Episode 132: How Kate Middleton (KB) Took Her Health Back, and You Can Too

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Welcome everyone. Today I have Kate Middleton, better known as kb, a toxic free lifestyle advisor and a passionate advocate for clean living. KB is the host of the health, wellness and lifestyle podcast Toxic Free with kb which is born out of her personal journey of health, Obviously in healing. Growing up in Kansas City, KB experienced firsthand the toll that environmental toxins and toxic relationships can take on the body and the mind. From repeated exposure to toxic mold and chemical laden foods to navigating dysfunctional relationships and battling autoimmune diseases, panic attacks and chronic illness, she spent years searching for answers. After countless doctors simply prescribed pills. Without addressing the root causes, KB took her health into her own hands. What started as a personal healing journey has now become a greater catalyst for change, helping others lead healthier, toxic free lifestyles. Through our podcast Toxic Free with kb, KB empowers people to make informed, healthier choices by reducing their toxic exposures in everyday life. Whether it's safer cleaning products, non toxic personal care, sustainable food choices, or fostering positive relationships. She shares expert insights and practical tips to help listeners create a cleaner, healthier and more nourishing environment for themselves and their families. Welcome to the show kb.

I'm so psyched to be here. We just had the best time down at the Health Optimization Summit down in Austin and like what a whirlwind. I'm like still on a high from that, so thanks for having me.

So KB had me on her show when she came to Austin to the Health Authorization Summit and then I feel like we spent a lot more time that day than we did at the show. The show was very busy. It was a wonderful gathering. To be honest. Tim Gray did a great job. Shout out and in any event I wanted to have you on because from a like our programming is about what you discuss and the conversations we have are aligned with what your show and your life and everything has evolved into. But I was going to ask you because I saw a show recently, I don't want to give it too much airtime, but they had a scientist, a PhD arguing with an MD about toxins. Things like trying to decrease toxins in the, in your everyday environment as well as groups like the environmental working Group kind of throwing them a fair amount of shade and trying to eat organic threw a lot of shade on that versus conventional eating and more product use. I mean the whole thing was just very, not confusing but just very antagonistic. The whole conversation was super antagonistic. Like you can't avoid it, chemicals are here, there's nothing you can really do about it. And then versus well, yeah, there are some things you can do about it, choices you can make, things you can actively do to, to maybe I guess I should pick the words. Not insulate yourself. That's probably not the best. Just decrease your, your actual number of exposures. I mean, yeah, for all intents and purposes. So I thought it was interesting we're going to talk about this, but I was getting revved up. Just listen to the, to the show as these two were arguing about stuff and I was like, man, this just seems too polar.

Yeah, like do right.

Like that was the whole thing. The host was just like, well, what should we do?

Well, I think it's like, I don't know if we can cuss on this show, but it's almost like one of those moments. We live in this world and it's almost like you're damned if you do if you do and you're damned if you don't. You know, it's like what can you do, what can you eat, what can you expose yourself to? And I think like if you become over perfectionistic with anything that you do in life, that's toxic in itself, right? We live in a toxic world. We get it. Everything is completely overwhelming as it is. My whole thing is you're doing your best and your best is great. Small baby steps create a huge catalyst of change overall.

Tiny habits, just making small changes. That's the whole point.

Yeah, doing better with what you know. And my whole premise, being a toxic free lifestyle advisor, being an advocate for my own health, being an advocate for other people's health, is that I'm here to educate people, right? Bring experts on like yourself, thought leaders, storytellers, people that share stories in community, right? That helps the whole tribe and we are a tribe here. So if you go back into the fear mentality and the fear mongering state, like you're not going to get anywhere in life. And that's kind of a little bit tangent out there. But I think baby steps with everything along the way. Baby steps with education, real education.

Right.

Remember what that was like, my husband and I this morning were just talking about how there's a decrease and you know, teen pregnancies, teen alcohol usage, they're becoming more frugal than ever, but they're more isolated.

Right.

So it's one of those things where it's like, where is the education in the world? Where is the human connection in the world? There's so many things that are lost. Let's bring it all back together, let's reconnect the body, the brain, all the body parts back together and really say like, all right, like what is my life all about? What am I going to do about it? You know, making choices, making really educated choices that work for your body.

I was not feeling like these. So I'm 55 and these were both people much younger than me who were saying this like. And I was like, well one in particular seemed, you know, to be, we'll say mid to late 30s. I may be effing that up, but that's fine. I'm like, okay, like you said, you don't want to be paralyzed by everything around us. It's got something that could be potentially harmful, but your choice making. And I have a 16 year old daughter and you know, she has all of her friends and they're all kind of coming into that age where they're running into problems with their hormones and choices. They make things they eat, how they perform in terms of academics and sports and that bleeds over into everything else where there's all the emotions around. I hate to say this, even appearances and all of the things, right? That's the. I try to be super mindful about that and it's a thing where can't go and tell them like that is such a short period in your life that will ultimately mean very, very little in totality. But it seems super hyper magnified at the time and everything's overwhelming when it's not. But it's. We let it become more and more overwhelming. I was giving a talk for that matter and I walked up to. There was another meeting I was at recently and I was giving a talk there and they said, oh, you're a speaker, Aren't you nervous? I'm like, well I operate on people for a living. So no, I don't get nervous. That would be a bad trait. But Just like being calm or like getting calmer and controlling your emotions and not being overwhelmed and that promote more anxiety and get more stressed out. And I think part of your whole thing was like dealing with your. Your basic life issues and traumas, and then that helps you, and then you can, like you said, move forward and take small steps with the rest.

