LOVE MASTERY WORKSHOP

Okay, Manoharan Coimbatore, just give me one more minute. I'm just setting up my— okay, I'm here in the camera. Let me know if you can me and if you can hear me, if my voice as well as video both are clear, type all clear in the chat box. Let me know if you can see me, if you can hear me. Yes, is my voice and video both are clear? Give me a one last time thumbs up. So if you are, if my voice is clear, awesome. I want each one of you to let me know where are you tuning in from, which city, which state, State, which country are you from? I want each one of you to type in and let me know what is the one intention joining this workshop. I know that we're gonna discuss more, more about your love life. How many of you, by the way, struggling with your relationships? How many of you are struggling with your relationships? Type S in the chat box if you are struggling with the relationships. Today is going to be the day where I'm going to decode some of the things which will completely transform the way you've been dealing with your relationships for once for all. How many of you want to improve and now want to shift your relationships for once for all? Type shift in the chat box. I want everyone to switch on the cameras. So let me quickly tell you how you can get the best experience of this workshop. First and foremost thing is I want each one of you to switch on the cameras. So that is how you're going to get the best experience. And the second most important thing, make sure you have a proper headset. So that we will be doing some of the practices so that you get a best experience during the whole session. The third important thing is take a pen and paper. We will be doing some of the assignments. If you don't have a pen and paper, please quickly go and bring the pen and paper. Please quickly go and bring the pen and paper so that you can start doing the activity on every single step, whatever we're going to discuss today. And the last but not the least, make sure you attend with a full focus, no distractions for next 70 to 80 minutes. So that is where we're going to deep dive into a complete transformational aspect to identify what is going on in your relationships and how you can fix it for once for all. How many of you are super duper excited? If you are super duper excited, I want each one of you to type in SDE in the chat box. Super duper excited. Come on everyone, I want everyone to switch on the cameras. So let me tell you what is the today agenda. Arvind, I know you called me. What is the agenda? Agenda for today is how many of you think that you are living in a relationship but you don't, you don't feel that the same way how you felt when you got married? When you first time got married, you had some kind of a vibe between you and your partner. But that is no more right now available. How many of you agree with me that there are so much gone through in the past years and so much has gone through in couple of months or years and you're still holding back that and you are operating with that space? So today if you can put your 100% focus here, so what we're going to do is I'm going to show you how you can recreate your love after marriage So from your spouse, how you felt exactly like before, like how you can make them to become your boyfriend and girlfriend, feel the love again. That is also just in 7 days. There is a framework which I learned from my mentor, and I want to give that framework to you. How many of you are super duper excited and feel the love again in your marriage life? Type love in the chat box if you are super duper excited. Come on, everyone. So before we going little about this, is it okay if I introduce myself? Yes. Is it okay if I introduce myself? I want to show you where I was in my own relationships and how my life has been struggled and multiple areas and how I've been bounced back and what are the skills which I'm going to share with you, how you can take the inspiration from that. Yes. Is it okay? Okay. I'm going to show you a small video about my introduction. So just a minute. So meanwhile, I want each one of you to switch on the cameras so that I know you are following me. Okay, so I'm just playing it. Just let me know as soon as you can see the music as well as the voice. Both are clear. Give me a thumbs up if both are happening. Okay, awesome.

They say time heals everything, but what if the time only made the pain louder? This is a story of an Indian guy, born in a small village in Andhra Pradesh, raised in a humble farmer family where every meal came from sweat and soil. No luxuries and no shortcuts, just strong values and endless struggle. And a parent's dream that he would do something big one day. He had no money, no big connections, but he carried something far more powerful A heart full of dreams. Dreams to rise above the struggle. Dreams to not to survive but to serve. To become someone who could truly make the difference. But life does not always honor our dreams. Sometimes it breaks you before it builds you. In year 2013, I lost my life partner. The one I thought I would grow old with. Gone without warning. Griefs followed me. I gained 23 kgs. My body broke down and mind spiraled. In 2020, I began my health journey. I shed 23 kgs, but healing the body was just a start. You see, before that, I had done what many dreams of. From a small village with no English, no tech exposure, I rose step by step to become a head of IT. In Dubai. From nothing to everything on paper, but career built through hard work, long nights, and relentless hustle. But behind the promotions and the salary, I was breaking inside. I was battling chronic stress, mental burnout, emotional voids, and relationship wounds, and financial anxiety despite earning well. I had achieved the success from outside, but I was losing myself from the inside. Then there came my business collapse, and almost I was bankruptcy, and I also lost the job the same time. And slowly I started focusing on one thing I thought I would never lose, that is myself. I felt into a darkness, depression, panic attack, suicidal thoughts, nights where I beg not to wake up. And yet in the silence, I always used to pray the God, please help me. One day, a quiet voice whispered, Arvind, get up. And that's where I began my healing. Not all at once, but breath by breath, tear by tear, step by step. I choose to face my pain, not to escape it. Through my coaches and through these amazing tools like Ho'oponopono, EFT, inner child healing, breathwork, energy alignment, and holistic wellness tools, I rebuilt myself from the inside out. I did not just come back, I rose, and I made the biggest decision of my life, and I quit my IT career and stepped into my soul's calling to become a full-time health and transformation coach. And I became an international certified healer. Over a period, I helped 30,000+ people to heal from the physical pain, emotional traumas, and relationship wounds, financial talks, and much more.

Before joining Arvind's program, I was struggling with my health, and I was 81 kgs, and I lost 10 kgs in 3 months. I would say this program has entirely changed my life. When first I connected with Arvind sir, I was quite confused. What will I do? Will this program really help me? There was so many questions in my mind, but he said, Gurpreet, join this program. And I, I joined that program, and today I can say that yes, this program has changed my life in terms of health, wealth, relationship. It has been a truly transformational journey for me. I'm really thankful to Arvind sir. Thank you to Dr. Arvind sir.

Thank you very much for my guruji.

Thank you, sir.

It was very awesome, actually. Thank you very much.

I am so grateful to Arvind.

From anxiety alignment, from breakdowns to breakthroughs, from self-doubt to self-mastery. I became a TEDx speaker and also received a doctorate and wrote 2 books and received a 40 Under 40 award.

Please welcome Dr. Arvind Padmaraj.

And just to prove where there are no limits, and I have done couple of marathons. The beauty is I have ran a marathon in inside my house to just to prove that what potential I hold. And during this period, I found a half fit. It is not just a business but a movement built on, based on habits and focusing on every single family should live that holistic health and holistic wellness and make home as a starting point where wellness begins and where healing is not just a buzzword, it's your birthright. Today I live a joyful life with my beloved wife and two beautiful kids, and I live in Dubai. We traveled 13 international countries as a family. I became an adventure explorer, someone who now lives a life in his own terms. But most importantly, I dedicated my life to serve, to heal, and impact lives every single day. I'm not here to motivate you. I'm here to show you What's possible? Because if someone like a village boy who built a career from scratch and who lost the love, health, money, and hope but still choose to rise, can heal, can rebuild, can transform, so can you. Are you ready? Your healing journey begins the moment you stop pretending you are okay. So let's begin today your journey together.

