The SECRET To Living A Meaningful Life EXPLAINED! | Rob Dial

I think the purpose of this life, purpose of us being here, that's all I'm here to do. There is nothing else for me to do. Except today I'm going to talk about what the purpose of life is. Yes, I'm going to go into the subject. I'm going to dive into it. I'm going to try to answer the toughest question in the entire world. The question that every single person since the beginning of time has asked themselves. Why am I here? Why am I? What's the purpose of me being here? What's the purpose of my life? And before I dive into it, let me state my ignorance. Okay? I don't know all of the answers. I don't claim to know all of the answers. I definitely don't think that I know most answers. I'm 35 years old. Don't claim to know everything. I don't think that I'm a guru. I never want to be a guru, any of those things. I'm still working on myself. I think I'll be working on myself to the day I die. And I've been working on growing myself for 15 years now. But with that, I have coached thousands and thousands of people over the time that I've been working on myself and working with other people. And I feel like for most of the boxes that people want to check off in their life, as far as happiness, success, money, whatever it is that you want to say, I feel like I've checked off most of the boxes that people want to check off in their time. And I spent a good portion of my life being happy in creating some form of happiness. But more than anything else, actually just going straight for money. Like money was my main purpose in life. It's the thing I was going after more than anything else. And, you know, I was able to realize the way that we all know, right, that money doesn't give you happiness. Like, money does not make you happy. I realized what everyone before me has ever said, right? And I knew that money didn't make me happy, but I was like, you know what? Let me make some money first and then decide if I want to be happy from there or not. It didn't change anything in my life. Everything was exactly the same. The only thing it really allowed me to do was to be able to do things that I wasn't able to do before and to be able to buy things that I wasn't able to buy before. But doing the things that I did didn't make me happy, and buying the things that I Bought didn't make me happy as well. So if I felt like I checked off many of the boxes that I'm supposed to check off in my life, but I still wasn't happy as I could be, or I didn't feel as fulfilled as I could be, then why the hell are we here? What is the purpose of this life? And my personal opinion, and once again, you can take this for what it's worth. You can take it and fully believe it. You can take it with a grain of salt. Either one is completely fine. It's completely up to you what you decide to do with this information. I think the purpose of this life is to grow spiritually. And I don't mean religiously, because I think a lot of religion actually restricts most growth and most. Most spiritual growth and most personal growth. And I'm not knocking religion any sort of way. For some people, religion is the path to their enlightenment or to happiness or to fulfillment. For me, it just wasn't. And so when I say, you know, it's the path, the work of just spirituality, for those of you guys that might be atheist or might be agnostic, another way of saying it for you, just so everybody can kind of join in on this path that we're talking about here, is I think the purpose of us being here, if you don't want to say grow spiritually, would be just to learn. We're here to learn. That's it. That's all we're here to do. Life is a classroom, and that's all that I think that it is. We're here to learn. We're here to grow, we're here to get better. And hopefully, by the time that we leave this place, we end up doing a pretty good job of it. I do believe that there's something after life. There's times where I've bounced before. Like, you know, is there something after life? Is there not something afterlife? I've bounced all around. And I personally believe that there is. I personally think that we might, you know, have a lot of lives after this one. You know, there could be reincarnation. Didn't think I'd ever say that before. It could be on this planet. It could be on another planet. It could be in another dimension, it could be somewhere else that we don't know about. I don't know. I'll never act like I know. All I know is that I get this feeling that I'm here to learn. I get this feeling that the purpose of me being here is to grow, to learn. And to get better. This life that I have is just basically a really big classroom. And this classroom is not here when I consciously decide to step into the classroom and learn. It's not here when I sit down. You know, I consciously decide, you know what? Now I'm going to sit down and I'm reading a book. That's not when I step into the classroom or when I sit down and I say, you know what? I'm going to journal. That's not when I step into the classroom. When I step into the classroom is when anything happens in my life. Not when I just decide to journal. Not when I just decide to meditate. Not when I just decide to read or to write or to do something. My personal belief is that the classroom is every single, single second of my life. Do you feel that way? Is there something inside of you that kind of feels the same? I'm curious. I'd love to hear from you. Do you feel like it's the same? Do you think that it's different? Once again, I don't have many of the answers. I just feel like, for me, this is what feels right. And once again, this isn't something that's just like, hey, when I consciously decide to sit down and do something, that's when I enter the classroom. It is, every single second of my day is an opportunity to learn and to grow and to get better. That could be spiritually, that could be mentally. That could be physically. That could be in my personal growth. That could be my