Yeah, I think, you know, you put forth a really good example with a teenage girl. Let's use that as our picture. You've never been a teenage girl. I have. I have a teenage girl as well, so I can definitely relate. Anything that you tell them is going to be wrong.

Right.

But also that's a really great example for someone in just the normal world. Typically, a lot of people are listening to biased opinions out there, but until you understand from experience on your own terms of what's going on, maybe life experiences. You mentioned something as simple as doing the work yourself. Figuring out what works with you, you know, what works with your body, what works with your lifestyle.

Right.

What works with your nutritional needs, your environment, the relationships, the traumas that you've been through. It all goes back to be being radically authentically yourself and moving through life with intention. That is everything that I live and breathe. And I think if you realize, if one person realizes or practices those traits, they'll. They'll be like, wow, life is like, so much easier.

Right.

Truly.

A lot less work.

Lot less work for sure. A lot less pressure.

Yeah, I don't really, how do I say, Even when I was younger, I realized that I'm a Leo for everybody listening. I don't take advice very well, and I never valued anybody's opinion of me over my own. So you could never, like, it's hard to put one over on me or make me feel a certain way based on your behavior. You just never cared about what you thought. It was not really something that affected me that much. And then as I got older, it affected me a lot less. And I wasn't very good at controlling. I thought you were trying to take the piss out of me or pull one over on me. I was very apt to be unfiltered about that when I was younger. And it took me a while. As I got older, when people were being passive aggressive or trying to take the piss out of me, I would, like, lose it. And that's not good, you know, in terms of training and dealing with patient care settings. So I had to get better at that. And basically this may be something for everybody to understand is it's far scarier to have Someone stay silent in an argument and just take it in and not respond versus have an emotional outburst. People expect that. They don't really know how to cope with anybody who's super calm in that situation. And those are the persons, or how would you say, people you should fear the most, because they already know how to control their emotional state while you're losing yours. And so when people would make mistakes, which always happens, they would call me, oh, Dr. Whitfield. I did so. And so I'm like, okay. They would expect to get yelled at, but I wouldn't do that. It did no good. They're used to that. They've been that. That's been done to them their entire life. So it was far worse when I showed up. Because if you had done something really bad, I would make you fill out an incident report and describe what you had done badly in detail and then sign it so everybody knew about it.

Wow.

But I would never yell at them because all that would do would get you in trouble, or specifically me in trouble with my boss. And then. But I learned, you know, early on not to. It doesn't do you any good. You're not going to get anywhere in life. And you certainly can't build rapport or team that way. So the sooner you learn that lesson, the easier things become. I just. I feel bad for young, young folks. They just don't. Sometimes they don't have a lot of help in that. In understanding that.

Right.

I totally agree. I mean, I think it's like, goes back to composure. Yeah. Like, certainly, like, speaking your truth on that. But the composure of. It's almost like a meditative state to get that. Like, if you want to, like, jump into that. But it's almost like a meditative state of, like, being aware, like, emotionally aware instead of reacting. Yeah, totally.

I mean, people get, like. If they don't know what to do, they get emotional and they start raising their voice and the octaves go up, and that never solves anything. Then you have two people raising their voices.

You're like, what's going on here?

Ultimately amounting to nothing getting accomplished. So, like, it's a Definitely. Just like that whole show I was describing, they just kept raising their voices. I was like, the host has to, like, control this because it's not productive. One's just trying to talk over the other. And I was just like, oh, my gosh. All I'm trying to understand is, like, is there anything worth taking away from these two? Like, I'm sure they're very passionate about their positions. But like I can't tell if it's a worthwhile discussion or not yet. Yeah, I was just like, okay, well, I mean I'm having KB on tomorrow. This is. Yeah, like, you know, I mean, I've certainly in my opinion tried to guide folks to use the environmental working group, especially as it relates to products, to help identify things that could be more harmful. And certainly between skin care and supplements, I don't know which is more of a corrupt industry. So I always try to point people in a direction so something gets third partied and looked at because Lord knows they're not doing anything to safeguard what's going on. There's no regulatory body really.

No, I mean, I think the EWG is for anyone that does not know about environmental. It's hard to say Environmental working group. They are such a strict and beautiful outlet because they will not let anyone in that has not passed their approval.

Right.