Okay. So that's a quick little intro about me. So how many of you, by the way, inspired? So one of the biggest problem in my own life is also the relationships. So that is where— so today my only and only intention, uh, to bringing this workshop is to give you a different perspective about the relationship. How many of you here, uh, agree with me that when you, when you married, you had a full love, faith, and companionship. Everything is there in the partner which you're living right now, but you are completely opposite right now. That whatever you thought that what that person can give you, but you are seeing right now completely opposite. How many of you agree? How can, how can this shift from 360 degrees from where you are— he is the most favorite spouse ever you chose, and now he is the Maybe every single day you've been living in this life that, you know, why first of all I took this decision. How many of you have this? I also gone through this. Yes. So during this workshop, I wanted to teach you some of the 3 secrets and the entire the relationship mastery which I learned, which has transformed me in my life, and how I went from feeling disconnected, feeling having lots of fights and everything, to being in a state of where we have an amazing, um, relationship right now with the beautiful two kids, and how we can— how we have this powerful affection to each other. It doesn't matter how bad the fights are, we know how to get it back and bring back to that companionship easily. So today I'm going to talk, um, teach you about three secrets. I want each one of you to write down what are those three secrets are. The secret number 1, I want everyone to take a pen and paper, switch on the cameras. Are you all— yes, the first secret what we're going to discuss about is how to achieve a lifetime peace and love from your partner. How many of you want your lifetime peace? The biggest problem in your marriage right now, the peace is missing, the love is missing, and you both are there in the same house, but there is something which is you keep fighting to do something, but at the end of the day, you feel dissatisfied in the relationship. So that is what, how you can get a lifetime peace and love from your partner by just doing a simple, powerful secret, which I learned from my mentor. The second most important thing, the second secret, what we're going to learn is how you can recover from any fight instantly. How many of you agree that the biggest problem in any relationship is So we fight often, we cannot avoid the fights. How many of you agree? But how would— how many of you are also, uh, tell me the truth, that some of the fights where you have a distance from— maybe it starts from 1 hour, maybe 1 day, 1 month, 1 year. How many of you are going through this, that, you know, the fight happens once but the distance, you are not able to come out of that instantly? How many of you struggling with that type S2 in the chat box if you are struggling too. Yes, the third powerful secret what we're going to learn is one small mistake that is slowly destroying your marriage, which I also did for 8 years of— again, I'm remarrying, and what is the mistakes I did with my previous marriage? And that is, if that one mistake if you can avoid, and you will, you can stay lifetime feeling more love and companionship and connection with a partner. How many of you are super duper excited to learn these 3 secrets? And there are more secrets out there beyond this workshop, at the end of the workshop. How many of you are ready to learn these 3 secrets and see the shift happening in this workshop itself? How many of you are super duper excited? I want each one of you to type in super duper excited if you are 100% ready. By the way, if you want something to be shift in your life, who can change that? Can I change it? I can only give you the information and the skills, but who has to implement it? Come on everyone, type in. You have to implement it. I want each one of you to take this as what defines what is your relationships is going to be beyond this workshop. Yes, if I 100% convince you that these 3 secrets is really transform your current, uh, marriage from conflict to a connection, peace, and beautiful love, how many of you ready to invest ₹1 lakh at the end of the program where I'm going to give you a powerful option to learn some of the skills which will give you the lifetime love, freedom, and connection? Yes, how many of you think it's a fair deal? But I'm gonna give you a discount at the end, how you can get a powerful, uh, one of the discount what I'm gonna give you, you cannot avoid it. So why I'm telling you before itself is whatever I can give free, I'm giving you in this 3 secrets. Even if you implement these 3 secrets, I can guarantee you that you will have a different married life or, you know, be a different relationship for rest of your life.

Yes.

How many of you think it's a fair deal? Type FD in the chat box if it is a fair deal. I'm being very honest. At the end of the day, there is list of the lessons because everything I cannot teach you in 90 minutes. There is more to learn, but you don't need that to learn for years. You just need to sit with me for 2 days, which, which is going to in the live Love Mastery program where I'll explain you all the other lessons as well. Yes, are you all ready? If you're all ready, type ready in the chat box. But let me tell you first of all, why did all this started, how it is all started. So after I had an incident of where I lost my wife, then I again start thought of moving on with my life. Then I got married in 2016. From there, right now it is almost like 8, 8 and a half years of our marriage. But honestly, first couple of years has been very powerful. We always had a magical, and it was, we were both were like a love. It was like a best friends, and I was able to communicate with her properly. But slowly and slowly, the moment we started living together, what started happening is conflict started, misunderstanding started, the blames, expectation, the small fight used to become big storms. And there is some days in my life, One fight would have costed 2 weeks of not talking, 1 month of not talking, and just showing in the same house 2 people are looking like enemies. How can you feel that? I, I felt like I'm living in a home with so much of pain. How many of you have such kind of experiences in your own life? Yes, yes. So that is when I started feeling something is missing. Maybe there is a problem in her. And initially I thought, why she always angry on me all the time, but before she was absolutely fine. I was the same person, and now she's asking me, I don't like this, I don't like this. All these complainings are going non-stop. So that is when I came across one of the mentor. He taught me a powerful thing. He told me that 90% of what is happening with my relationships, there is one thing is missing. He told— I said, what? I said, how many um, how many years you've been learned to the work what I— what you are doing right now? That means I was very successful in IT, so he told me how much of the time you invested to learn that skill which is making you to make money. I said maybe 15 years. But he asked me next question: what are the relationship skills you learned which will help you to have a better life? I said, what relationship skills? How many of you have this question? What relationship skills? I'm marrying, I'm giving the love, everything works fine. That is how, because she is used to like me the before, and now she is— why she is not liking? But that is when he told me the truth. The relationship is also a skill. So until and unless you don't learn that skill, you will not be able to improve at different aspects of how a man and how a woman behaves, what is their default mind patterns and how they take, what is the state of it, all these things. He asked me a couple of questions. For every question, I had zero answer. And he said, whenever there is a problem in my relationship, I used to discuss with my friends and they used to tell all their problems and it used to be multiplied. How many of you are doing this like me? You go and discuss with your friends and family as if they are the experts and they will tell you and they will also dump all their relationship problems. This is the same thing was happening. And then I started learning this relationship skills, and then I started seeing slowly, slowly shift was happening. I was understanding how she is behaving, where is the trigger happening. I learned powerful tools with my mentor. So one of the powerful tool which has completely changed, that is what we're going to learn in the secret number 1. So the investment what I did in that program is completely transformed. 