3 Steps to Making a Change in Your Life

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Welcome to this episode of Hit Blitz. I want to talk to you today about three steps to making a change in your life. You know, many times we can feel stuck in a situation and we want to have something different, do something different, be something different, get different results. But we feel stuck or we don't feel motivated or. Or we just don't see any way to change. So today I want to talk about three steps to making a change in your life. I recently have realized that over this last year, I have not ran as much competitively. And so I just haven't ran as much at all. Last year, many of you know I completed the Pikes Peak Ascent. It's a half marathon up to to the top of Pikes Peak. And it was a really difficult time. I finished, I met my goal. I finished even faster than my biggest goal. But then after that, I just stopped running. I think I was a little bit maybe burnt out. And so this year, 2015, I just haven't ran very much. I've hiked, I've walked. As a result, I've gained a few pounds. I was realizing the other day I usually don't weigh myself, but I'd gained about five pounds. My legs are less muscular and more flabby and I still look fine. My clothes still fit me, but I can see the road that I'm starting to go down. Some of you may be seeing some red flags, whether it's in your health, in your relationships, in your business, in your finances. Maybe you're starting to see the debt rack up a little bit more than you want to on that credit card. Or maybe your relationships are more strained than they used to be. Or maybe you're just not feeling as well health wise. Or there may be other red flags and you know you want to change. I have known this for months, literally months. And people that know me know I'm an action taker. I'm a doer. Let's go. But for some reason, I have not been able to get myself to get back into a good routine with exercise. And one of the steps I took is I was able. I purchased a treadmill. It's an inexpensive treadmill. I'm going to eventually have a blog post where I show my setup. And what it does is I'm able to make it work with the desk that I have. And so I have a treadmill desk now. So I'm getting a lot more steps in during the day. But that doesn't completely solve the problem because that's really not like fat burning or burning a ton of calories, but it's at least getting me moving. So the other day I came home from vacation and I just realized I'm not happy with the direction that my health is going, with my weight and with how I'm feeling and with how I'm starting to look. And I wanted to make a change so many times. The first step to making a change in your life, if you want different results, you need to do something different. You know the quote that says, what is the definition of insanity? Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and over again and expecting different results. What area in your life have you been doing that? Maybe it's in your marketing, your social media marketing. You're doing the same thing over and over and over, and you're just frustrated that you're not getting different results. Well, maybe it's time for you to try something different. You know, maybe it's with your relationships, you just keep feel like you keep hitting a wall with certain person in your life and it's just over and over and over. But you keep doing the same things, expecting different results or your finances or your health, exercise, eating right, whatever it is, it begins with a decision to do something different. Different. So that was the first step for me. And right now you can't see me, but I'm sitting here in my office with my brand new shoes, my Nike shoes. I'm a Nike girl. They fit my feet well and I like them. We have a Nike outlet just not too far from us in Castle Rock, Colorado. And I got them for a great deal too. So I love bargain shopping. I love getting great deals. So I'm, you know, I came home from vacation, I realized, okay, I want to feel different. I want to change the direction that things are going with my weight, with my health. And so I need to do something different. And I decided it was time anyways to get new shoes. My other ones were getting worn out, so I got out my new shoes. You know how that kind of just feels exciting sometimes? Kind of like this time of year. I just got a new planner. I'm getting ready to start on January 1st. That's kind of exciting. You know, it's getting something new. And so that was the first thing that I did. And then I just decided, you know what, I was tired from coming home from vacation. But my husband CJ was getting ready to go to the gym and so I decided to go to the gym with him. And I walked and jogged. I ran for a good portion of the time. And yesterday I was walking on the treadmill. Or I mean the day before yesterday I was walking on the treadmill. And then I did. I have a little app on my iPhone and it's a seven minute exercise routine. I did that two times. It's strengthening and it's just a step in the right direction. It's doing something different. And so that's the first thing. Sometimes when you want different results, you need to do something different. Now the second thing, I've been listening to a lot of different trainings and audios and reading books on planning and setting goals and getting different results in your life because I'm preparing for a virtual planning retreat. It's going to be open to all of the author, audience, academy members and you can find out more about it at P L A N I T D A y Com. It's a spin on words for Planet Day. The subtitle is the world is waiting and I'm getting ready for this virtual planning day and I'm really excited for it. And so the second step is sometimes you simply need to take responsibility and realize you can make a change in your life if you're not happy in an area of your life. You know, there are certain circumstances out of our control, but there are always things that that are within our control. Number one is our attitude. I posted something about this on Facebook this week and a lot of people resonated with it. You can go to my personal Facebook page and still see it. And I posted the quote by Charles Swindoll about our attitude. And he believes that 90% of life is not due to our circumstances, but due to our attitude. And only 10% really relates to our circumstances. Yes, there are 10% of the time there are certain things we cannot change we are not in control of, but we can take responsibility for many, many things. I encourage you to think about what is something you can take responsibility for.

And realize that you have control. You have the ability. And for me personally, as a Christ follower, I know that God has gifted me with the ability to make decisions, to take action. And he doesn't expect me just to sit around and pray and ask him to have things fall from the sky. He expects me to do my part to trust him to have faith, but to do what I can do as well. And so that's the second Step is to take responsibility. Then the third step is to start somewhere. I've been listening to a lot on Zig Ziglar. I love him. He is a mentor of mine. Even though he's passed away. He was a business person that integrated his faith in a powerful way. People would come to know Christ at his conferences, and yet he is known worldwide. And even people who are not Christians respect him and his advice in business. I just, I really, really like his stuff and encourage you to read some of his books and listen to his audios. But I was listening to his audio on goal setting the other day and he was talking about his own life and how he got started into losing weight. And he said he just first had to start just walking. I think he said he would walk around the block and then the next day he would walk a little bit further and then a little further and then you start running. And then, you know, it's like one little step at a time. And basically.

The moral of the story is that our small, consistent actions over time are what will make the biggest difference in our life over the long haul. It's not the big things usually, because, yeah, you can have a big thing that really goes. But in order to truly make real big gains in your health, in your relationships, in your finances, in your business, it's going to take consistency, those small, consistent actions over time. And so start somewhere. Start small. Like I started with that seven minute exercise app. Seven minutes. I can do that. I can do that. That's something that I can do. If you are struggling with your finances, just starting to pay off the small, smallest credit card, my husband and I did that years ago. We were in tons and tons of debt and we used the Dave Ramsey debt snowball method where we started with the smallest, paid that off, and then you roll what you were paying on that credit card into the next payment, then pay that off, and then you just keep going forward on that. So I encourage you today, what is one area in your life that you want to make a change in? This is the time of year a lot of people think about what they want to do differently. Resolutions. And take these three steps. If you want different results, you need to do something different. What is something different you can do in that area? Number two, start taking responsibility for what you can control, for the things you can make a change in the things you can do. And number three, start somewhere, even if it's small. Like for me, just getting on these pair of new running shoes and going running the other night, it felt like a breakthrough. I can't explain it, but there was something that happened, even mentally, just taking that step. So I encourage you to get started on something new and I would love for you to join me in our planning day that's coming up. It's planitday.com P L-A-N-I-T-A-Y.com and I want to help you have an amazing year. Next year, this will be a training that will be available.

Ongoing, so even if you're listening to this podcast months or years later, you can access it and get all the information@planitday.com thank you so much for listening to this podcast. I appreciate you so much and I'll see you next time.

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