Strict guidelines. And there's some really great. They do have an app now. So if you're consumer shopping for personal care, beauty care, things for your baby, all of those, those items, the household products, that's a really good resource. Another really great one, if you haven't heard, is the Yuka app. I think that's a really, really great. I mean I have so much fun. It's like a video game to me. You know, the gaming culture right now with the kids. This is like a video game to me. My husband will go to the market and I'll be like, let's check it on and check it out on the Yuka app. See how it passed the test, you know, because you can really get some solutions with that. My whole premise is solution oriented.

Right.

Instead of saying, no, you can't have this, no, you can't do this, this is going to kill you, whatever. Because they're all like, it's going to give you cancer in the end saying, okay, well what can I do? What can I have me. Part of my story is I've gone through a lot of restrictions in life. I have been dealt with, you know, celiac, which we all know you cannot have bread, you cannot be around those things. So instead of just saying, oh my God, this is my life, oh well, me going to, okay, what can I have? Like what can I substitute in for this? And I think those are really important messages to kind of put out there to just the whole community, the world. Like, let's kind of like reframe the mindset because that's also an element of life.

Right?

The mindset I think the Yuka app. And I had a patient and she said she was using that really early. I'm talking like 10 years ago. Which startling that someone would start to make those choices in 2015 when really wasn't on the radar, so to speak. And she wanted to start a family and she had just decided she was going to start doing this. So she started adjusting her home care products. She started adjusting her personal care products and taking things out. And KB's familiar with my program. So we do a tox test and it's a urine test and looks for environmental toxins, things like phthalate levels and glyphosate levels and mycotoxin levels and heavy metal levels. And she had the least amount of things show up on her test and nothing in a moderate to severe category. It's the only person in the history of my practice I've ever tested who had breast implants who didn't have any of those elements on their test findings. But it was all conscious decision making, like you've described in your show and discussed on my show about making choices. And she just did that for such a long period of time. So when people say you can't do that. Well, I of course have examples of obviously you can. Once you're problem aware, you can make choices. And then those small habitual changes, like you said, those become actionable and they make a difference. So I know you didn't go on to have breast implants. We talked about it previously. But that particular patient, in addition to all those other things, has this extremely supportive spouse and a great family. And she kb just cruised through the.

Surgical process because of her lifestyle beforehand. Right?

Right. So I always have this inside my head thinking I need three to six months of Runway with these folks to help get them into a better position. But not really someone like that because they've been doing that for years. Not just meeting me and. Or meeting you and be going, oh, well, that's something I should be doing now. I should be checking these things.

Right.

Overwhelmed, I think totally preparation. I mean, we could even talk about this with like, you know, the reproductive system.

Right.

Husband w. Whatever they want to. That's just one example. They want to have a baby.

Right.

And one of the wife's like, I'm having fertility issues, something's going awry. And they think, oh my gosh, it's me. But then also it's, guess what, maybe the Mr. As well. And so it's like, how do we prepare? You know, the leeway you have to actually clean those vessels up.

Right.

You both. It takes two to tango, right? I know you and I started talking about that a lot on my show, and we really didn't get to, like, jump into it about how the male is actually another huge health element to the female's wellbeing.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure. I would say, obviously, I'll be biased because I take care of predominantly women, but I don't choose to take care of men because typically they have. They're not as prone to listen to what I have to say. They're not going to follow instructions. They have low pain tolerances, typically. And I just don't have any bandwidth for that in my career anymore. So I predominantly take care of women, but the issues are the exact same short of the reproductive system and foreign bodies can be in men, too. Knee implants, hip implants, predominantly, they may have other things. All this kind of sitting at desk is terrible for people's backs. So many of them already have problems with their back at a younger age and maybe suffering from inflammation. So basically, what KB is not saying that we'll just say out loud and talk about is everybody has a certain amount of inflammation, and that inflammation is what creates a lot of problems with a lot of things. And fertility is one of them.

Yeah, a hundred percent. I mean, diet, nutrition, lifestyle, all of that comes into play.

Right?

And I was told, gosh, it was many, many years ago, pre Covid. It was a rainy day. I was walking from my office, I don't know, get a coffee, whatever. But there was this old man that just came up to me. I didn't even know who he was. And he handed me this newspaper clipping, a little cartoon, but then it had a quote on it, and it says, I'm going to totally butcher it. But it said, of all the decisions that you have to make, remember that each decision that you make makes you in the end. So for every decision that you have to make, each decision makes you. So it goes back to. We'll use food as an example. Someone that says, oh, but I can't do this. Oh, but I can't do that. Yes, but you can. You have every control in your body to make the decisions. You get to put the fork in your mouth at the end of the day, right? So for everything that you get to do, you get to do the preparation. It's your body, it's your vessel. You can do what you want with it. You've been given this amazing gift. But it also goes back to another thing that you Mentioned was support. I think support with anything with any lifestyle change. If someone wants to like start cleaning up their life, support is a huge thing. If you don't have your team right there with you or this is. Yeah. Do you.

Great.

Then nothing's gonna change.