8 years of disconnection, all of that is fixed in just 1 month time. How many of you think it's a magic? Where we are thinking that like enemies, we started feeling like we are connected so amazingly by learning these skills. How many of you agree with me that right now if we learn these 3 secrets and if you implement with me today in this workshop, I can guarantee you that you will have better than the relationship what you have right now. And also you can start attracting your partner like how he was when you got married. How many of you are ready to learn with me these 3 secrets? Yes. So the moment I implemented, this is what shifted in my life. So right now we still fight, but the fights becomes normal. That means within couple of minutes we become normal because we have certain kind of things, agreements between us. We reconnect and we laugh, we play, we support each other, we raise our kids together. And if she is angry on me, she can openly say whatever she wants. If I want to say anything, I can openly say it to her. And we can literally live our own life with our own way of living. How many of you really think that is the true freedom everyone should have their marriage. The 90% of the marriage, we always see that, oh, I don't want to know this, she will get hurt, you will get hurt, and you are living in that, um, controlling environment for all the time. How many of you agree? So that is where this first secret which I'm going to share with you, which has completely blown away my mind. So most of the common problems, which one of the, uh, one of the most common problems which I used to feel in 'My wife has— every time she shouts, she has a lot of anger.' Then I said, 'Why? Why she always frustrates every small, small things?' And I have some of the things which I cannot do it. I am, I am very unorganized person and she is very organized person. 90% of our fights happens because of that. And I get frustrated, 'Why all the time you're fighting it?' Why do you show so much of anger? And she will be frustrated because I am inorganized. I don't keep the things wherever I take those things. I don't keep it as how she wants to be. And our maximum fights is here, that one fight makes maybe one week of disturbance, and then that piles up, piles up, piles up. This was the story was happening. And there is one thing common, tell me right now. How many of you think that, Arvind, my partner is— I want this to be changed, that to be changed, he has to be like this, then only I think my life will be beautiful? How many of you agree? How many of you have this thought process? I also have. I thought if my wife becomes very calm, very cool, I think everything will change. Can you tell me honestly, a person has lived a certain way, can he change 100% what he's been last 30 years? Or 20 years or 25 years? Is it possible? I'm asking each one of you the question. I wanted to change her natural behavior. Is it possible? Can I change it even if I try 10 years, 15 years, 20 years, 25 years? But can you change some of the things which you— which comes naturally to you? Can you change inside you? Even you cannot change the way you've been living. So the biggest mistake which I was doing is, from the time I got married, I want my wife to be the way I want, and my wife, she wanted me to be her way. How many of you agree? This is the biggest fight happens in most of the marriages. No, he's not doing that. He gets up in the morning. Some of the complaints, you keep everything, you close, you throw the clothes everywhere, you don't keep keep the brush where you brush your teeth. You take the perfume, you keep it there. This is the same fights we used to happen. So that is when my mentor taught me a powerful lesson called acceptance list. So there is something in a person cannot be changed. There is something in person can be changed. So is there any use if you keep fighting that the person which cannot change? For rest of your life? Who's going to waste? Who's making this relationship more miserable? So what I did, I and my wife both sat and write down what are the things I cannot change. I can never become organized person. It is impossible for me. I do all the things in the last minute, but she wants a proper planning, everything to be planned properly. So such 5 to 6 things. We made a list, and in her list, being angry and being aggressive is her nature. I cannot change that. I said that I'll accept that part of her, and we made an acceptance list. There are some things we will change, there are some things we will accept for rest of our life. We don't fight because of those lists which we accepted. How many of you think your life will be more beautiful. That one shift has made 90% of the fights doesn't take to my heart. The same thing from others, other side as well. I want each one of you to right now do this activity with me. I wanted to take a pen and paper, write down what are the some of the things you cannot change in you, what are the some of the things which is irritating in your partner you are ready to accept. I want to put a two-letter one side acceptance list. What you cannot change, you need to communicate that to the partner. These things I cannot change, this is where I'm going to be. You're going to accept. And at the same time, what is irritating in your partner which he cannot change it. How many of you agree there are few things whatever you do you cannot change? How many of you agree? Yes or no? Yes. So I want you to right now make a list— what you can change, what you cannot change. Whatever you cannot change in your partner, what do we need to do? We need to accept that part of him as it is. Yes. So I'm going to give you 2 minutes time. Once you're done, type done in the chat. At least write down 2 or 3 things. Write down the acceptance list. Write down what is irritating your partner right now. And what you wanted to ask him, what he cannot change, or you will know by this time what he cannot change. How many of you agree? If you are living with more than a year or 2 years or 3 years, you know exactly what you cannot— he cannot change. Accept that part of it. When you accept it, what happens? It is easy for us to— your 90% of the fights are avoided. Okay. So once you're done, type done in the chat box. Let's move on to the— how many of you think this is the game changer in your life, your relationships? If you can do it, if you actually realize, go back to all your past fights, your 90% of the fights are happening because of the moment you get married. Why it was not before? Because before you don't know who him, right? 24/7, you're not living with him. When you're living with a person 24/7, some we like, some we don't like. The sum he can change, some he cannot change. Can I fight with something we cannot change? We cannot fight it. If you accept that part of him, will you have peaceful life? Will he has a peaceful life, or will she has a peaceful life? I wanted to write down acceptance list. Write down 3 or 4 things what you hate in your partner and what you need to accept, that part of him or that part of her. Yes. So if you're done, type done in the chat box. Hope everyone is doing done. Everyone, so I want you to right now, after this workshop, go and discuss this with your partner. So this— these things I cannot change, you need to accept. And in some of the things in you, I will accept it from today onwards. We will not fight for this. We will accept that part of me. Just imagine, right now, every conversation with my wife used to feel like, oh my God, again there is one more, one more day of fighting. I always used to react. Right now, I accept her part of it. I cannot change. I always, one thing I always say, why do you get angry? Why you always raise your voice? Why you talk so much aggressively?

