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In this short motivational talk, the speaker uses the metaphor of time zones—past, present, and future—to help listeners become aware of where their attention lies. He points out that most people spend their lives replaying memories or pre‑living imagined futures, rarely staying in the present moment. When a strong emotion arises, he advises pausing and labeling the feeling as either a memory (past), a prediction (future), or something happening right now (present). This simple labeling engages the prefrontal cortex, which regulates emotional responses and reduces the dominance of the emotional reflex. The practice does not dismiss the feeling but contextualizes it, allowing awareness to temper pain without erasing it. The overall message is to cultivate present‑moment awareness by mentally “naming” your current time zone.

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