Uzi Moses explains why trying to change loved ones backfires. Instead of pushing, model the behavior you want to see. Judging or trying to alter others rejects the Creator's work, since everyone reflects the same divine source.
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Have you ever tried to change someone you really care about, only to feel them pull further away? Let me tell you why this happens and what to do instead. It's called the Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins. You can never change someone else. The harder you try, the more you push them away. True change happens when they decide to change. And the best way to inspire that is to change yourself, to be the example. But here is a deeper truth. Every time you judge someone and you wish they were different, you're rejecting the Creator's work. We are all connected. We are all reflection of the same divine creation. When you try to change someone, you're really telling the Creator, I don't like what you made. When you let others be who they are, you honor the Creator and the oneness of all life. The universe responds with more love, joy, abundance, and vitality. By embracing what is, you stay connected to the source of all good things.