Why you don't—

why can't you be calm? Something my wife always used to complain, why can't you organize the things? Why you do everything at the end? Why you plan everything at the last minute? Because I am such kind of a person, all my creativity comes at the end of doing. I don't have a— I'm— that is how I've been living, that is how I've been growing. So once we accepted this part of both of us, so most of my worries and her worries are dropped. Yes, how many of you— this is a mind-blowing secret what you learned. Type MB in the chat box if you implement it and do let me know what was the shift happened after you're doing this. The second most secret— are you everyone done? If you're done, type done in the chat box. Let's move on to the second secret. By the way, how many of you are loving the session? Is it worth of your time? Are you able to connect with what I'm saying? Yes, if you're loving, type L in the chat box. So let's move on to Second secret. Second secret is— by the way, how many of you think if you implement this, it is the easiest and fastest way to resolve most of the current problems what you have in your relations? The most of the times, if you implement the secret number 1, how many of you think it is the fastest and easiest way to fix majority of the fights what is happening in your life right now? Type fast F in the chat box if you agree with me, because that is what shifted in my own life as well. Yes, the second most important step, what you need to— what I used to do all the time is every single time my wife says something, I used to get irritated. So the one of the common complaint, whenever I deeply watch the TV, she always says something, I don't listen. Then she gets frustrated and she comes and then she says, why are you putting so much of sound? Why you always doesn't listen to me? And all that things she will give. You are a coach, you don't even know how to even interact with your husband, blah, blah, blah, all of that. She criticizes it. And earlier, whenever she criticizes it, I used to feel something— I'm not good enough. I used to fight back for every criticism. Every criticism is going to be painful in my life. How many of you have your wife or your husband always criticize you and you get upset with it? How many of you have this problem? Yes. Can we stop that criticism? If naturally person is feeling something, he cannot stop expressing, right? If it is If we stop expressing what you are doing, is indirectly you are disconnecting with the partner, correct? So we came— the second secret which I learned from my mentor is unlimited criticism. Criticism is accepted, unlimited forgiveness is accepted. She can criticize anything, but I will only think of— I will only take that as that particular moment. How many of you think this is going to shift If you accept unlimited fights, unlimited forgiveness is allowed. How many of you agree two people without fights, it is not possible in a relationship? Because two people came from the different mindset, different psychology, different emotions. But you tell me the one thing, if you accept unlimited fights and unlimited forgiveness is allowed, is there any things can stop you? Yes, so this is what is agreement. Right now she can criticize, I can criticize. We will only take then and there, and we don't link that to any of the past. We think right now, we live openly, we'll share, and I accept her part of her criticism, and she also accepts my part of the criticism, and we are allowed. And if there is anything hurt happens, I'll go and ask for the forgiveness, and it is unlimited allowed. Earlier we say that why we fight so much. It is okay, fighting is not bad, but what are you doing after that is what— most of the times, whenever we do a criticism, we don't talk, we don't actually speak from that part of the fight. How many of you agree? The pain comes from not from that part of a fight. The fight which happened maybe a 1 year back, 30 days back, 20 days back, or 10 years back, that is the version of ours we did not heal. Yes, so that is what we are not accepted. So when you actually heal that part, there is a second one more lesson after this, um, how unlimited fights— if you had an agreement with your partner, and there is one more thing also you need to do that we're going to do in the Mastery Program. There is powerful healing session. We go back to the past and we heal that part of us where we still hold those memories. Yes. So from today onwards, I want to live in your own relationships. Just have an agreement that everyone has a disagreement. How many of you agree that you cannot be 100% perfect and he cannot be 100% perfect all the time? How many of you agree? So what if both has agreement? It's okay, we will fight, but we will become normal again. That fight is only about the situation, not to link with anything in the past. So the second secret which has completely changed my life is unlimited fights and unlimited forgiveness is accepted in our life. She can do the criticism, I can do the criticism, and I can say sorry and she can say sorry, and we move on with it. We don't take that beyond that particular day. If your mind has already accepted this, how many of you think your life will be more peaceful and easy? Is it difficult or is it easy? Who has the control to accept or reject? Yes, how many of you are able to relate with me what I'm saying? So this is a powerful secret which I learned. And apart, along with that, you need to heal the, the part of you where you still hold the anger towards him. That part of you has to be healed. That is what is one more lesson which I will be showing you exactly. It is actually a 1-minute, 1-hour exercise we're going to do. In the Love Mastery Program. Yes, so from today onwards, what you need to do is, any fights are happening, say that unlimited fights and unlimited forgiveness is allowed. No matter what happens, we will come back together within 1 hour. Whatever you want to feel in that 1 hour, you can feel, but after hour, we'll come back and we will say sorry to each other and we will start accepting each other. Yes. How many of you think this secret can change what is going on in your life right now? Type yes to in the chat box. So the same secret I have given to one of my inner circle team member or one of my one-to-one client, her completely— where they were fighting for so long, now it is makes very beautiful for them. Is just the perception of how both of them accepting each other. Yes, the third powerful secret which he also taught me. Yeah, it is very hard, but that is the only one which is making you go through all the pain. There is no long analysis, there is no blame. You are this, you are that, you are, you know, you, you every time you do the same way. All these things, if you remove all that blame, you just accept that part of that, you know, we're going to fight, but we're going to forgive also faster, and we will become together again. Yes, awesome. So third secret is the one of the biggest mistake each of us, even including me, I did it in my own relationship, is we need a third person in our relationship every single time. If there is a conflict happens before a big anything happens, there is a third person required in our relationship. So I'm not talking about third person is another affair. What I'm talking about is a third person who can see whatever is going on. What used to happen, so there is a one point of a time where we had a heated argument and she's talking about her point and I'm talking about my point and we are just not coming to the Conclusion. And it went to almost saying that you don't— I don't want you. You don't— she said, I don't want you. And finally, tell me, what do we do when this situation happens? Previously, I used to go to my friends. I used to go to— she used to go to her friends, and we— they used to deal with it. Do you think they are the expert of dealing with this? Our friends and family, they are the expert of dealing with this? So that is when my mentor told me that every single time, next time where there is a problem, so you need a coach who can see a third point of view and give you who's right, who's wrong, or give you the third point of perspective so that both can realize. So there is one, one saying, right? So one person is looking this phone in this side, other person is looking phone in this side. If you ask him, the one person, what are you seeing? I am seeing a screen. Other person says, I am seeing a camera. Is both are right? How many of you answer my question? Is both are right or wrong? Both are wrong. Both are right in their point of view. How many of you agree? If the third person knows both the sides, can he give a different perspective? So 90% of the fights, we are only seeing our point of view. We are not seeing the third point of view. That is why a coach can help you to see a different point of view every single time there is a conflict which both of you disagree with, or you also need one more perspective of doing the self-reflection where you attaching yourself. There is a process we're going to learn inside the Love Mastery program where you can completely detach from yourself whenever there is argument happens. You can literally see the third point of view. So that is where you need a third point of view or a coach who can show you both the perspectives to you, and then you will— you yourself can realize what other person's point of view is. How many of you agree? If you know that your partner is looking at the screen and you are looking at the camera, and if you see other part of it, will you be able to resolve that conflict much easier? Yes or no? So this is what is the biggest missing piece in most of the relationships. For example, right now, if there is anything happens between me and my wife, we always go to our coach. So this is what has happened, and he will give his point of view. Then I will be able to understand what is the trigger. And one of the beautiful things which happened is 90% of each of our triggers— if she is upset with me, I was already contributed something to her. But I'm, I am deleting that part of myself which has contributed to that fight. So there is one more powerful lesson you're going to learn, which is called as a reflection theory. Every single hurt what you're feeling is not because of your other person's behavior. They are either showing you the part of you you don't accept it. For example, for me, as I, the first example I told you, right? I am an unorganized person, but if someone says it, I used to get hurt. I don't want people to know that I'm unorganized, I'm not, um, the perfect person. I used to get upset if someone says that. I used to get triggered. This I could able to recollect and realize after, because of the mentor who was there in my life. Yes, so this is What has changed? This is the biggest mistake what we do. We try to resolve ourselves. How many of you tried resolving yourself and you're still struggling? How many fights are unresolved and you're still struggling? Because there is no third point of view. So this is what is the third secret. So once you have this third point of view, once you know each other, once you have whatever 3 secrets which I told you. So if you implement it, all the 3 secrets so far, whatever I have given to you, do you think your relationship becomes better than what is right now? Type better in the chat box if you feel that if you implement whatever the 3 secrets which I gave you, it can shift your current relationships. Yes or no? Type it in the chat box.

Yes.

