A mother in the SPH Inner Compass Parent program describes how her 14-year-old daughter went from choosing friends over family and fighting constantly to prioritizing family time, showing empathy, and helping with chores. She lists 19 concrete changes, including the teen now giving frequent hugs and coming home motivated to do homework.
Hi, so I just got a message from one of my community mothers who's a student at SPH. She's a Diamond Mother, a Supermom Manifestor, and she has got amazing wins with her 14-year-old daughter. Let me quickly show you the wins, the message that I got, and I'm going to share how she got these wins. You can read here, these are the wins that she's got. Before scenario, she would always find an escape route. Her her daughter was not connecting with the family. So the before scenario was where a 14-year-old would not be connecting with her family. She would choose her friends over the parents. She would, you know, end up having a lot of fights with her parents, not feeling connected, not feeling driven, and their holiday would kind of just go for a waste. Sounds familiar? Now let me share the win scenario with you. If you can see, these are like some 19 points that she has written, all the wins that she's got. Let me share the wins with you.
So this mother is saying that she has understood the importance of family vacation, all the 10 senior citizens going, and her daughter has become more compassionate, more empathetic. Number 2, she no longer feels the pinch of not bursting crackers with her friends. This teenager is prioritizing family time more than friends' time. What a powerful moment, right? We all want from our children, we want this. Number 3, she says, she was the one who reminded me of making rangoli before leaving. Number 4, she said the flights ended that we booked, had a crazy time, but she did not crib or complain. So teenagers have a habit of cribbing, complaining, but this 14-year-old, because her mother is using the communication tools and techniques, did not crib, did not complain. We had a set of rainy days, but she was not irritated. Um, her husband— my husband was irritated, but my daughter was not. I felt connected to her. My daughter was really at her best version. She was talking, she was grateful. We were connecting with each other. She was helping me, holding the bags, pushing the trolley. Multiple long hugs whenever I asked for it. Post-returning, she came and she said, Mama, I have a lot of homework to do, and she is now doing her homework. How beautiful is this, parents? Don't we want our children to be like this, to enjoy family time, to have fun with us on holidays, and when they come back, to be self-motivated, to be dedicated, to be serious about their education and their future? Trust me, if this mother of a 14-year-old can do it, so can you. So don't delay becoming an Inner Compass Parent today.
