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Steven Barnes and Tananarive Due met and got engaged in 72 hours after doing emotional preparation work separately. They've been married 24 years and turned their approach into a five-week downloadable course called Soulmate Process, with a community group included.
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72 hours
24 years
Five weeks (downloadable)
www.soulmateprocess.com
At a conference on Black speculative fiction at Clark Atlanta University
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Greetings.
Hey, hey, hey. Hi, everybody.
Yeah, it's Tanato Steve here.
Good to see you.
We've been planning this for months.
Yes, we have.
And months, actually, for decades, we've been trying to answer the question. What is the question?
We were trying to answer, sweetie, how do you find and keep lasting love? Yeah.
We felt so blessed, so incredibly lucky to have found each other. And over the years, lots of people, they would like to have what we have. They would like to see the world that we see it, that they would like to find that sense of connection.
Yeah, we were. We just did a podcast with the president of Jordan Peele's Monkeypox Productions. And at the end he was like, you two were so lucky to find each other. And a lot of people feel that way about us. But actually, the secret is it wasn't luck.
No, it wasn't luck. It was very. We'd done a lot of very specific work before we met each other. If we hadn't done that, we wouldn't have been ready. I would not have been ready for this amazing woman.
I would not have been ready for this amazing man. I mean, literally, if I had not done the work, the way he was looking at me the weekend we met would have scared me off like he was a vampire because he was so open in his face and open hearted, and I wouldn't have been ready.
And the reason I was so open, our cat just jumped over there. This is life.
This is life.
The reason that I was so open was because I could see very clearly what she. She was and who she was and realized that this was the opportunity of a lifetime. And I was willing to humble myself and just let her know and know in certain terms who I was and what it was I was prepared to do if she would give me a chance. All I wanted was just, you know, will you take a chance and get to know me and see whether or not there's something here? My heart absolutely was singing. And unless I had done the work that I needed to do, I could not have seen who Tananarib was and what the potential was in our relationship. It was, you know, and within.
24.
Hours, really, 72 hours after we first met, we were basically engaged.
We were pretty much. I mean, not technically, but it wasn't exactly love at first sight, but it was almost like love at first encounter. We heard each other's speed at a conference on black speculative fiction at Clark Atlanta University. He saw me, I saw him. We were on the same path. And the secret is we had Each done work before we ever met that was so similar to help prepare us to meet our soulmate, that we decided, you know what, we can't just keep this to ourselves. We have to offer this process to everybody, whether they're in a relationship, not in a relationship, straight, queer, whomever. There are ways to prepare yourself.
Now. Because my first marriage had gone the way of the dodo, I was a little nervous. It's like, am I sure that what this is is real? Am I sure that if we teach, this is going to work? So although I had done a lot of coaching, the human heart is such a precious and vulnerable thing that we waited literally decades. We kept testing, kept asking, I kept coaching people and in different aspects of it. And after 24 years of marriage, we.
Finally said, well, let's not wait until we're old and gray before we start to share this. Hey, that's your voice. Hi. Crappy. The fun of it isn't really. It sounds. I don't know, it sounds like over promising to tell people, oh, we can help you prepare to meet your soulmate. But like Steve said, After 24 years, seeing how this relationship has been so wonderful and has blossomed so much for both of us, and remembering those initial steps that we took before we ever met that were so parallel, it was almost uncanny, we decided this is time to offer this course. And we had a live workshop this past summer, I think it was through August, and a great group of students who have given us, some of whom have given us some great testimonials.
You'll see them on the page when you go over to www.soulmate process.com.
Go ahead. Yes, www.soulmateprocess.com. so this is no longer a live workshop. It's a digital download course.
There is a live social media group that you're going to be able to join.
Yes, there's a live social media group. So it doesn't have to feel like so separate from reality and being a part of your life in the everyday. But we have put everything we have into creating a course that will help everyone be more mindful, be more present to know what they want, to learn how to recognize it when they see it, to have done some work so they don't run away from it and to keep those embers hot.
Now. Yeah, absolutely. That's very, very important. Now, being ready for your soulmate is part of it. But we believe that when you are ready, when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. You've heard that. Well, this is a Little different. It's when the lover is ready, the beloved will appear. The way we have it set up. The work that you do will automatically place you in a position to attract the person that you're looking for. It's that thing, that ability to believe, that ability to have some faith, that ability to love yourself. Be willing to love yourself and be willing to admit that you want a partner in your life. If you're willing to do those things and spend just a few minutes a week watching the videos, doing some homework, we can get you on that path. Please give it a shot. It's a five week program, downloadable. You start when you want to start. Do it on your own pace, at your own pace. And we put a lot of work into this. We put 24, 25 years of speculating and work and planning and testing into this. And we believe that we've got something for you that you will just love.
And the timing is perfect. People are learning how to safely masking, hopefully be out and about. They're starting to socialize again. You're not feeling like a bear in hibernation without any chances. Meet people. Holidays are coming up. Also, you've been taking care of everyone else for so long. Isn't it time you did something for yourself?
So if you're willing to love yourself and you're willing to admit that you want to love someone else as well, the soulmate process is absolutely the best thing we've ever done. Along the lines of emotional healing, finding passion and love, creating that connection. The tools are wonderful. We put absolutely everything we have into this. Give it a shot, you know, And I believe we will not disappoint you. Just go to www.soulmateprocess.com and check out and see what it is that we have for you.
All right, everybody, you take care. Have a great week.
Bye. Bye.
Bye. Bye.