So let me quickly recap what are we discussed so far. I have given you 3 secrets. What is the first secret? What is the first secret? Have an acceptance list for both of you and accept that part of version we cannot change it. What is the second secret? The second secret is don't link your fight with the past. If the past is there, first heal it. Unlimited fights and unlimited forgiveness is allowed. The maximum time you can be upset with— how much time? Maximum 1 hour. 1 hour, whatever you want to feel, you feel. After that, you accept him. What is the third secret which we learned? You always need— any kind of a conflict happens, you need a third point of view. That is why, that is where you need a relationship coach who can give you a third eye perspective so that you both of you can understand each point of view better? Yes. So how many of you going to implement all of this from today onwards? And how many of you want to learn such powerful lessons so that if you implement this, do you think your lifetime, all the relationship will be different, will improve? Yes or no? So right now I'm asking you If these 3 secrets— along with these 3 secrets in my Relationship Mastery, I'm going to teach you 10 additional more lessons. Total, there are 12 lessons. Each lesson is a life-changing lesson. So how many of you ready to invest yourself, invest your time and your effort? And there is an energy exchange for that, to ready to invest and upgrade yourself. How many of you ready to upgrade your, your love skills or relationship skills? Type I am ready in the chat box. So you have two options right now. I have showed you everything. Continue whatever you're taking. And if you think that if you don't want to keep guessing, if you want to— if you don't want to struggle, if you don't want to repeat the same patterns in your life, there is an option too. I will teach you exactly these 12 lessons in, uh, 2 days of a fast-track session, and you will go through each lesson and go through each step by step and implement them with me. How many of you want to— which option do you want to choose? Option 1, you leave, do it alone, and keep repeating the patterns, or option 2, by just investing your time, effort, and the money to learn that skill and master that skills and fix your relationship with the ease, effortless, and with a clarity? Which option do you choose? Type in the chat box which option Do you choose option 1 or option 2? Awesome. So what is this Relationship Mastery? I'm going to explain you in maybe couple of 5 to 7 minutes, and after that, if you have any specific questions about this, uh, Mastery program, I will explain you. So let me first share my screen. I want each one of you to take a pen and paper and write down what exactly you're going to get in this Mastery Program. The first and foremost thing what you're going to get as part of the Mastery Program is you're going to get 12 Relationship Mastery lessons. I will tell you a couple of lessons on a high level. So one lesson is our entire love problems, there is a root of all our problem is one thing where we are blocking it. Our source of all the relationship problem leads to one single aspect of your life. If you fix that, 90% of your relationship problems which is actually carried from them, you need to fix that. The second thing is reflection theory. So in the reflection theory, you will identify what your partner is showing is not that they are attacking you, they are showing you the part of you which you are not Agreed. And the third thing is there is a masculine and feminine energy. That means as a man has both the energies, but men has a more female energy, woman has a more male energy. Because of that, there are so much of conflicts in your relationship. We need to balance that. There is a powerful practice we do which you can practice this on a day-to-day basis, which will make sure that there is a balance in your energies. And another lesson where we're going to go a deep dive into the complete, um, things where you disconnected with yourself. So like this, there are 12 different lessons. Each lesson will help you to improve your relationship, and each lesson has some of the actions which you're going to take. Okay, so that is what is involved, and you get lifetime access to the recordings. That means once, one time you invest in this program, lifetime, anytime there is a problem, you can go to that lesson and implement that, you can fix your problem then and there because those lessons are that powerful. The third thing is every 2 to 3 months we do the fast track. If you have any questions, anything which is going on in your life, you can ask any question in the fast track whenever we go to the breakout rooms, whenever in the sharing time. You can literally take the support and you can do this live. How many of you think live is better when I'm interacting with you and you are taking action with me? That is also included. Every 2 to 3 months we keep repeating until I'm alive. The third thing is I have consolidated all the powerful healing list, that means the meditation list, which will help you to release all the deep-rooted emotional blocks from the relationships by using this series. There are 5 to 6 series there which you also get an access once you enroll for this Love Mastery Program. If you see, the actual worth of this whole course is only ₹1 lakh, but as I committed you in the starting, so I'm going to give you a deep discount. You will be only and only paying ₹4,444, not ₹50,000, ₹20,000, ₹10,000. It's only the smallest investment to learn the relationship skill and maintain that for rest of your life. How many of you think this is crazy? My only intention is if you learn and if you shift your life, not only that, you can also— it will also change the next generations. Because this is the skills which most of us missing, which supposed to be learned as in your school or maybe through our parents, but we are not getting this basic skills which is required for us to live a beautiful loving relationships. So many of you want the crazy bonus. I'm going to add 2 powerful bonuses apart from you investing this. So what are the first bonus? You're going to get 1 Billion Healing Club access 1 month absolutely free. So the second bonus, what you're going to get, you're going to get Lesson 1 of 5 mastery programs: Quantum Awakening, Quantum Money Mastery, Chakra Mastery, Health Mastery, and there is a U2.0 Manifestation Mastery. So all these 5 courses, Lesson 1 Each lesson has again so much of the skill which can help you to have better health, better relationship, better career and money. That also you're going to be getting free. And there is one more fast action bonus. Whoever is going to take action in next 10 minutes, it's only and only applicable for next 10 minutes, you will not even pay ₹4,444. You will be paying only ₹3,333. ��1,000 only for the lifetime access, all the recordings. And along with that, there are 2 more additional bonuses also which I'm giving you. What are these 2 additional bonuses? I will be giving you ready-made affirmations for your relationships and 28 days follow-along challenge. Once we complete this 2-day masterclass, today's mastery program, every single day, what are some of the actions you need to do which will improve your relationship so that you're not only learning and you're mastering that skill. And we do this live challenge in the Love Mastery. There is a WhatsApp group, WhatsApp group. In that WhatsApp group, you will— we will run a challenge so that you can track how you are progressing in whatever you learned in the Mastery program. Yes, yes, whoever is interested, type 'I am in' in the chat box so that if you have any specific questions or anything you wanted to discuss, ask with me. So you can ask with me. So these are some of the testimonials of the people who got a crazy transformation by using this.

Some of, uh, like, uh, small issues from the relationship, small clashes is going on, but small, small misunderstanding. Thus I need to pray for the universal to remove all things. In the one week, I was literally— you never believe that early in the morning he kissed me every time, every time. Lot of changes. Seriously, I really so thankful. I am really so thankful to the universe that why you did not came into my life before, like 2 years or 3 years back. If you come before 3 years, maybe it will very easy for me, I think. Now I got a lot of confidence that even you can see in my eyes that I, I can achieve everything, everything.

So this is one of our—

I would say this program has entirely changed my life. When first I connected with Arvind sir, I was, I was quite confused. What will I do? Will this program really help me? I was— there was so many questions in my mind, but he said, just Gurpreet, join this program. And but I, I joined that program and today I can say that yes, this program has changed my life in terms of health, wealth, relationship. I joined this program, uh, just to grow in my career, to get progress in my career, but I never knew that it will help me a lot. It has, uh, my relationship are now so better with my family, with my colleagues, with my clients, and with money. Yes, I came— I learned that. I am so grateful to Arvind for taking me into his. When I told him about my situation, I was like totally broke mentally, emotionally, physically. I was like devastated because I was going through my divorce and there were so many things going on at the back back, and I was very low, uh, with my energy, and I was very low emotionally as well. When I spoke to him, I realized he's not doing it just for money. He, he was like, just hop on, we will take care of everything. And that thing actually gave me an assurance, and I'm so thankful that I joined the program. And since the time I have joined it, I have recovered from so many of my issues. I have come out of my trauma. I am taking care of myself a lot better. I am physically stronger. I'm taking care of my health. I'm taking care of myself. I'm emotionally, mentally, I'm getting there, you know. Uh, actually I joined him because I wanted to make money, but now I am getting better with every part of my life.