All right. Both my wife and I used to. We'll say drink more. We would have like more of a happy hour type vibe at our home. We would have, you know, I'd make handmade, you know, margaritas. I was like notorious for it at my, my home. And I guess became more interested in not feeling, you know, run down or tired the next day. Because if you drink a little bit before you. You sleep or a little bit too much before you sleep, your sleep really tanks. And last night we went out and met folks at a happy hour. But I just had some mocktails, almost like a. Like a. It would be like a mojito without the alcohol.

It was good. Yeah.

Sugar. They did a nice job with it. I just had a couple. And then I like cut fluid intake off at a certain time because I don't want to be. Someone has to wake up and go to the bathroom all night or anything like that. They're all just conscious things. I do. And I'm not having a bad time. I was having a good time with everybody just, you know, chatting it up, but I just wasn't having a drink. And the, you know, the folks who were there, there's no judgment. I mean, most of the guys were drinking beer, bunch of carbs. It's just. It's not going to serve you well. It just won't.

Ye. You know, and it goes back to. Everyone's going to have to. The teenage effect. I'm going to call it the teenage effect. Living from experience. There's going to be a certain amount of repetition that someone's going to wake up and be like, God, I feel like crap today. Gosh, I didn't make my 6:30am workout like I told my friend Billy I would. You just keep falling off and you. They have to learn from experience. And yeah, certainly they may change, they may not change. And they may want that better life.

Right.

They will whatever their goal is. Everyone's different. But you have to learn from experience, I think. And it isn't until you are sick of. Tired of being sick and tired that probably not going to make a change.

Right.

And that's usually what happens. And that's what happened in my life. I know. Definitely with so many different cases. And that's why I am here and Why I do what I do today?

Because yours was Renaud's. You had a problem with Reynolds.

Yeah, so I was diagnosed with Reynolds at a very young age. I was. I think my first instance, I was my first major flare, I should say was, oh, gosh. I was a junior, end of junior year in high school. The first onset that I should say was probably eighth grade. And that was in a form of, like, an extreme migraine, though. So that probably should have been the first indication that I had some trauma stuck in my body that just systemically wanted to get out. And it was very interesting because my thumb, I will never forget. I was in a fibers class in high school, and my thumb literally swelled up so big for people that are not on the YouTube. Like, I'm literally showing, like, a size, and I didn't know what to do with myself. I was an athlete in sports, but I had so much extreme stress in my life. That definitely was a kicker of the flare up. My parents were getting divorced almost a senior in high school. What are you gonna do next? All the stress and pressures of high school, swimming, all the sports. There was a lot going on. But it's so interesting. There's that amazing book called the Body Keeps the Score. And it's not until you realize, you know, you get older, what, I'm 37 now, and you realize, oh, yeah, the body does keep the score. So with Renaud's, you know, I had these doctors, you know, my mom was a functional nutritionist, so we lived a pretty clean life for living in the Midwest. But these doctors didn't know what to do. They're, like, throwing pills at me. Pills that, like, literally tore up my stomach, dampened my mood. And I am such a sensitive being that I was like, I don't want to live this life. So I kind of dedicated from there on out to kind of just be an advocate for my own health. Especially going into, you know, my early 20s, too. No one's ever going to tell you, but your 20s suck. Maybe some people have, like, a lot of fun, but it's like, not the best time, like, self discovery of, like, what to do with your body and, like, what to do with your lifestyle and stuff. But I had to be an advocate for my own health. And, you know, I think through the independent research that I did hours and hours and hours at night, just figuring out how to feel better, how to feel more comfortable in life. For anyone that doesn't understand what Renaud's is, it's when you have really poor circulation in Your fingers and your toes and the littlest things can set you off and make you feel really uncomfortable. It could be wind outside, it could be an oncoming rainstorm coming on. It could be the heat going through your house that's drying your skin up. It's a really interesting thing because people would look at me and they'd be like, you are literally you, you're glowing. You look like the epitome of health. But for someone that has chronic illness, that they don't understand what the feeling is. So when it comes to living a toxic free lifestyle, you have to be very diligent about every choice that you make in life. Is this going to serve me in the end? So then, Dr. Rob, we go back to those tiny habits, those tiny habits in life, you know, whether it's who am I associating myself with, are they draining my energy in life? Is that a toxic boyfriend that I dealt with? Yeah, I've dealt with those for sure. We can go on that if you want to. I'm totally open to that dysfunctional household upbringing. The foods that you're putting in your body, are you putting chemicals in your body? Are you putting foods in your body that are actually lighting you up? You know, we are biophotons. You know, we are made of light giving you energy. What are you consuming audibly, visually, on the daily basis? The news, all those things, these are all get stored in your body's memory system. Know the environment that you live in, do you have clean airflow, right? Or are you living in a moldy, toxic environment? I've definitely gone through mold three times. We get it and like workplace environment, that's a huge thing too. Who are you associating yourself in the workplace? Do you have joy in your life? Do you feel like you have purpose in your life? And then we go back to personal care and beauty, right? You were just mentioning that is so under regulated in our world. And going back to, I'll call it the teenage effect. They're using everything on their body, the things they wash their hair with, the makeup, all the scents, all the fragrances, everything is getting stored in your hormones. They're becoming hormone disruptors, endocrine disruptors. So these are all things that through baby steps, through being radically self aware of your body, your life, how your body works, what you're sensitive to, what sets you off, what throws your central nervous system off. I think that's step one, getting quiet. You gotta get quiet with yourself. Listen. Listen to your body. So in a nutshell, there we go.

