In this introductory video, TJ Walker presents alarming data about smartphone overuse—average Americans pick up their phones 186 times a day (millennials 324 times), spending nearly five hours daily on the device, with 90% of that time devoted to entertainment, social media, and games rather than productive activities. He contrasts this unchecked usage with how society has historically learned to use other technologies (cars, light switches) deliberately and strategically. Walker introduces the "Phone on Your Terms" framework, which treats the phone as a high‑performance workflow tool: not about using it less, but about using it far more effectively to advance work and life goals. He shares his personal experiment of deleting all social‑media apps from his phone and moving that activity to a scheduled desktop session, resulting in longer uninterrupted focus blocks without loss of reach. The video sets the premise for a multi‑session course that will systematically close the gap between the phone’s potential and its actual output for each user.
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Ultimize. According to reviews.org's most recent annual survey, the average American picked up their smartphone 186 times in a single day. That's roughly once every 8 minutes during every waking hour. Not because anyone called, not because there was an emergency, just a reflexive reach and a glance. And if you happen to be a millennial, that same study found your generation averages a whopping 324 pickups a day. That's 20 times an hour, every hour, one pickup every 3 minutes, all day long. Now, add the number that makes those pickup counts genuinely alarming. The average person spends nearly 5 hours a day on their smartphone, which adds up to about 70 days a year, just poof, gone. And when researchers broke down what all that time actually goes toward, here's what they found. Entertainment and streaming video at 35%, social media at 27%, games at 16%, Communication at 12%, and everything that could be described as productive use at just 10%. 9 hours out of every 10 you spend on your phone, you're doing something you'd never put on a priority list. Meanwhile, 67% of adults say they're already concerned about their own usage. They know something's wrong. They feel it. And yet almost no one has ever spent a single hour learning how to actually manage their relationship with their phone. Now, think about another powerful piece of technology you use every single day, your car. Nobody gets in and out of their car 324 times a day. You don't sleep in your car just because you can, unless times are really tough. You don't take a joyride every 3 minutes when you're trying to accomplish something. Over the 100-plus years we've had automobiles, human beings figured out how to use that technology strategically. You get in, you go somewhere specific, you get out, and you get on with your life. The car serves your agenda. Think about your kitchen light switch. It's genuinely useful, but if you flipped it on and off 200 times a day, It wouldn't illuminate anything. It would just destroy your day. Throughout history, we've adopted remarkable technology and learned over time how to deploy each tool at the right amount for the right purpose. The smartphone is the one technology where that discipline has almost completely broken down, not because the phone isn't capable of extraordinary things, but because nobody has ever taught a clear system for extracting its real value. While containing its real cost. That system is what this series is all about. The framework we're going to use is called Phone on Your Terms. It means you design your relationship with your phone the way a professional designs any high-performance workflow— intentionally, strategically, with a clear picture of what this tool is supposed to produce for you. And I want to be direct about what we're not doing here. This isn't about using your phone less for the sake of using it less. It's about using it far more effectively so that the time you actually spend on it moves your work and your life meaningfully forward. Let me tell you what changed for me personally. I run Media Training Worldwide, an international media and presentation training and skill-building company. I'm genuinely active on social media, millions of views on YouTube, tens of thousands of followers on Facebook. I use my phone constantly for legitimate business purposes. But a few years ago, I made one decision that transformed my productive output. I deleted every social media app from my phone and moved that activity to a specific desktop session early in the morning, not because social media is bad, but because having it on my phone was costing me the focus time I needed for higher-value work. And guess what? Nothing bad happened. My reach didn't collapse. What I gained was extraordinary— long, uninterrupted blocks of time to create, think, and produce at a level that reactive phone use had been making impossible. That's the entire premise of this course. Your phone is a remarkable tool. There's no doubt about that. You deserve to get remarkable productivity out of it. Every session from here addresses one specific part of the gap between what your phone is capable of producing for you and what it's actually producing right now. In our next session, We're gonna cover the one distinction that makes every other change in this series make sense. And please realize, I'm not telling you you ought to be like me. You may think, wow, TJ's extreme. He deleted all his social media apps off the phone. You don't have to do that. I just want you to think about it.