So that is what is the offer. So I'll explain it one more time. What you're getting is 12 Relationship Mastery lessons, and then you get lifetime access of all the recordings, and you get a fast-track live session. That means every 2 months. So there is a fast-track session happening this weekend. Um, the same way, um, every time there is a fast-track session happens, you can attend that for lifetime. That means if you are in a year, you can at least attend 4 to 6 times within a year. So that you can multiply 10 years, 20 years, whatever. As long as I am alive, we will be keep doing this because this we do for our Platinum members to upgrade themselves regularly. And apart from that, you will also get a powerful relationship healing series. So there are more than, um, 7 to 8 different relationship healing we did. Every relationship healing is a mind-blowing transformation people got. It's that serious. You get it as a separate in the course itself so that you don't need to go back, and you, you can actually use that to break any kind of relationship, not only with your partner, with maybe your colleagues, maybe with your parents, maybe with your siblings, maybe with your friends, where you wanted to connect with them back but you're not able to release that part of hurt. There is a powerful relationship series. And apart from that, there is a bonus you get. You get a 1 month, there is a 15 minutes of a healing club we do to heal our emotions, which happens 8:30 PM every single day in IST time. So you can attend that for 1 month, which is absolutely free. And then you're going to get a lesson 1 of 5 mastery programs. So what I do is the love is only one angle. So we need to also focus on our health and our money and our career. So in those areas, we have some of the mastery programs which will help you to evolve yourself and learn the skills which is missing because of the reason what you're going to the challenges. In that, the first lesson, 1.5 hours of the lesson, you're going to get absolutely free. Apart from that, you will get a ready-made HRCM affirmations along with my voice recording where you can just download that, or you can directly go to app and listen those affirmations morning and night. And then followed by the 28 days challenge. Every single day you need to take couple of actions after you attending the Love Mastery. So this is what is all covered in this Love Mastery program. Okay, so I'm going to give you one of the powerful experience right now, and if you have any questions after that, we will do it again. So this is called as connecting to one of the, the powerful energy. So I'm going to take you to the experience. I want you will feel the unlimited love if you have ever felt. How many of you are ready to experience that magic with me? If you want to experience that magic with me, I want everyone to switch on the cameras. So after that, I will show you more further details about, and I'll take some of the questions. Just see what is missing in your life. You can literally can feel it instantly in the 15 minutes of this practice. Are you all ready? If you're all ready, Everyone switch on the cameras. So let me know as soon as you can hear the music and my voice, if both are clear. Let me know if you can hear my voice and music, both are clear. Give me a double thumbs up. Everyone, I want everyone to switch on the cameras. So I want to keep both the hands on your heart. Close your eyes. Take a deep breath in and breathe out. Again, take a deep breath in and breathe out. Now I want you to think about all the challenges, whatever you're going on with your relationships. It could be with your partner, it could be with your parents, maybe your in-laws, maybe with your kids, colleagues, friends, your siblings. Think Think about all the relationship challenges, whatever you're going on in your life right now. And I want to repeat with me. Dear Universe, I take 100% responsibility whatever is going on in my life. Come on everyone, I see some of you are still not doing. If you really want to experience, close your eyes, do with me. I take 100% responsibility for everything whatever is going on in my life right now. I take 100% responsibility for creating this problem in my life and going through these relationship challenges in my life. Dear Universe, I take 100% responsibility Whatever I'm feeling right now in my body. Now I wanted to gently scan your body. Focus on your forehead, your eyes, your nose, your neck, your chin, your right hand, left hand, your chest, your stomach, your hips, your thighs. See where do you feel little heaviness in your body. Focus on that particular body body part. And I want to repeat with me: Dear my body, I'm really sorry for creating this problem and making you to go through this discomfort in you. Now I want to think about that person who actually— some of the memories which you're holding on, think about that person right now. Visualize that person, whoever is creating all that discomfort for you. Maybe it could be your partner, maybe it could be your in-laws, maybe it could be your boss. See, he is in front of your eyes. And repeat with me: Dear— take that person's name— I'm really sorry for blaming completely on you, whatever has happened between us. Here, take that person name. I'm really sorry to still feel the same anger, frustration, and whatever that negative emotions you are experiencing. Say those experience, those emotions towards you. Here, I'm really sorry Even some part of me still hates you because of that one misunderstanding or argument or conflict what we had between us. Now I want to realize, I want to just think about if you are not there in the situation with that person, with that, do you think this conflict should have happened? If you're not there in the situation, is it a possibility? Nod your head if you say yes. If you say no, nod your head. Yes. How many of you agree? If you agree, repeat with me. Dear— take that person's name— now only I understand there is some part of me, knowingly or unknowingly, My behaviors, my actions should have triggered you something to behave like that. Here, take that person name. Please forgive me for not taking that part, that responsibility for my part, what I have created, which has caused this problem in our life. Here, take that person name. Please forgive me for holding on to this pain, holding on to this anger, holding on to this hurt from so many days. Dear my body, please forgive me for not giving you the freedom. Please forgive me for holding on to this one memory and caused you so much of pain to you. My dear body, please forgive me for Now look at the person and repeat with me. Dear, take that person name, and I want you to ask for the forgiveness for whatever the role I played and whatever that negative energy still I am holding on which is impacting me. And I want to ask for the forgiveness to make myself free. From this hurt, from this challenge, from this problem. And now I want to release anything I'm still holding on towards that hurt. I'm dropping off right now, and I want to move on, and I want to allow you to move on. See that you're complete. All the negative chains is broken between you and that other person. See that your, your heart is completely getting lighter now. I wanted to feel the gratitude towards that person, because if that person was not there, we should have kept holding on this energy even today. Finally, we are able to realize we also played a role. So I want to say to him, looking into his eyes or her eyes, thank you so much for teaching me this biggest lesson, that I was also involved in this problem, but I kept blaming only you. I'm really sorry for that. Please forgive me. Thank you for teaching me this biggest lesson. Thank you, Universe, for bringing this healing into my life, helping me to release this pain which I've been holding on so long. You can mention maybe 1 year, 2 years, 10 years. And now say, thank you for being part of my life journey to learn this lesson and upgrade myself. And now look into that person and say to him, I love you the way you are. And whatever you did in your own capacity, which has helped me to understand my life's biggest lesson. Dear, I love you the way you are. Now I wanted to bless him all the success, or bless her all the success, all the health, all the abundance. All the love. Because at the end of the day, at the energy level, we all are one. If we are hating someone, we're actually hating ourselves. Now I want to feel through your heart. See, this love is reaching to his heart. See that everything is dissolving. And I want to look into that person's eyes And I wanted to visualize yourself in his eyes and say to him, thank you for all the love I have in my life. I love you. I love myself. At the energy level, you and me are one. At the energy level, we all are one. Keep looking at a small baby version of you in his eyes. Not saying love, I love you to him, just saying to the baby version of you who is inside his eyes. Look into that person and say to him, I love myself and I love you. Feel that love, bring that love into your body, feel that love into your heart. Heart. Serious love is spreading into every single cell of your body. Now I want to visualize your mother inside his eyes, her eyes. See, she is smiling. See that how your mother could have supported you when you were least believed. Bring her love. Look into her eyes, his or her eyes. Say to her mom inside his eyes, I love you for all the love I have for you. I love you. I love myself. I want everyone to repeat. Just think everyone is saying that. Thank you for all the love I have from you. I love you. I love myself. Now we want to visualize your dad in his eyes and say to your dad, Thank you for all the love you have given me so far. I love you. I love myself. Now see that person who you healed, who you made him release. See that universe is there inside his eyes. Say to the universe, thank you, universe. For all the love you have given in my life. And I love you. I love myself. Feel that love. Now see that every single person who gave the love is there inside his eyes. Keep looking into his eyes. Who are we to hate someone? Who are we to judge someone at the energy level? Everyone are one. Shall we accept everyone the way they are and look into that person's eyes and say it one more time? Thank you for all the love I have from you. I love you and I love myself. Thank you for all the love I have from you. I love you. I love myself. Now look into that person right now. See that person is a reflection of every love what this universe has created. And maybe he should have hurted, or she should have hurted, but just see, he's also part of us, is part of the universal energy. And I want to look into his eyes and say to him one more time, I love you, and I love myself. Who are me to hate you and I create all of this, and I love myself unconditionally. And again, look into his eyes. See that entire universe is showering the love. I wanted to feel this love inside your heart. See this love from your heart is expanding into every single cell of your body. See from your heart This love is expanding through your hands, through every single cell of your body. See, this love is filling entire body. And now I want to see this love is expanding beyond your body and filling every single part in the room where you're sitting. See that the full room is filled with the love. What are feeling the love inside your heart right now. See, this love is expanding beyond that room to entire the house. See that every person inside your house is filled with this love you are sending it to them. They are literally feeling the love what you are showering to them. Now see, this love is expanding beyond that building to the entire city where you're living. Every Every tree, every person is getting the love which you're spreading it to them. Now see, this love is expanding to the entire country. See that each one of us love is connected each other. Feel that love, feel that unlimited love inside your heart. Say it one more time. I love I love each one of you. Now see, this love is expanding beyond the country to the entire world. See that each one of us, any part of the world, we are connected. Our hearts are connected to the universal love energy. See that you are giving the love and also receiving the love because we all are connected. Feel that love inside your heart. See that your heart is expanding with this love. Now see, this love is going beyond the world to the entire Earth. Every single nature element in the Earth is filled with your love, filled with each of our love. Now this love is expanding to the entire universe. See, this love is reaching to the sun, moon, every single star, See that love is coming back from the entire world, from this, from the entire country, from the entire city, from the entire building, from your home, the place where you're sitting. And that love is coming and hitting back to your heart. Feel this unlimited love. Feel that your heart is expanding with this love. Feel that from your heart, that love is spreading into every single cell of your body. Now I want to give this love to 3 people. Who do you want to give? Who's the first person you You want to feel this universal love. See from your heart through your hands, this love is expanding and reaching to that person. And visualize that person in front of you and say to him one more time, thank you for all the love I have from you. I love you and I love myself. Now I want to visualize the second person who do you want to give this love. See that person in front of you. Look into his eyes or look into her eyes and say one more time, thank you for all the love I have from you. I love myself and I love you. Now think about the third person. Who do you want to give this love with? And look into his eyes and say it one more time, thank you for all the love I have from you. I love you. I love myself. Now think about the fourth person. Who do you want to give this love with? Think that person is in front of you. Feel the love what you're feeling inside your heart is expanding and reaching to that person. See this, his heart is connected with your heart and feeling the love. And say to that person, thank you for all the love I have from you. I love myself and I love you. Now think about the fifth person. Who do you want to give this love with? Visualize that person. Say to that person— see that your hearts are connected with this love. Unlimited love is flowing from you to that person. And say to that person, thank you for all the love I have from you. I love myself and I love you. Feel this unlimited love. Stay there for next 30 seconds and see what's happening with this love. Feel that love, unlimited love. Slowly and gently wiggle your toes, wiggle your fingers, rub your hands. And I want each one of you to unmute and tell me with one single word, how are you feeling? Awesome, sir.

