If You've Been Cheated On

Look, I know he cheated on you. But you have to remember this. It's not your fault if he cheated on you, then he just wasn't right for you. Do you know how I know that? Because if he truly loved you, he would never put himself in a position to hurt you. And listen, I understand how you feel. I've been there. But when someone cheats on you, the natural thing to think is, it's my fault. There must have been something wrong with me, or there must have been something that I did wrong. But you got to know that you didn't do anything wrong. In fact, the phrase that fits perfectly here is that it's not you, it's him. Because the whole thing is his fault. And it's important that you stop blaming yourself. It's time to stop feeling like there was something that you could have done to prevent this from happening. You know, you need to realize that you are enough and that you got to stop feeling like you're not enough because of it. And I know it's hard to see now, but one day you'll look back on this moment and actually see that it was a blessing in disguise because you no longer have to waste any more of your precious time with a shady person because his dishonesty was present in your relationship way before he ever cheated on you. You have to believe and know that you deserve better. And guess what? He made it really easy on you by. By finally showing you his true colors. So try to be grateful that this happened. Because you no longer have to spend time with somebody that you put first, but someone that puts you second. You no longer have to give 100% to someone who only gives you 60. You no longer have to feel like you are not enough simply because you're not getting all that you deserve. You have to stop settling for someone who loves you sometimes, who appreciates you sometimes, or who shows you that they care sometimes. And if you miss him, remember this. It's important not to go back to what broke you. Don't text him when you're lonely. Don't give him the chance to hurt you again. Because now you can go out and you can find someone who that.