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You are? Yeah. For sure.

It's not. I just tell everybody that I'm. It's not going to magically get better because I operate on somebody. So, like, showing up thinking that I just. I immediately, like, I put that into perspective as I can. So how did you. On your own, kind of learn from reading and researching to make your own Renaud's heal either through, like, you know, improvement in your diet or sleep or the other holistic, you know, options you use.

So I still deal with. Not as severely, I would have to say. I think getting smart and doing things, I mean, as simple as people. Okay. It's very interesting because people are like, just put on gloves. Just put on gloves. But it's. Yeah, it truly is something internal and it's very systemic, I think. And this might sound a little woo woo, but one of the things is doing deep work and being honest with myself. Every woman in my family has Raynaud's. I, for some reason, have it the most severe. And I think when you go back to childhood traumas, this is. I'll go back to your question, but when you go back to childhood traumas and ancestral traumas that get passed down through utero, I'll talk through female. Like, I truly believe that me being in the dynamic that I was and being the smiley face of the family, trying to hold everything together, everyone together, everyone's okay. We got this. I think that does a number to the body of being constantly in fight or flight.

Right.

And so I think through work, I work with a therapist constantly, and I think there's a lot of people that say, I don't need a therapist. I think therapy is amazing. And it's not about going and like, spilling your life every time. Sometimes you just have to strategize the next step or just tighten the bolts in your life.

Right.

But, Dr. Rob, as you know, if you have someone there listening to you, and then you can just literally kind of like spill it out to them, things start spinning and the client or your patient will start to figure out the solutions of what they need themselves. It's just that thing about the young child, right? You put your baby to sleep at night, they start crying. You could run in there and save them, right? Or you could let them figure, this sounds horrible, but you can let them figure it out and sell, soothe themselves and say, well, what's really going on in here? Am I okay? It's like putting the dog in the kennel. The dog's okay. Let them calm, let them relax, let them figure it out. So by me doing all this research, finding out, okay, I could try this, I could try that, I could freak out and try this modality. I said, okay, what does my body need from where it's been right now? We'll use the inner child concept, asking that little girl, what do you need right now during this freakout? Your body is freaking out. It's going to have a flare up, you know, it's going to have a flare up tomorrow because the kids were crazy today, you know, and you've already felt stressed out and you're going to have maybe a flare up tomorrow. What can you do right now to make you calm? All right, go back to the tools in my toolbox. What did I experiment on myself that worked the last time, Might work this time, might not. Maybe it's a bath. I know, right? Something that just totally calms you down. Maybe it's going for a walk around the block. Maybe it's going for a hike. Get out into nature. Nature is so healing. We are so connected, but disconnected right now in the world. So putting your feet on the grass, right? Feeling the earth touching a tree, petting your dog. And I think, you know, as I mentioned before, we have been given this awesome gift of a vessel of ourself, our body. We can experiment on it through cellular healing, right? I'm so obsessed right now with cellular healing, getting to the root cause of things. And I think for people that don't understand even what that is, I think it's understanding your genes and how they work. So you put an example out there about supplements too. People think, oh, supplements can help me, they can save me. Yeah, but certain supplements are not going to be absorbed in your body if you have certain genetic methylation markers. So how can you, like, rewire your body and make it work for you? So there are so many different modalities and people can certainly chime into my DM and or chime into my Instagram dm me and ask me specific questions. But I think some things that I learned at 37 now that, like, getting quiet first thing in the morning is really important to me so I can listen to my body and my brain. Because if not, as you said, those people that come into your office and they start squawking, you know, like crows, and they're like, I have to do this, I have to do that. They don't get the time to filter it out. The rumination just constantly will go and go and go. And that's what exacerbates stress in the body overall.

