If you don't have a better idea, don't criticize. The speaker argues against performing for approval or begging permission to exist, and frames interactions as trades of value instead.
The rule: if you don't have a better idea, you don't get to bitch about the one on the table. Period. You are not there to perform. You are not begging them to like you. You're not trying to earn permission just to exist. You're there to trade value, not sacrifice yourself on the altar of, please don't be angry at me.
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