Mehek’s 12-year-old once depended on her, Now he confidently makes the right choices!

Very warm welcome, Mahek. You have had great breakthroughs and I would love for you to share those with our viewers. Please go ahead.

So I'm Mahek, I'm put up in Mumbai. I am a mother of a 12-year-old son. So basically, uh, I came across SPH through Instagram ads and if I Were to, you know, kind of mention that why did I join SPH peculiarly, there was, you know, nothing wrong, or maybe, you know, nothing different which happened which kind of, you know, kind of made me think that I should join SPH. It was only my, you know, fears that were coming in terms of how do I raise my son How can I raise him emotionally intelligent? Because of, you know, the kind of environment we had in past few years, COVID, pre-COVID, and the kind of, you know, children that I have seen growing in my family, kind of examples. The fear took over in terms of that. And being into corporate, I was not able to give him the time that he needed. I was not available for him. Like emotionally we were connected, but then, you know, that inherent way of mothering a child, that, okay, or darake kam karvana, not giving that space to them to, you know, kind of come up with their own learnings and just giving them instructions, that was the pattern that was going on, and that has been the way that we have been raised up. So that was indeed. But when I used to see, you know, I was peculiarly a— I am a helicopter mom. I used to take him to every class that was in the vicinity, or maybe, you know, every activity that used to come up. So I was nowhere, you know, lagging in terms of giving him the resources. But the kind of emotional connect that a mother has with a child was somewhere missing. And that was putting me into a guilt that maybe I'm not able to give him the time. That's the reason, you know, I'm just putting him in classes and killing his time. Confidence that the child needs that moment, that was missing. And seeing this pattern, I was really scared that I have to do something different from this so that my child doesn't get into the situation. So that fear was in me. That's the reason I wanted something to learn and grow in parenting, to up my game for my child. That's the reason I, you know, kind of took the leap.

Heck, whatever purpose that you joined SPH for, do you feel that it's been fulfilled today? How do you feel about it?

Sidhika, it's actually a journey. I have been getting, you know, wonderful results in terms of the connection that I am now able to build with my child in terms of the tools and techniques that we are learning in Silver program. Then, you know, we are upgrading ourselves into Diamond and getting that results. And I think from the past 6-7 months that I've been with SPH I have grown up the kind of patience to let my child be what he is. The kind of, you know, connection that I'm building, like you always say, before correction, the connection is important. That is, you know, beautifully grown. The ideas and techniques are working well.

And, um, so if you can tell us first with your Silver journey, which is what you joined, what are the 3 main benefits that you found in our Level 1?

I joined, uh, Silver and the kind of techniques in terms of Firstly, the Karmathon, the 21-day challenge that we do together, that's quite, you know, intriguing in terms of how you are as a mother, like what kind of patience level you have, how actively you are available for your child. Like being present is not only just being, you know, there for your child, it's also understanding to their level what emotions are they, you know, going through.

So the first thing you said is the Karmathon.

The second thing I would like to mention is the kind of support that we get in the community, right? All the mothers are doing it together, so you get inspiration. Like, once you do it like for 2-3 days and then you, you know, kind of lose that synchronicity in terms of doing it alone. But the kind of group, the community that we are getting in SPH is kind of inspiring that you do it together and we post our wins there. So that is second thing. And third thing is the kind of tools and techniques that we get in the course form, like, you know, first step, second step, how we need to kind of complete the course and go into the third step, is a kind of complete package that we are getting. That is, um, like, you know, I would say that's something that is holding you, that's not letting you, you know, kind of give up. Yeah, so coming things together in the package is what I feel that is very important and that we are getting through Silver Course.

Why did you make the decision to jump into the advanced level?

I joined Silver in October 2024 and then I took my, you know, sweet 3 months to join Diamond. So I was getting superb result in Silver and when I used to hear Diamond moms in terms of they are getting wins holistically, like with their relationship, with their friends, how did they handle, you know, certain tricky situations. But the kind of results they were getting, I thought I should be, you know, like I am proactive, I should be prepared beforehand.

Um, you know, after you joined SPH, what were the 3 main things, jo apko ek dharm strike hoey, ki apke bachche mein yeh changes aaye?

Handling the emotions. He has opened up in terms of all the things that he needs to share. And secondly, you know, the behavior, the pattern has changed. I am actually amazed to kind of see and observe that how beautifully he's picking up his topics outside what he wants to, you know, kind of discuss about. And he's, you know, a powerful decision maker. Like, in terms of food habits also, he's taking his own decisions whether he needs to eat, you know, junk once a week or once a month. He's taking his own decisions.

So Superb. Anything else that you would like to add, Mehak?

I am actually wanting to, you know, thank universe, and I'm so grateful, Sidhika Goenka, that I've come across you. Uh, the kind of, you know, support, the kind of tools and techniques, the kind of community that you have developed, and the kind of, you know, mission that you have in terms of getting women know what innate power they have, which nobody else has. That is beautiful. The kind of values that you kind of share with us, it's beautiful.

You know, you were in Silver level, you got a lot of results in the 3 months, then you joined Diamond. If you were to just very simply say the difference in your opinion between Silver and Diamond, because obviously Silver is for a few thousands and Diamond is for a few lakhs. How would you, you know, quantify the difference?

Sidhika Goenka, until I joined Diamond, I really didn't know, you know, how a child brain works. We have got a very short glimpse of how the brain development happens in child in Silba, and that is, that was kind of intriguing. You know, we kind of try to judge a child, What is wrong with him? Isko uti simple baat kyun nahi samajh mera rey? Main achar baar bol diya. So kyun nahi samajh mera rey woh ko diamond na ke pata chalega? These are, you know, such beautiful concepts that you don't get in silver. Until and unless you upgrade yourself in diamond, you will not know that, oh, is this also available? Like, you know, these beautiful concepts. Diamond has taught me so many things apart from this also that how to, you know, kind of have patience to hear people out. If you can just be behind the team and get yourself enrolled, because the prices are going up and that is going to be, you know, like, you are going to lose out on the thing which is available to you at a lower price, then why would you want to give, you know, additional money? So yeah, that is one thing I would request, you know, all Silver Mothers to go about. Without giving a second thought. I was like, I knew that I have to join Diamond, but then I was, you know, kind of thinking and calculating, is it worth it? I was not doing it for, you know, myself. So that is one thing I would want to, uh, you know, highlight it to mothers that please do it for yourself, and it is okay, like, you know, 1-2 lakh rupees for yourself And that is going to reap you results now, in future, and when you are not even there. Like, you are building legacy. All these frameworks are, you know, going to help your children. And like, you're going to get, attain, you know, that peace, uh, that your children's— sorry, your children are, you know, safe and they are taking their own decision. They are not, you know, kind of getting confused even if you're not there. So that is so beautiful. What can you ask more from this life? So it's all holistic. It's not only one area, you're getting results in all the areas. Why would anybody want to miss that?

Wonderful. Thank you so much, Mehak. Your honest feedback is genuinely very helpful, and I'm sure it will really inspire mothers to think for themselves and to do what's best for themselves.

Thank you. Thank you so much.