Trying to get everybody to, you know, concentrate more on their getting calmer, especially at night. There's all this, like, I don't know that it ramps up, but I prioritize this. And then people who say, you know, they sleep whatever, four hours a night, it's so stupid. Like, y' all have never worked. And I hope you never have to work like I did in training, which was all the time up all night doing these long shifts and working the next day. All those things terrible for your, for your body. It's definitely aged me. But the military has done all these studies where performance drops after six and a half hours of sleep. You reduce it below that, your performance drops. And they did this with, of course, snipers because they can measure their performance on the range, and it just drops after that. So I always try to give patients this range, like seven to nine hours. That's your range, that's where. And you may be different, I may be different. Am I trying to not over influence people with wearables? I'm always getting asked to trial a wearable and use a wearable to track sleep so that I can convey what I know to patients. Not to create anxiety about tracking those things, because that's another whole nother problem, that wearable anxiety or whatever. But trying to get calm at night. Don't eat late, don't drink fluids late, Have a little cooler room, dark room, not a lot of light sound. If you need it to be super quiet, make it super quiet. If you need a little sound machine, have a sound machine. Like whatever it takes to get you in the right place. And then resonance breathing is this concept. Leologos, who's a PhD who wrote a book about HRV that I like. It's not breath work in that you're getting rapid breathing and all that stuff. This is more belly breathing, like a baby. In through nose, out through mouth, holding counts of four, dropping your diaphragm, expanding it more, getting More airflow in just to help with your hrv, which is really one of the best estimates of recovery. And that's why we look at it. So I briefly try to explain you're going to start making these small changes and not drink out of plastic, try to use ceramic and stainless and glass and not reheat things in plastic, not eat processed foods, things that have too much sugar or too many preservatives in them, and just try to do these simple things. And I always want people putting more protein in their diet because women and the western diet in general just doesn't have enough good protein in it. So it's always kind of a struggle. And my vegan clients have the most trouble just because of a dietary perspective. So we have a vegan based protein. So we're trying to do all these basic behavioral things and everybody should hear, I didn't say anything about surgery yet because I'm never going to start with a surgical plan because that's, I know how to do that. I don't need to bring that to the table to start with. Like, I'm going to make sure that, that just like if you're talking about all these other things are in motion and you're trying to learn and grow from them so it could be easier for you.

Yeah. Everything comes into play in the end. And I think it goes back to like understanding yourself, like truly understanding yourself, connecting to your body, understanding what your health needs are. Because we're so quick to, especially in the Western medicine world, we're so quick to jump on the bandwagon of saying, well, the doctor told me this, the doctor told me this. But is the doctor in your body, does the doctor live with you every single day? Does the doctor live with your mindset and all the things that are telling you you can't do something or you can do something, or you intuitively are feeling this a good example. Yesterday I was like, for some reason I hadn't had walnuts in a long time and I was like, I really feel like a walnut. And we'll talk about cortisol.

Right?

My cortisol has been a little high lately and for some reason then later that night I was like, I was looking up cortisol reducing foods and walnuts was one of them. So that goes back to intuitively knowing what your body needs. Listening to that.

Right.

That's just a little example.

Right.

To be able to do that, though most people, there's a lot of noise in their lives and listening to themselves, it's very challenging. I get these come in and they are struggling and try to get them. They don't know how to make choices. I guess that, that seems like an odd thing, but if they didn't, if they weren't taught properly or, or that was, that little bit of wisdom wasn't imparted on them on how to, how to choose. And they struggle to make choices. That makes it hard for their kids. And things are already hard enough. You don't need to make them any harder. That's, you know, these, these crazy sugary drinks and oh God, snacks. And I was just like, wow, okay. Well, there are things like I will say this. So this would be a take home for everybody. So I had this patient, lovely patient, really struggling kids have some concentration problems in school, behavior problems at home. And she disclosed to me they drink energy drinks at home. Youngest person in the household is seven. Oldest is in the canes. And they eat a fair amount. Their snacky thing was chips. And then they. But kids like Kenny, okay, you know, I was a kid, I like candy too.

Yeah.

I said, well, there's a couple things. Like first of all, everybody listening should know this. I won't take you as a patient when you eat like that. I can't help that person. So I said, if you want to be my patient, we're going to help you make some choices for yourself and your family. And so you're not going to have energy drinks like a monster or a Red Bull anymore. And you know, if you're an adult, I can give you a mold free, highly tested, toxic free coffee suggestion. And then they're like, well, I like to put a bunch of stuff in my coffee. I'm like, that's not why you drink coffee. Coffee is a source of caffeine, not a source of sugar. To dress up your coffee, that's a whole different problem. You just have an addiction to sugar if that's, that's what you want. So that's just changing that behavior for them and then for their kids. Although I don't endorse this product, I have no relationship with it. I said, instead of getting them those things, just there's at the store, you can buy them. Zevia. It's not a, you know, it's not perfect, but it's a better alternative than what you're doing.

Yeah.

And it's still got that sweetness that kids are, you know, after. And I said, there's an Austin company, Human Chocolate, it was sold, but the carp families in Austin, that's where it's from. Anyway, I said, you can get this chocolate and take away whatever Skittles and eminent. Whatever the sugary stuff was. And you're just substituting these things. They're just higher quality, better for them in certain amounts. Not like, you know, it's the choice thing, Right? You're just making a choice to do something. Is it perfect? No, I'd love that person just to drink, like, mineral water or filtered water.

Yeah.

You know, have the chocolate. I actually like human chocolate and dark chocolate. That's something I like.

