Fear is the main thing stopping you from your goals. You're born with only two innate fears, loud noises and falling. Everything else you learned, and you can unlearn it. Name your biggest fear, calculate what it costs you to keep it, and decide to drop it.
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Lets be honest for a second. The real reason why you are not where you want to be is because you are afraid of something. I don't know what it is, but you're afraid of something. Fear of rejection, fear of being judged, the fear of succeeding, the fear of failure, the fear of running out of money, the fear of not being enough, the feel of not being smart enough or good enough or pretty enough or fit enough or whatever it is. The reason why you're not where you want to be is because you are afraid. And the question that I have for you is this. Are you going to allow fear to get in the way and ruin the one life that you have on this planet? Are you going to allow other people's opinions, thoughts of you or fears get in your way? Because here's the reality. Humans are born with two fears and two fears only. The fear of loud noises and the fear of falling. Therefore, if you have any other fear that is not the fear of loud noises and the fear of falling, you are allowing it to be there. A fear does not have to exist in your brain. You get what you tolerate. The question that you should ask yourself is, what is my biggest fear? And I'm not talking about fear of spiders or the fear of heights or anything like that. What's my biggest psychological fear that's holding me back from what I want to do with my life, my dreams, my passion? What is my fear that's holding me back? That's the first question you ask yourself. And the second question you ask yourself is by tolerating it, because you are tolerating it, you are allowing it to exist. By tolerating it, what is it costing me? What's my biggest fear? And by tolerating it, what is it costing me? And make the decision that it's not worth it anymore. That fear that you are allowing to exist is not worth it anymore. Give it up and realize that if you continue tolerating it, it will hold you back from the life that you want and the life that you deserve.
