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So how do you change your significant other? This question gets asked me all of the time. Somebody will go on a personal growth journey, and their significant other doesn't go on that journey with them, and they start to grow, and they want their significant other to grow with them. The worst thing that you can do is try to force your significant other into doing what you want them to do. Because when you force somebody, that force is usually met with resistance. The only thing that you can do to change somebody is to change yourself. As Gandhi says, be the change that you want to see in the world. So whatever change you want to see in your significant other, make that change within yourself, and you become the lighthouse versus the towboat. The lighthouse and the towboat both get ships from the sea into the harbor, but they do it way differently. A towboat pulls and pulls and pulls and uses all of its aggression and all of its force to be able to do so. A lighthouse just stays where it is. It does what it's supposed to do, which is shine, and it allows them to come in. And so what you want to do is be a reflection of what can happen when you follow that path. And so if you want your significant other to change and.