I mean, there are such. There. Okay. For all the parents that are listening out there that are maybe like, I don't know, but this is what's being advertised or marketed to me, so I guess I'll get it. And my. My kids want that. And I want to make them happy. I want to please them. I don't want to deal with conflict. Like, deal with the conflict now. Because later on in life, trust me, like, if you're saving your child a lifetime of diabetes or obesity or overwhelming healthcare costs, guys remember, they may not think it's a problem today, but later on down the road, trust me, it will be like. And I'm just gonna say that totally, honestly, totally bluntly, I think also going back to the parents, there are a lot of hacks, right? It's not like being like, all right, energy drink one day, plain water the next day. It's about slowly moving the attic to. Because those kids are getting addicted to those things, right? These are basically. The Internet's gonna come at me for this one. They're basically gateway drugs to other things. Like, I am a huge believer in that. Because they're messing up their sleep cycles, they're messing up their hormones, their moods are dysregulated, right? So if someone's. If you have a child that's screaming at you and has attention deficit disorder, look at what their gut microbiome is ingesting. Because your gut is your second brain. Your brain is your second gut. It's a big old cycle here, right? And so this goes back to the education piece, right? Like, what are the hacks that you can use in life, right? So if you're moving away from. Let's use a milkshake as an example. You know, you drive through, you go through a drive through, you get a milkshake, okay? Why don't you say, like, hey, kids, like, let's make our own milkshakes at home, right? What can you put in there? Get a date. Well, but better than some other things, right?

They don't Know that. But that is a very sweet fruit.

It is very sweet and it has carbs. But you go through the drive through and you get one thing right, highly processed and you get something else that is used in other cultures as such. Stabilization factor for energy.

Right.

So there are some other things that you can slowly build the building blocks. And also parents. Oh my gosh. Can I tell you, you don't even have to like preach to your children about eat this, don't eat that. Lead by example. Lead by example. If you are, you know, like at the end of the day, you know, just throwing in the towel and just whatever. Gosh. What's an example? Like drinking a bottle of wine. Sorry, I'm going to use that example. Just drinking a whole bottle of wine. How do you and your kids are seeing that as self soothing your emotions from a quote unquote hard day? What are they going to do at the end of the night? Okay, let's go eat a pint of ice cream.

Right.

Because that's the only way that they know how to reciprocate for them or interpret for them that same emotion as a child. So you have to think about what your actions are showing the kids. That was a pretty drastic one. But it's truth. It's truthful.

Made me laugh about what I do because I stop eating so early. Like people think I'm like this super old person now because I, I stop eating at like 6. I love it because I don't. Eating late really bothers my sleep. So I just get up so early. So. But I agree, like those self soothing things are just, they're coping mechanisms whether it's food or alcohol or, or something else. People want to go to the gym and exercise at night. Which also will wreck your sleep if you do it too close to when you go to sleep. Because that's their stress relief mechanism. They got to go run or they got to do whatever and then you're over training. Women over train all the time anyway. But like it's super disruptive.

Yeah, that's a great. I'm such a. I over train. Like I totally overtrain because I've been programmed as a child. I've been an athlete my whole life life. So I've been in organized sports. So it almost gets to. When you get older to life, you're like, what do I do? Like gotta go for my trail run. Gotta go to my yoga class now. Okay. Gotta go walk the dogs. It's like programmed into your mind. So I'm actually at this age Trying to work on. Okay, what can I do for my meditation today? Like right before we got on, I put like my red light panel over my face and just sat there and was breathing. I was just like, I'm just breathing. Slowing down.

Yeah. Overtraining is a huge problem in my patients. You know, they'll come and want to do say for instance a fat transfer like I think we talked about a little bit and I told you, like they'll be cycling and doing interval training and running or doing a hit or something. Like these things make no sense to me. CrossFit. I like, I can't.

Oh, I can't fathom CrossFit. Don't get me started.

Can't help you if that's.

Yeah.

Make that adjustment like you said to walking and lifting and like walking's a great exercise. So great walking outside and the. My wife always, you know, wants to go and have a nice walk in the evening. Often it's a little bit challenging sometimes with the heat, but we try to do that and we need to do it more frequently because it's a great exercise. What I tell my patients to do walking is always 100% Dr. Rob approved. That's the exercise after surgery. Never going to get a no. If you ask me to go walking, it's always going to be a yes, of course, totally fine. So you travel a ton. So like all the things you're doing, like what are you doing to, you know, keep yourself balanced when you travel and maybe like something you've discovered that's really helped when you travel to keep yourself, you know, in balance.

I love this, my toxic free travel hacks. So I as I started traveling a lot, I mean I go internationally in Indonesia. All the things I have basically my, my travel packs that I always have ready to go. So whether it's my go to supplements that I have, fish oil, probiotics, all the things that I need. But then also I think it's really important I have like greens powders, green powders that I put in my, my little bags. I take my protein powders that I actually on long distance flights because I really would never, I never eat airplane food. Absolutely hard. No for me. So I pack my own snacks, right. I always pack like an apple, some veggie, maybe some nut butters. But I also make out of my protein powder. I use an Amazonian protein called Sacha inchi. Yeah, talk about it. It's literally has omega 3 sixes and nines in it. So amazing. And I make a nut butter with my Greens, powder and a little cinnamon. I know it's like so much in the airplane. I ask them for a cup, and I just add a little water, and you can literally make a nut butter right there. And then you have all your snacks with you, too. That's one travel hack. The other thing is, when I'm on the road, the place that I'm staying in, I make sure it is an environment that I will feel comfortable with, because you have to make sure that, as you said before, you're getting the sleep that you need.

