Ep 112 - How to Overcome Jealousy

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That's the phrase that I want you to remember. Good for you. You must have really added a lot of value to a lot of people's lives in order to get that whatever it is that you want, whatever it is that they have that you want. So I want you to think about that. I want you to think about jealousy when you see someone who's jealous. If you know someone who's jealous of a lot of people and makes up a lot of excuses like that, maybe you should share this episode with them. Or if you. If they're just the type of person who's never gonna listen to it in your mind, just go, you know, it's sad that that person won't get what they want because they're pushing it away from them. And you have to normalize the feeling of getting what you want. And you have to stand guard and go, you know what? I'm gonna start appreciating those people. I'm gonna start appreciating what they have. I'm going to figure out a way to attract that into my life. Because by having jealousy and bringing that person down, or by having jealousy and bringing myself down is never going to attract those things into my life. I'm never going to acquire whatever it is that I want to acquire by having those negative emotions towards it. So what I want to leave you with, the challenge I want to leave you with is anytime you start to get jealous of someone, I want you to immediately switch and in your head think, good for you. Good for you for getting that that's something that I want one day and that's something that I will get one day. And I'm going to figure out a way to attract as well. But you need to think good for you. So if you know someone that could get something from this, please share this with them. Please share it with them. We are over. We're approaching 500,000 downloads and we can't get to a million our first 12 months without you sharing. And I'm gonna leave you the same way I leave you every single episode. Make it your mission today to make somebody else's day better. I appreciate you and I hope that you go out there and you have an absolutely amazing day.

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