Her 15 year old has changed from no friends to- lots of friends, confident, intelligent & powerful!

Welcome to our Supermom Spotlight. You have got some great breakthroughs, and we'd love for you to share with so many mothers like you how you've been bringing out the best in your child and in your own life.

Before joining, uh, Super Parenting Hub, I was facing really a tough situation, uh, such that started finding that he's not the same person whom I knew, uh, since last 12 years. And I had such beautiful childhood memories with him. He was such a loving and playful child, so obedient. Whoever meets him used to feel that, "I wish I had a child like him." But suddenly, as he hit the age 13, every quality changed into the reverse of it. No confidence at all. He became completely shut in his room. He had no friends. He doesn't want to talk to anybody. It was quite a scary situation for me because I don't know, things were going out of control. I do not know how to handle with the situation. And there was continuous arguments, fights, and it has gone up to physical abuse, and which I really felt that this is it. I found that there are some psychologists who may help counseling my child, and then we put him in several counseling sessions, but it did not make any difference. I got introduced just through a social media search to your program. I— that, that clicked me that yes, the problem is not with the child. You said the problem is with my— me as a parent. I do not know how to deal with him. I do not know how— what skills are required to handle teenagers. And that brought me to Super Parenting Hub, and from then onwards I may not have to look back again. The journey has been amazing, amazing. I just don't have words to explain that. I never imagined that this would be a kind of life-changing, uh, journey. And what lies ahead, uh, that these changes are unimaginable. One cannot think of these, uh, skills. They are very simple, like just the simple techniques you give of simple pause and then talk. That can make such a huge difference in the way of our relationship as a child and parent. So that's really a beautiful experience, and there are many, plenty, plenty of such experiences. Every week, I think I'm recharged twice as a Diamond Mother. So I'm really very, very thankful that God has finally given me the solution which is working so, so much. Superb.

Nabonita, if you could actually tell all our listeners what are like 3 changes, 3 things that were happening before, and out of that, the 3 positive changes.

First thing is endless arguments and power struggle. Also changes in my child, which was coming as a new experience for me, and that situation was so very uncomfortable for me to witness that. Helplessly. And the third thing is the family environment was taking a complete different turn. On a daily basis, there is a situation of argument and unhealthy discussions which were happening. And this went on for 2 years until last year I got your enrollment to your program. I would say that the child, my son, is able to— who is 16 years old now, and he has started discussing, expressing his need. So that's helping me to understand and go to the root, the actual need behind the whole discussion, which he finds very fulfilling. Second thing is that my calm response to his needs are the second most important thing, which I feel I am satisfied with the kind of response I am able to give to him, which I earlier I used to react very aggressively. Third thing is he is trying to now explore the areas or the situation which he loved to overcome, the challenges. For example, he used to find it difficult to make new friends now in the teenage, so he told one day to his dad, Dad, if you can accompany me, I can make good friends. His dad just accompanied him till the football ground and that's it. He had plenty of friends. And now there are so many friends again, back to his childhood days when he is enjoying. Again, he is riding his bicycle and he is making healthy choices. That is another area which I'm finding— I was waiting to experience that he makes healthy food choices, which I can see now happening slowly.

And apart from— you've seen huge changes in your child. He's become a better decision maker, more social, and he's happier with himself and also more connected with you. He's expressing his needs to you. Along with that, any other changes you've seen in your own life, in your own self, that you would like to share?

I am finding a new me. I think that is what I was waiting to experience, that my own relationship with myself Because that Inner Compass, the concept of Inner Compass was so close to my heart, but I did not know how to get connected with the Inner Compass. And you have shown such easy methods and techniques to get connected, stay connected, fill us with energy. The connection, the relationship with my inner self is so much life-changing and helping me to stay in this journey with the positivity. Which I need. So that is my experience with myself. In my family life, I can see a huge positive change with my relationship with my husband. That has never been the case before. You rightly said in your every meeting that I am seeing the change in me. First we need to change, and I'm focusing now on what I can control. People say those days, olden days were good, But I can see that today also it is good because we have Sidhika Goenka here in our lives. Thank you so much, Sidhika.

Superb. So happy to hear. I mean, you have the knowledge, but you have to take the action, and you have taken that action. You've implemented it and you've gotten results. That is amazing, amazing. And what would you like to share with— what would you like to tell other mothers, you know, with teenagers, with growing children, what would you like to tell them?

The thing is, uh, we always get a kind of belief that teenagers are hard to deal. I, I would like to recommend that please, those who have this belief and having similar difficulties in dealing with teenagers, then definitely this is a worth program to enroll in. The moment you are into this program No one else needs to convince you to continue the journey. You yourself are so much convinced and seeing the results. Maybe, but the sincerity of practice is also required, and also not getting carried away with our negative pattern of thoughts. So all these helped me to stay in this journey, and but definitely one can see a guaranteed —change in one's life if one sincerely surrenders to the system what you're offering. I think every human being should get connected with a system like this, because this is just not about our parenting or about improving relationship. It is— first thing is my relationship with myself, and that will make all the difference everywhere around us. Amazing. I don't see there is any system which which is so complete because your guidance, mothers are sharing wins, mothers are asking questions, and that is also my question. And you are answering to them, you are answering to me as well, because we are all sailing in the same boat, which we need to recognize to see the change happening. Superb, superb.

Thank you so much for sharing, Nabonita.

It's amazing. Beautiful, beautiful tools in this journey.

Thank you.