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The Idea Of Marriage 💑

Name: The Idea Of Marriage 💑
Uploaded: 2024-06-14T09:05:53+00:00
Duration: 1 min 20 s
Channel: Sidhika Goenka
Description: In this monologue, the speaker challenges the common belief that marriage will make a person whole. She argues that entering a relationship with the…

14 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker challenges the common belief that marriage will make a person whole. She argues that entering a relationship with the expectation that a partner will fulfill all emotional and personal needs leads to disappointment and loss of identity. The core message is that true fulfillment must come from within; only when individuals feel complete and self‑satisfied can they share that completeness with a partner. When two whole people unite, they can enjoy each other's company, bring out the best in one another, and build a healthier marriage. The speaker emphasizes that marriage should be a partnership of two already fulfilled individuals rather than a quest for personal completion.

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The idea of marriage— when we get married, we think that we're going to become complete now. Somebody is going to make us happy, somebody is going to really love us, care for us, do everything that we want. And then when we walk into this marriage with these kind of expectations, we are let down because we've lost our identity and we're expecting somebody else to fulfill our needs. And here lies the problem. When you are walking into a relationship incomplete, you will always feel this gap. If you think marriage will fulfill all your dreams, make all your wishes come true, give you a fairy tale life, it will not. The only person that can fulfill your dreams is you. If you walk into a marriage already feeling complete, already feeling fulfilled, then the burden of somebody else completing you goes away, and both of you enjoy each other's company You bring out the best in each other. It's always better to have two complete people getting into a relationship and enjoying that marriage. You will never be complete if you are looking for somebody else to complete you. Remember, you're already complete, you're already full within. You just want to share this completeness with your partner, and that's why you want to get married.