In this Supermom Spotlight interview, Bhavani, a mother of two children (an 11‑year‑old son and a 7‑year‑old daughter) from Hyderabad shares her journey with a structured parenting system that offers Silver and Diamond levels. She initially joined the Silver program in April 2025 and, after one month, upgraded to the Diamond level because it provided more detailed guidance for everyday parenting dilemmas. Bhavani highlights three core lessons she learned: (1) stop shouting at children and manage her own anger, (2) use fewer words and concise instructions, which led her children to listen more and respect boundaries (including reduced screen time), and (3) become happier and more engaged by playing with her kids. She reports observable changes in her children’s behavior—greater compliance, self‑regulation of screen use, and better listening—as well as personal benefits such as increased positivity and reduced stubbornness. When asked about cost and time concerns, Bhavani emphasizes that investing in the program is essential for providing the best for her children. She also notes that her husband’s business commitments mean she must take a larger role in supporting the family, reinforcing her motivation to adopt the program. The interview concludes with Bhavani expressing gratitude and a brief message in Telugu for other mothers.
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Welcome, Bhavani. Very, very excited to have you in our Supermom Spotlight. You're a Diamond Mother, you're a Supermom Manifestor, and you have been following the system. If you can please tell everybody that's listening to you your name, what you do, and a little bit about yourself.
My name is Bhavani. So we are staying in Hyderabad. I have 2 kids, so one 11-year-old boy and 7-year-old girl.
And what problem led you to seek my program?
So the things are there, what is the correct way and what is the wrong way, how to follow. I have to know how to grow my kids, how to help them to grow very nicely.
Bhavani, can you tell us, whatever you have done, what are the 3 main things that you have learned as a result of joining my sessions?
The first, don't shout on kids.
Don't shout on kids.
Yeah, don't show our anger on our kids. That is the second thing. I can slowly— I'm controlling myself. No, so if I get angry, if I shout, means, okay, no, no, no, no, it's not good, it's not good. So I can pause this now slowly.
So what results did you start seeing in your children?
First thing is, okay, uh, they, they identify, okay, Amma didn't get angry. Firstly, okay, the first day I didn't do it. So when I something I want to say, means I use little words only. Before, I am saying so much of a lecture talking time. So now I am not saying so many words and so many sentences. So if I say, saying like that, they, they listen.
The first change is they have started listening more because you have started talking less.
Talking less, yes. Right. So I have to set that boundary because here if I said boundary, my sense means Total friends group are there, they are attracting him, so their places some distraction is there, but he is accepting, okay, immediately if we take more time means, 'Amma, sorry, next time, next day, don't give me screen time,' he's saying.
So he is accepting your boundary, and let's say he watches too much screen one day, second day he says, 'I will not, I will reduce.' No, uh, yeah, what, what changes have you seen in yourself?
Uh, myself, uh, now I'm thinking little progressive and, uh, I have to be, uh, happy and I'm, I'm, I'm always happy but, uh, so that happiness I'm showing in all the ways with my kids at the time so the not stubborn, so I'm playing with my kids. Like that changes in male.
You've started playing more with your children, you've become happier?
Yes, yes.
You said, Bhavani, that first you did Silver and then Silver Level. Why did you join from Silver Level, why did you join the Diamond Level?
So it is worth to join, it is very helpful to join in Diamond. That's why I joined, that's all. Any problems and not that, but is definitely I have to join. This is worth, this is worth, it definitely really help to my kids and me. That's why immediately I joined to Diamond, that's all.
Yeah, and what would you tell somebody who, you know, is thinking, I don't have money, I don't have time, because you were also there. I don't have money, I don't have time, why should I join Diamond? What would you tell somebody who is thinking like that?
If we want something to get good, if we want to give good things to our kids, you have to spend, that's all.
Wonderful, Bhavani, so nice to hear. When did you join our Silver program? When did you join the Level 1?
I think in April.
April 2025. And when did you join Diamond?
Very soon only, in 1 month only, I think.
Oh, within 1 month you joined Diamond?
Yes, yes, yes.
So what was the difference you felt? You have been in both levels, what did you feel?
So you are only saying so many times that Silver, I— so some instructions only there, but in Diamond I have to take with me, you are saying. So that is only reason. So anyway, every time with kids interaction, so many doubts will come. It's right or wrong, right or not, right or not. So for those questions, our solution, I fix it. So for those questions, I will get solution in Diamond. So that's why I joined it. At least that's happened.
Wow, amazing, Bhavani! So you wanted to do this for your children?
Yes.
And for yourself, or only for your children?
And both, for my family. Yes, I mean, so my husband is doing business, so he needs a lot of support from me, so he can't spend time with us. So yes, so I have to only spend more time with my kids and this one.
So you realize that, you know, this is your responsibility, and you want to make sure that, you know, when you do a lot, then your husband can focus on the business and do what he needs to do for you. Right?
Yes, yes.
Wonderful, wonderful, Bhavani. Thank you so much for sharing your journey, your experience with us. Anything else that you would like to end with?
So thank you so much. First, that one I want to say— how your kids are very— I'm very lucky, like my— so my kids also want to feel like that. That's why I am—
You want your kids to feel that they are very lucky to have you. You want them to be connected to you, and for them, for that, you want to learn and you want to grow so you can help them.
Yes, exactly.
So nice. Bhavani, can you maybe say last 2-3 lines in Telugu also, because you're comfortable in that language? The Telugu mothers here, because there will be a lot of mothers from different parts of the country listening to you. Wow, thank you. I think I understood a little bit. Did you try to say that as a mother we need to know more, we need to do more, something like that, on those lines?
Yes, yes.
Thank you so, so much for being here, Bhavani. Thank you, dear, for sharing your experience with all of us. Really, thank you so much.