Awesome.

When was the last time you felt this much of love for yourself? I want each one of you to type in with one single word. Are you able to hear me now? Yeah, so I want each one of you to tell me with one single word, how are you feeling right now? See that, do you feel the love for yourself, the love in your life? Yes. So this is what is one of the practices. We're gonna do the extension version of it. So this, we also do the advanced version of it in the Mastery Program, which is called Expanding the Love and Going to the 5D World and Experiencing It. So yes, so this is a small gift of the bonus which I wanted to give. I know that I committed 3 secrets. I want to give one more experience to you. So whoever is already enrolled, welcome to the Love Mastery Program. For congratulations for upgrading yourself, deciding to upgrade yourself to live a better life. And I'm going to explain one more time that if any one of you still has any doubt. So this is what is the offer. So what is the offer? So you're going to get 12 Relationship Mastery lessons, and you get lifetime access to all the recordings, and you get fast-track live sessions. That means every 2 to 3 months, we will be doing 2 days of a live Mastery program. So you can attend that every single time we launch. And you're gonna get a powerful relationship healing series. And as a bonus, you're going to get 1 Billion Healing Club, which is a 15-minute healing club we do. On every day at 8:30 PM IST. You get 1 month access of that, and there are 5 mastery programs of Lesson 1 you're going to get free: Health Mastery, Money Mastery, Chakra Mastery, NLP Mastery, and Health Mastery. So these are the 5 lessons of Lesson 1 of the 5 programs you're going to get, and you're gonna get free ready-made affirmations for your relationships, all other areas of your life, and 28 days to follow along challenge also included. All this together, the price is beyond ₹1 lakh plus, and only and only. So once we end this, the price will change to ₹4,444. You will not be able to get it ₹3,333. So if you are interested, you can click on the link and join. So hope whoever is not able to join by any reason. So 90% of our lives get stuck with the action taking. How many of you agree with the ₹3,000, our life is not going to be miserable? But what if this ₹3,333 can give you the lifetime peace, lifetime love, and lifetime companionship? That is where you are doing this investment for. Okay, so if you are interested, click on the link. And once you click on the link, you will get redirected to this page. So in that, you can basically type your name, number, and email ID. And you have multiple options to make the payment. You can use UPI, you can use different payment options. So once you give the number, fill in the details and select which state are you from. And once you click on next, you basically get an option. Either you can click here and scan the QR code, you can pay by UPI, you can pay by card, and also you can pay by net banking as well, debit card or credit card. Okay, so this is where you can make the payment. And once you enroll, what you have is you already getting a recording. You don't even need to wait for the fast track. Once you log in, as soon as you make the payment, you will be getting a course access. Okay, so you will be logging in with your email ID, whichever email ID you registered. You will log in with that and your email will get an OTP once you put the details. So once you put the OTP, then you will go to a courses section where you will find a Quantum Love Mastery. So for example, I got a QR code, I'm just typing that. So once you click on the courses, under courses you will find a Quantum Love Mastery. We have already done 2 series of the mastery programs. So you have all the 11 lessons, whatever I've explained you— root of relationship, self-love, mirror theory, acceptance theory, manifest your dream partner, and love, pono pono, lifetime showcase, men and women's language. And there are more lessons I have added last time, like a masculine and feminine energy, then understanding the partner needs and resolving the conflict in one of the powerful techniques I've given. And then there is a 28-day challenge. Day 1 challenge would be given. So what you need to practice in the day 1, if you click on here, you will find— so you will have day 1, what you need to do, day 2, what you need to— day 1, there are 10 simple habits which you need to practice on a day-to-day basis. So this is all what is covered. And apart from that, this access you get it for the lifetime, okay? And apart from that, anything related to it you will also get it. And apart from that, as I told you, uh, the free bonuses, you will also get the free bonus, the Lesson 1 of Quantum Awakening, Money Mastery, and then Chakra Meditation, Health Mastery, NLP, Perfect Affirmations. So all this, this also you will get an access. And there is one more the healing relationship healing series will be added to the Love Mastery Program. Okay, so hope it is clear. If anyone has any, uh, specific doubts, you can also discuss with my team. My team Divya is here, and, um, so Divya would be helping you if you have any further doubts. And I wanted to thank each one of you for your lovely time, and hope I have given you some inspiration or some tools, I want each one of you to implement it so that whenever, uh, see, the life is all about learning the problem. When every problem is reminding you that there is some skill is missing, if you don't learn that skill, the problem will be keep repeating for rest of our life. How many of you agree with me that your life has a patterns? You know, every pattern there is a lack of a skill, and the whole point of you, the, the value what we are giving, the amount of things which I learned from all the mentors, it is very, very negligible. I spent more than ₹1.2 crores in multiple programs, and at least for this Relationship Mastery, nothing less than ₹30 to ₹40 lakh from the international mentors. Yes, so everything is— you are getting it with a very small price. My only intention is, how many of you think this skills has to be there in every single family hold? If you teach to yourself, learning and teaching to your kids, they will have a better future relationships. How many of you think without relationships our life doesn't go? From the morning to get up till night, we interact with hundreds and thousands of people. If we know that the basic skills, will your life becomes better? And what you're investing is very, very negligible compared to the degrees and all of them. If you think about it, where you put a lakh of rupees. But here what you are putting is a simple energy exchange. And by any chance, after end of the program, if you feel, Aravind, this is a useless program, we will give you 100% refund. If you think that, Aravind, I don't know you, I don't know anything, whoever is watching, uh, me that first time. So this is the guarantee which I want to give it to you. Okay, so thank you once again. I'll see you with one more workshop. So keep coming back, keep staying there in wherever the workshop groups or WhatsApp groups is there. Our only intention is if we can keep learning and keep evolving ourselves, we can live the more beautiful, uh, health, relationships, career, and money. Okay, so thank you once again. And by any chance, any of my words, any of my actions, any of my things which I pushed you and it just hurted you, I'm really sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you. Love you all. If you have any questions, you can ask my team member. So my team member is here. Divya would be taking care of if you have any specific questions related to this program and relation to the content. She can answer your questions. Okay, so thank you everyone. So let me know if you have anyone has any questions, anyone wants to share how was the today's experience. Is it worth of your 90 minutes time? I think we are on dot 3 minutes. Is it worth of your time? Are you learn something? What I wanted to tell you, each one of you, is it doesn't matter whether you are part of the program or not part of the program. At least implement whatever you learned. How many of you promise me that I'm gonna do the 3 steps what I taught you? First thing, create acceptance list. Share it today itself with your partner. Second thing is have a mutual agreement that you can criticize and I can criticize, we can all be okay. The third thing is see the third part of the third dimension point of view every single time there is a fight happens. But you need a right person who can do that for you, okay? You cannot do that by yourself, okay? Awesome. So thank you so much, everyone. So if you have any questions, if anyone wants to share how was your experience, you can raise a your hand. I have a couple of minutes. Anyone? How was today's session? Is it worth of your time? Anyone wants to share? Okay, let's go to Rajiv. Yes, Rajiv, how was this experience?

