10 Apr 2026 · 7 min
Steve Lichtman argues that entrepreneurs fail not from lack of skill but from an identity problem: they see themselves as "try-ers" instead of people who follow through. He shares his own missed podcast episodes and abandoned projects, then challenges listeners to spot commitments they've broken in the past 90 days and rebuild consistency through small, repeated wins.
Episode 39. I, for every anybody that doesn't know, I record usually in 10-episode bricks like a psychopath over a couple of hours. Yeah. So we're at episode 39 and today we're going somewhere that gets uncomfortable fast. And we're talking about follow-through, not the concept, the personal reckoning with it. Because look, here's what I've noticed. Most business owners don't have an execution problem. They're actually really good at that. That's actually what made them their business. They have a follow-through identity problem. They execute in bursts. They show up strong when motivation's high. They post every day for 2 weeks and then disappear. I'm guilty of that. I think we all are sometimes, right? They start the outreach campaign and abandon it on day 4 and launch the idea and pull back before it has time to work and actually be of any benefit. Then they wonder why nothing's building traction, right? Nothing's building traction because traction requires time in the market. And if you keep resetting the clock every time you have a new idea, or every time you don't think something works after 10 seconds. You're always in a permanent reset mode. You're resetting that clock over and over and over. And here's the thing about follow-through, right, that nobody ever wants to talk about. It's not about discipline. It's about identity. When you think of yourself as someone who follows through, your behavior shifts. When you think of yourself as someone who tries things, you're always leaving yourself a mental out to leave. So if you always say, ah, I'm gonna try this tool, I'm gonna, I'm gonna take another shot at it, I can do this, I'm gonna go for it. You're always gonna keep going for it. When you systematically tell yourself, I'm gonna get this done and go to the next step, you're programming yourself to follow through. You're mentally controlling yourself, which is what we all should be doing, having the greatest, you know, control of our, our minds. In this day and age with everything that's out there, with all the science and technology and, and ways to live healthy, exercising available at every street corner, you know, healthy foods are available if you look for 'em. I mean, granted, the world tries to poison us, but like we could live really clean, healthy intellectual lives. Following through is just a product of that. When you're just always trying shit and always throwing shit on the wall and hoping it sticks, that's desperation. And you're, that is a mental out. It's the hugest mental out. So let's go to the execute phase of RISE today from the RISE framework, cuz it's, you know, the deepest one because execution isn't just about doing the task. It's about becoming the person who does that task every time, not perfectly, But consistently, right? You notice a trend here. It's not about being perfect all the time, guys. It's about being consistent and doing things over and over and building it into your system of your life. The gap between where you are and where you wanna be, I'd bet the follow-through gap is a bigger piece of that than strategy offers or marketing. I bet that's your biggest gap is follow-through. So here's a question today for you. In the last 90 days, 3 months, start of this year, say last 90 days, what did you commit to publicly or privately that you didn't follow through on? Name it. Not to beat yourself up. I'm not trying to do this to make you feel like shit. Don't get me wrong here. It's to help you identify the problem. Like, what did you say you were gonna do and it didn't get done? I could tell you for me, I said I was gonna rock my podcast into 2026. I got busy with other things, with work and with other commitments and launching an app. And yeah, I haven't, hadn't posted it for about 6 weeks. It went dark, maybe a little longer. That was me. I didn't follow through. I didn't record, you know, and then I did record and then I, that's a whole nother story. I did record and then I lost the SD card I recorded on with my other device. And yeah, that's, that one's on me. But I didn't bother. Like, I was just like, all right, whatever. And then I didn't follow through. I just let it be, right? So for me, in the last 90 days, that's something publicly and privately I didn't follow through on. So look, I'm giving you an example of real life, my real life, but you, you, you gotta do this. This is to help you identify the pattern of where you don't follow through. Because once you start seeing the pattern, you could start breaking it. Like, for me, it's about, Too many balls in the air at once. Some are eventually gonna drop. I'm not a professional juggler, but I often believe myself to be, and that becomes my problem because there's only so many you could juggle at once. Only so many flaming swords I could throw in the air at once and catch without losing a finger. And I don't wanna lose the finger, so I let the swords drop, right? That's not following through. Following through is getting better at catching them swords and catch 'em all. So that's. Where we're here or why we're here. So when you think about the pattern, you could break it, right? Because one kept commitment is going to change everything. If you just keep one commitment to yourself over the next 7 days, you're going to break the cycle. Then you can do another, then you can do another and another. And that's how your identity rebuilds. That's how you turn yourself from being the person who tries things to the person who gets shit done and follows through. By beating yourself up over and over again. It sounds funny, right? It sounds funny, like, beat the hell outta yourself over and over, guys. And if you beat the crap outta yourself enough, you'll eventually affect positive change through pure personal abuse. Hell, that could have been the episode in 30 seconds or less, and I, I wasted 5 minutes of your time. So the riff of the episode, you don't think your way into consistency. You have to behave your way into it. Think about that for a minute. You can't just dream it up. You actually gotta do the work. You gotta follow through. So with that, folks, have a wonderful day. I'm Steve Lichtman. This was Unfiltered and Unshakeable. Have a great one.
