do things on their own but I'm always there to support them. I know deep down their journey is already rooted and my role as a parent is only to gently guide them and not to eliminate the challenges from their lives.