A parent shares how her daughter needed calm presence, not advice, after a friend conflict. Instead of solving the problem, she listened and asked what her daughter actually needed. The speaker argues parents must do their own inner work to raise their vibrational energy and truly support their kids.
Today my daughter told me that she had a fight with her friend, and I started off giving her advice. Maybe you should have thought about it. Maybe she did something wrong. But you know what? After a while, I realized that my daughter didn't need my advice. She just needed my positive, radiant energy. She could handle the problem on her own. She didn't need my advice. She didn't need solutions. What she needed was my calm high vibrating energy. So next time when your children share a problem with you, instead of running to give them advice, sit with them, listen to them fully, let them talk their heart out, and then ask them, what can I do for you? What is it that you need from me? If they say, Mama, can you help me? Then help them. If not, if they say, Mama, just hug me, Mama, just be with me, then just be there with them. And this can only happen when you work on yourself. Only when you increase your energy can you help your children, can you give your child energy. So the first thing you need to do is you need to increase your energy. And to increase your vibrational energy, join my Diamond Membership where you work on yourself to help your kids in the best possible way.
