Instead of searching for a perfect partner, focus on becoming the best version of yourself. The speaker argues that internal growth while single naturally attracts a compatible, high-quality partner.
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How do you attract the perfect partner? Right? People always ask this question, but I think the question is inherently flawed. The real question should be, how can I build myself right now into the best partner that I can be? See, here's the reason why. When you are the best partner that you can be, when you're single, you can then attract the best possible person that aligns with the person that you have become. See, because so many people are looking out into the world for the perfect partner, but that's not the right way to do it. Looking inside and becoming the best partner that you can become will make you more likely to attract the person who is the best partner for you. So the secret with this is that you must become in order to attract.