Kids aged seven and up constantly test limits by demanding TV, Amazon purchases, and other wants. Set clear, consistent rules and stick to them so they stop pestering you. Without boundaries, children feel lost, like a traveler who doesn't know which plane to board.
After the age of 7, you will notice that your child has started asking you for a lot of things. Your child is really, um, testing your patience. Your child is testing boundaries. You know, they're asking you for TV every day, or they're asking you to buy things from Amazon every day. Constantly they're trying to push your limits. That is why it is very important to set clear boundaries and not budge from those. You need to be strict, be approachable, but be assertive. Set clear boundaries, because if your children don't know what they are not supposed to do, they will keep doing it. You know, if you go to the airport and you don't know which plane you need to take, you will be lost, you'll be confused, you'll be running around like a headless chicken in the airport. Similarly, you need to set rules every single day with your child. And then make sure that your child follows them. Because if the rules are not set, your child will just get lost. They will keep asking you for things. They'll keep pestering you for things. Read the caption below to know how I set healthy boundaries and rules in my family.