spiritual growth, in my relationships with other people. Every single second life or God or the universe is throwing people and circumstances and things at me to allow me to either stay awake and wake myself up out of this autopilot that I can go into, or to wake up and grow from it. The thing about it and the way that I think about it is I don't think that there's a finish line that I'll ever cross. For, like, a lot of people, they think, oh, well, one day I'll eventually get to the place that I want to be. One day I'll eventually, you know, I'll eventually become enlightened. One day I'll eventually learn all the things that I learned to know, need to learn to know. One day I will get to the point where I have all of the knowledge in the world, or one day I'll finally not be stressed out or not have anxiety or whatever it is. I personally don't think that there's ever a finish line that I'll cross. I don't know if that's the truth or not. I just have the feeling for me that it is the truth. And for some people, that can be stressful because they're like, oh, my God, that means I'm going to feel this way forever. Oh, my God, that means that I'm never going to cross the finish line. Because our Western society, we're raised to think like you have to do. You have to and produce and achieve that goal. And so when we think growing or we think we're here to learn, or we think we're here in school, we're here to learn spiritually, we think that there's supposed to be, like, some award that we get at the end of it or some, like, test that says, we got an A or, you know, some diploma that says, hey, you. You pass the Spirituality of Life or whatever it is. And for some, that can be really stressful to go, oh, my God, I don't know if there's a finish line. This is. This is literally what I'm gonna be doing forever. That's kind of stressful. But for me, it's super freeing because then I know that's all I'm here to do. There is nothing else for me to do except for me to be inside of a classroom to learn, to grow and to get better. Now I understand there's some people that are listening to me right now, and you're like, hold on. That's not the only thing, Rob. Because I'm a parent, I have to take care of my kids. I'm a spouse. I can't just not pay my bills. My wife will want to divorce me. What happens to my family if I just go on this spiritual learning journey that you're talking about. What happens if that happens? And what I'm saying to you is that if you're thinking that, I think what's happening is you're missing the point. Your growth doesn't come in spite of your family. Your growth doesn't come in spite of the people around you or, you know, you don't have to leave your family and go to India and go on some spiritual journey in order to grow spiritually, mentally, physically, whatever it is. Your growth doesn't come in spite of everyone that's around you. Your growth comes through everyone that's around you. They are your actual path. They are your path. So, you know, I remember, I think of, you know, a story that Ram Dass says when, you know, Ram Dass is a spiritual teacher and, you know, he was a professor of psychology at Harvard. And then he, you know, started doing some psychedelics. He went to India. He went on a spiritual journey. You know, he was wearing a white robe. He thought that he was in love. And he had just, you know, he was in India for a year or two years, whatever it was. And he came back and he was on, you know, nothing can bother me. Life is beautiful. I'm this enlightened being. And then his dad, who was a lawyer, picks him up at the airport. And within like, 15 minutes, his dad goes, so when are you going to get a job? And immediately set him off again. It was a trigger. And he realized in that trigger that he wasn't free. He wasn't free of his past. He wasn't free of all of the things mentally that he needed to overcome. He still had work to do. That is the perfect example of the growth coming through them, right? How many of you listening, your mom or your dad or your brother or your sister can say one thing and it triggers you? They can say one thing and it drives you nuts. They say one thing and it's like, oh, my God, I was having such a good day before that happened. Your growth is on the other side of that. It's not that they trigger you. It's that they said something that brought up something in you that was already there. Nobody gives you. Nobody makes you mad. What happens is they do something that brings up the madness inside of you or the anger that's inside of you. Your journey is through them, right? Your mom saying the stuff that drives you nuts. Your children having a mental breakdown inside of Chick Fil A. Right? Like, your spiritual journey is. Is through that moment, how you react there. Your spouse doing and saying the things that drive you crazy. Like, oh, my God, how many fricking times do I have to tell him to stop putting his underwear on top of the kitchen sink? Whatever. I don't know. Hopefully your husband isn't putting his underwear on top of the kitchen sink. Whatever he's doing, he's doing something. And your spiritual journey is not in spite of that. Your growth in this world is not in spite of that. Your growth is through that. All of it, all of it is here for you to grow. Every single second is here for you to grow. And I personally see all of this as a game. Life presents you with things, with people, with opportunities, with circumstances to show you where you're still hung up. A trigger is a teacher. It teaches you where you still need to do work. Do I still get triggered? Absolutely. But then I'm like, oh, yep. Still hung up there. Still got some work to do. Rob. It's all like a little game, and it becomes fun, in my opinion, because you start to notice this game. It's like I'm constantly playing a game all day long. And the better that you become at this game, the better that you work through, the better that your life becomes. So the better that you become at this game, the better