The TRUTH about SOULMATES

Your soulmates are actually the people that aren't in your life forever. They're the people who come in, they challenge you, they make you realize your problems, your flaws, everything that you need to work on. You might break up with them, they might disappear, and then they make you better. Because we've all been in relationships that didn't work. And you realize they had flaws, but then you realize, crap, I got a lot of flaws too. Like, I really screwed up a lot of parts. And then you go into the next relationship, you try to work on that and try to make yourself better, and then you finally get into a relationship, hopefully, where you get with someone and they've worked on their self, you've worked on yourself, and you can come together. And I heard a phrase perfectly the other day, and it's like, don't try to turn your person, the person that you're in a relationship with. Don't try to fix them. Don't try to fix their flaws. Because what you're trying to do, if you're trying to fix them and fix their flaws, is make them a mirror of you. What you have to do is you have to love and accept yourself. And if you love and accept yourself for all of your flaws and all of your problems, you can look at someone else, you can love and accept them for all of their flaws and all their problems as well.