Right.

So also, I live. I don't drink coffee, but I do drink a lot of tea. So I pack my tea bags and I do the research before I travel to the area. I'm going now, can I have an electric tea kettle in the room? If I'm staying in a hotel room where I can make my tea every day, that's one hack. The second thing is, do they have a yoga mat in their gym?

Right?

Do they have a gym? Do they have an environment around there? Like, when I was in Austin, I loved it because I'm a swimmer. I went to the Barton Springs and I swam, like, every day. And just connecting to the earth, something that could calm me down and keep me in my routine that I'm used to. I think anything that keeps you in your routine. Another travel hack that I like to do is to keep your immunities up. Try to find places that have, like, turmeric shots or ginger shots that you can always douse those down. I pack those quicksilver ampoules of their, like, really concentrated sea mineral water. Yeah, you've got to check them out. I'll have to send you some, but they have, oh, gosh. Like, all the trace minerals. Magnesium, boron, potassium, all of those elements that need to go through our bloodstream and keep us hydrated on the go. Really great to take in an airplane as well. But also something that is kind of interesting. What people think is, I always go and buy a. I don't eat animal, but I buy a mineral broth. So in a jar. You can find them at most grocery stores. And I either heat it up in my electric tea kettle in the hotel room, or I just sip on it. Mineral broth keep those immunities up.

Right.

So there are so many more things that I could probably jump out there. I mean, like, I go to the point where I'm like, do I have a bathtub in my room? Can I go buy some Epsom salt and take a bath during the night? Nights, I Typically do that as well. So I don't like your cortisol gets raised so much when you travel, you're in radiation from the airplanes, all these things. So if you have the ability to do or have the time to do services, even when you're out there, explore the city, maybe get a lymphatic work while you're out there or wherever you're going, go for a walk, move your body. But I think movement is key and getting sleep and not over trashing your body and being like, well I'm out of town. Because yeah, there's gonna be probably a lot of like dinners out there and you have to consistently. No, seriously, Dr. Rob, I don't take a break from my lifestyle. I still live the same lifestyle. I don't say like, well I'm gonna, I'm out of town. I'm not in my like normal routine, I'm gonna change it. No, like when I order out, I still kind of order the same way I would order at home or pretend I'm in my kitchen.

Right.

Whether you're getting takeout or room service, try to create something that you would create that's healthy in your kitchen. So they're just a couple.

I mean we do the same things. I was just at this meeting and I wouldn't go to a dinner meeting at 7:30 or 8 because I was.

Like it's too late, it's just not.

So I would just go eat and I'd stop by and you know, there's just things that are not negotiable and those are part of them nowadays. So I appreciate you sharing all those things. Are any last tips or tricks you think that 100% they should start maybe doing today that would really help them lead a more toxic free lifestyle? Started today.

Oh my gosh. I think the first thing is, and this just came to my mind, well two things saying no more like honestly saying no because that grows such a strength muscle within yourself. We are born to be people pleasers.

Right?

I know. At least I was a people pleaser and it harmed me for a lot of my life. And I think even if you're talking about toxic free relationships, showing someone who you really are in the beginning and just saying like, Dr. Rob, you said I don't eat after 7 or 8. No, I don't. No, that's just part of my lifestyle. And if someone else has a problem with it, that's on them.

Right.

But you have created such a great life for yourself. So say no more.

Right.

Do you need to Go to bed early. I'm sorry, I cannot go out tonight. I need to go to bed. Or I'm sorry, I cannot go to dinner tonight. I really need to take a bath. I can literally feel that I'm burnt out of life. Those are just some examples because I know everyone's going through it.

It.

The second thing is I think people need to simplify more. Okay? There's. We live in a world where, as you said, wearables. There's so many gadgets out there. Try this, try that, eat this, eat that, do this, skincare, do that, skincare, whatever it is, buy this, buy that. Our houses are just storage systems at this point. Simplify, simplify, simplify your routines. You don't have to go here, you don't have to go there. Say no. You know, see what that does to your mental health. I think I'm such a huge advocate for mental health. I've gone through a lot of junk in my life and I think, you know, mental health is everything. And if you can understand what thinking clearly and moving throughout a day with choice, you know, okay, if you have not a full schedule on your plate because it's simplified or you don't feel rushed to get to the next thing, don't feel rushed to get to a yoga class. Like, if you feel rushed to get somewhere, then that's probably not the right decision in your day. But simplifying your life, right? Simplifying your friendships, right? What are the quality friendships there? What are the quality foods in your life? What are the quality items in your home environment? What are the quality products that you're using in your life?

Right?

So there we are.

Well, thank you for coming on. I appreciate, you know, all the wisdom and tips and tricks, and we look forward to seeing you in Austin again soon.

Yeah, I think I'm going to be back there very soon. I'll give you a ring for sure.

Thank you so much.

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