that every single person's life becomes around you. Every single person that you're close to, everyone in your family, every single person's life becomes better when you work on yourself every single moment to become better. Does that make sense to you? Because the more you work on yourself, the better you become. And the better you become, the better the lives around you become. Not just your family, but every single person, person that's handing you the coffee in the drive through that person's life becomes better by you being better and showing up there, right? The energy that you bring to that person, the way you interact with them, it's going to be that way till the day we die, in my opinion. You know, once again, take it for what it's worth. I think it will be that way until the day we die. Every single person you come in contact with. And maybe we. We. We go on this spiritual journey and we die and we go somewhere, maybe we die and we get another life. Maybe we die and nothing happens. I don't know. I'm not gonna sit up here and just tell you that I know what happens. Like a lot of people will. I don't know what the hell happens. But from my point of view, when you live your life knowing that this is a classroom, that we're gonna be triggered, Those triggers are teachers that we're going to get hung up, that we're gonna get agitated, we're gonna get pissed off, we're gonna get sad. We're going to mess things up. We're gonna act in ways that we look at and look back on and wish that we would have done different. We're gonna mess things up. All of those are just opportunities to show us where we need to get better next time. Not to judge ourselves and think about how terrible that action was. And to judge ourselves and to put emotion into it and to get pissed off. No, none of those things. It's the opportunity to go, yep, I see what I did there. I did mess up. You know what? Next time, I'm going to do it better. It's a teacher. It's a lesson. Every moment is a teacher. Every single moment is a lesson. And to ignore those lessons is like failing a test and then not studying before you take the test again. Right? Imagine that you take a test and you don't do well in the test, and the teacher says, hey, I'll give you one more chance to take the test. Come back next week. Would you study? Of course you would. Hopefully you would. But to have a trigger happen to you, a lesson, a teacher happen to you, and for you to do nothing before it happens again is like failing at a test, doing nothing in between the time of the next test and you take the next test and fail again, it's all just classroom. It's all just lessons, it's all just teachers. And once again, this is not just when you sit down. This is every single second of your day. Are you taking a step back and seeing what's going on in your head? Seeing how you're reacting, Seeing what's going on? Because it's all in front of you. You all. Everything you need to work on in your life is literally, it's right here at every single moment to improve, to get better. To improve, to get better. You are here to learn. What are you here to learn? What are you here to grow from? Think about that. Write it down. What am I here to learn? What are some of the triggers that set me off that I know I need to work on? What are some of the things that I don't like about my reactions? That I get angry too quickly, that I get emotional, that I get sad too often? What is it that. What are the emotions? What are the triggers? What is it that my mom does? What is it that my dad does? What is it that my, my spouse does, that my children do? What is it that they do that trigger me? Because once again, it's not that they're bringing that thing to you, it's that they're bringing that thing out of you. So if somebody, something happens and you get really angry, that anger was inside of you. That person didn't create the anger. That anger was inside of you. Okay, so what do I need? Why did that trigger me? And what do I need to do to release that anger so that next time that happens again I don't react in the same way. Failed the test last time. Going to make sure I'm going to pass the test this next time, right? Where are you still hung up? Where are the triggers that are in front of you? It's so important to think of this way and to realize we're going to be here for life. Baby, like, there is no getting out of this thing. There isn't. You know, like, there's literally, if you guys have been following me long enough, I have a tattoo on my wrist you might be able to see. For those of you guys that are looking online, you know, there's a tattoo on my wrist, and it's a roman numeral for 10,000. Right? I've only got two tattoos. This is one of them. It's a roman numeral for 10,000. It's an X with the line above it. And because I personally believe in the 10,000 hour rule, which is I love the idea of mastering something, in order to master something, it takes 10,000 hours of deliberate practice. Not just like practicing, but deliberate practice pushing yourself to be better. Pushing yourself, push yourself, push yourself for 10,000 hours. The reason why I got this on my wrist is because I believe that personal mastery is not just a 10,000 hour thing. Personal mastery is the rest of your life thing. And once again, like I said earlier, that can be stressful for some people to think, oh, my God, I'll never get out of this race. I'll never get out of this classroom. Or it could be really freeing knowing I just got to wake up and try to get better each day. I just got to wake up and try to be nicer each day. I got to wake up and be less angry each day. I got to wake up and treat people better each day. I got to wake up and do one good deed for people every single day. So what are you here to learn? Where are you still hung up? And where do you have the opportunities to grow? Because that's all that we're here to do. Hey, thanks so much for watching this video. 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