Fixating on what you don't want pulls you toward it, like staring at a crash makes you drive into it. Where your attention goes, your direction follows. Focus on the goal instead of the fear.
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When you focus on what you don't want, you tend to end up getting what you don't want. Don't look at the crash, because you will go where you're looking. He goes, you have to look past the crash, or else you will hit your friend. And that clicked in my head because I was like, man, that is life. Like, how often do we look at the crash that could be our life in the future? And we're like, I don't want this. I just don't want to be broke anymore. I just don't want to have bad relationships. I don't. I don't. I don't. And. And we're focusing on putting energy into what we don't want versus putting energy into what we do want.