Amanda Hainline explains the concept of etheric cords (also called soul ties) as energetic attachments between people that mediate emotional and energetic exchange. She contrasts healthy cords (mutual loving/friendly exchange) with unhealthy or codependent cords that can drain or transfer anxiety, and recommends energetic actions — transmutation, dissolution/disconnection, or creating new cords — to change relationship dynamics. She also notes that some cords may stem from past lifetimes and suggests processing or transmuting those to form healthier connections in this incarnation; she closes with an invitation to contact her or join a group challenge for guided practice.
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Hey, guys, it's Amanda. I am here today to talk to you about something that we all deal with on a daily basis that we probably aren't even aware of, and that is something called etheric cords. Now, etheric cords are attachments that we have to other people in our life. We have these attachments to our parents, to our children, even to our pets. We have these attachments to everybody that we come into contact with every day. Some are more complex than others. It's basically the closer relationship you have with someone, the stronger the cords are, the more energy is exchanged between you and that other person. And etheric cords are important. I mean, they're part of the energetic exchange or understanding between two people. A lot of the things that go on between two people are things that aren't said. They're things that are dispelled. So that's the process of having an etheric cord with someone. So I wanted to go into a little bit deeper explanation than that of etheric cords today, and I'm going to break it into a few different parts. So, first of all, it's an energy exchange between two people. Okay? And if you have a healthy etheric cord with someone, you're going to have this process of, you know, loving exchange, friendly exchange. Everything's going to be fine. You're not going to have any issues between you and this other person. But issues may occur if someone in your life is maybe taking advantage of you, or they're overbearing, or it just doesn't feel good. There's something in the relationship that doesn't feel right to you. This could be a friend, or this could be a spouse or anyone, a boss. So in order to change this relationship, especially if it's been in place a really long time, if you have a codependent relationship with someone, or if someone's overpowering with you, that kind of thing, and you're wanting to shift that relationship. One of the things you really need to pay attention to is the actual etheric cord itself, because when that cord gets created, it gets created with that dynamic intact. So. So one of the things that you need to do is you need to either transmute the energy that's going through that cord, which is just diffuse it. Sometimes you need to dissolve the cord or disconnect the cord and create a new connection between you and that other person. That sounds complicated. And it's all done energetically. Of course, there are some recordings on your Soul tribe to help you with that process. That's going to be a group challenge. Here in the future. Disconnecting etheric cords with people and teaching you how to create new etheric cords with people. Sometimes our etheric cords just need to be disconnected. If we have ended a relationship, especially a romantic one more, or even a friendship, or it could be a work relationship of some sort, those cords need to be disconnected because they're no longer serving us in our life. So disconnecting that actually helps remove us from the energy of that situation. Because being still connected to something, even if you've quit that job or quit that relationship, it can keep bringing it back into your mind. You can keep feeling the emotional states that were present in that particular relationship that are no longer serving you. So. So disconnecting those cords is something we don't think about. But if you think about turning off an appliance and you're going to move it somewhere else or throw it out, you have to unplug it first. So this is the same kind of concept that we go through with this. Another thing to know about etheric cords is that whenever you have cords to someone, if that person is having a lot of anxiety, frustration, anger, if they're angry at you or something else, and you have an etheric cord to them, especially if they've been talking to you about the situation, they can reach out to you for help and attach to you in a different way, like a brand new cord. And all of a sudden you're feeling this anxiety, and you're like, I don't understand why I'm feeling this anxiety, you know? And it's because they've corded you or you've corded them. And so that's a mindfulness that you need to have to disconnect that cord because it's not serving you or them. This is if it's theirs, they need to process it for their life. Not to say that you can't be there for them and you can't be there to help them and talk them through something, but ultimately, it's their responsibility to process whatever they're going through, okay? It's not your job to process it. You processing it for them does not help their soul growth at all. Even though you feel like that may be something you want to do for them, it's not doing them any favors. They really need to take care of it on their own. So disconnecting those cords when those things occur is a really important thing to do, too. Being very, very mindful of that. When relationships change, if you're trying to go through counseling with someone or do that kind of thing, and really change the dynamic of a relationship. It can be difficult to do if you don't address the etheric cords as well, the energetic pieces. So disconnecting those cords, putting new cords into place, all of those kinds of things are really important. Whenever we're looking relationships and changing the relationships. The last thing I want to talk to you about is something a little more advanced in the concept of etheric cords. And that is sometimes we have etheric cords to people that we've just met that are from previous lifetimes. They could be back many lifetimes. You know, sometimes we meet people and we just, I know you from somewhere, or I know you. How do I know you know I know you. And they may be a friend. You know, they may become a friend, or they may become, you know, a partner in her life or something like that. But we just have this weird dynamic with them. I've had many clients that will come in and, you know, be a mother and daughter, and I'll say. Point at the daughter and say, well, you were her mother. And they both start laughing, and they say, that makes complete sense, because she's always telling me what to do. You know, the mom will say that about the daughter. And part of that is soul memory, and part of that is the etheric cords that you still have attached from previous lifetimes to that person. So what you can do is you can remove those or transmute that energy from those cords, help those start to slowly dissolve and attach healthier cords that make more sense for this particular incarnation. So those. Those are things to just be mindful of whenever we have experiences with people in our lives that maybe just don't make a whole lot of sense. So that's etheric cords. If you want to know more about etheric cords, feel free to email me or contact the group on your soul tribe and ask the questions that you want to know answers to. We're all here to help. Maybe we can do a group challenge about this in the future. So just let me know your thoughts, and I want you to have a great day.