What was your biggest— Thanks. Yeah, it was good. Uh, basically, you know, You touched upon a point which I think affects, you know, the major part of your life every day till you die. And not just family, you know, it's— we're talking about interaction with anybody, could be family, could be colleagues, and could be relatives. More important, could be even strangers. You know, there are many times it's first-time stranger, you never know, the stranger might become a great friend of yours, a great coach like you, or, you know, a great person who could be influencing positively in their life.

Yeah.

So basically, relationship, when we're talking about it, you know, that's what attracted me. I said, hey, this is something which is applicable everywhere, every day, every time. So I thought it is worth it.

Look forward to which part of the workshop you like the most. Is your biggest takeaway for you?

Well, actually, you know, the first 3 points which you mentioned, yeah, the first and second, yes, acceptance. Yes, partner can't change, the whole problem is about partner can't change is why we are having a problem. You're saying no, accept it. So I'm just wondering, that was quite smart of you.

Yeah. So because 90% of the time we waste our energy, even we can't change our own self. There is some part of us we can never be changing. Even if you don't hate, if you hate, that part of us also has to be accepted. Same way with the other person as well.

But you know, Arvind, you were giving examples, you know, disorganized. In my case, it is the reverse. I am very organized, you know, I'm very systematic, organized, and my wife is the reverse. And then I keep thinking, yeah, these are basic expectations from me, you know, why can't this be you know, done. I'm not expecting, you know, rocket science, but you're saying, you know, forget that, accept it. Now that I find it a little difficult to digest, maybe a little more chewing might—

everyone has a different— for example, for me, I, I very rarely get angry. When I look up at my wife, my wife get even for a small thing. If I don't keep this cup where it is, she will get angry. I said, is this the problem to get anger? I used to be— because we are only seeing our point of view, our way of entire life what we live. And for some of the things, for me it is difficult. Whatever I've been tried, tried, I cannot do it. Can I? Is there anything to waste my energy? But isn't it basic? Isn't it basic expectation? We think it is a basic for us, but not in their case. There is some part of us also maybe a basic, we are not doing that. Every person's point of view is different, uh, Rajiv. If it is practicable, it is okay. For example, if I have a habit of not waking up or, you know, not doing my stuff properly, so this has been— I lived like this for 20 years. You cannot change 20 years of a behavior habit in one day. That is one aspect.

But, you know, if you're talking about being systematic, you know, being, you know, like You open a cap and leave the cap always somewhere, and the cap is missing, you know, one fine day. You know, this I think is very basic. You call it basic mannerism, basic etiquette, whatever.

But then, you know, but the way of upbringing, all these things also matters. Basically, what is this? Every person is unique. His energy system is unique. The way he accepts, the way he behaves is unique. So we cannot change that aspect of it. That is by there in the genes. In the genes, whatever is there, you cannot change it. If you try to force, yeah, when you try to force, other person is dying by making you satisfied. You're understanding? It is not that if I don't want to change, if I change every single time, I will be more concerned. It is for me like someone is asking me to lift a 100,000 kgs every single day.

But why do you feel that way? Isn't that wrong?

Yeah, I have faults. I'm not saying that. What I'm saying is that part of me is— that is what, who I am. So there is something like a balanced perspective. So I think we will— we— you will learn in one more, I think, when I teach about it. Every person has a good and bad. Even we have a good and bad. Can you tell me 100% you are— everything is good in you?

No, never, not that bad.

Yeah, so even not that bad, even there's nothing called a 0.1% bad, 100% bad. Bad is bad. But what I'm saying is, instead of accepting that part of us, we are creating a resistance. We are wasting the energy, which is not easy for the other person.

So in other words, you're saying live with it instead of changing?

Yeah, when you are accepting it, they are also releasing a release, and you are also releasing the energy that you are accepting that part of them.

Yeah, but the, uh, crux of the matter is you're living with that instead of trying to improve.

Yeah, this is, this is the one of the relationship lesson we should have known before, but now after me struggling with 8 years, I learned from my mentor. And the moment I implemented, everything is smoother. There is no, there is no fights, there is no, um, resistances. I accept that part of her as she is.

Yeah, that's what I'm trying to, you know, understand is here we are accepting and moving forward. We are not changing things here. We are not correcting things.

Correct.

In other words, be ignorant.

Close your eyes and go ahead. Yeah, we cannot change everyone all the time. The moment we— the only person we can change is— so the universal truth is the shift should come inside you, not in other person. So what are we saying is, if you are expecting other person to change, you are giving power to them. Every behavior of them hurts you. At the end of the day, why are we doing this? Because we want our life to be peaceful. Acceptance or not accepting is whose choice? Is our choice. Because of your not accepting, are you going through some kind of a disturbance in your life.

Yeah, because when you're living under the same roof and you see all the dirt around, you know, exactly.

So that is that part of us. If I am vibrating with that, in universal energy, what I'm actually spreading to the world on energy science basis— if I'm upset all the time, what is energy I'm giving to the universe? Upset is give me more situations which makes me upset. It's again linked to the same thing which I taught you in the boot camp, where everything's part of energy. Why we are accepting here? To break that part of negative energy from our life.

Yeah, so basically we're talking of ignore and go ahead.

Yeah, accept. So there are some things they cannot change. You try to, you try to ask them, this is what is hurting me. Either we communicate them, if they are able to change it, it's fine. If they're not able to change, I accept that part of So for example, my dad, always I say that don't give money, he keeps giving. I cannot avoid that. Because of that, I gone through multiple struggles. I tried for 20 years. Then I said, accepted, he's part of me. I cannot change it. Who's suffering? Every single time I call, I will be talking to him in that angle. Why do you do all these mistakes again and again? Same mistakes.

So accepting and ignorance is kind of same, isn't it?

No, ignorance is different. What I'm saying is ignorant is you are trying to— that is again your point of view, right, Rajiv? For them, it is their natural behavior. I'm not talking about I'm going and throwing the money everywhere and saying I'm ignorant, accept that part of him. I'm not talking about that. So what I'm talking about is some of the basic, uh, basic things when we are living together. You know that some of the characteristics of that person which is the nature of that person. We cannot change that nature of that person. This is what I'm talking about, not the decision. Decisions can be— you give a guidance, you give, but there is some of the behaviors of day-to-day life which we live. So those are the things you need to accept it. Being angry, not being, um, maybe organized, because every person has— that is how that person has lived.

Yeah, but what happens, you know, Arvind, is by ignoring those traits, you're also ignoring the person. At least in my case, I feel it's best to ignore the traits, ignore the habits, ignore the person also. So the distance again still increases there. Yeah, although there is peace, it's better to have a— be neutral than fight. That is the way I look at it. So I said, ignore the person, ignore the habits, whatever, you know.

So The first point is accepting. The second point is anytime you want to express, you need to express. If you don't express, the suppress can blast one day.

Except that, that is already, you know, been told, you know.

Yeah. So if you accepted, for example, if I accepted, the second point is what? I can criticize my partner openly. I don't need to think about what she will say. If I want to show the anger, I can show the anger. But when there is agreement between us, that agreement between us, that so when I argue, I am just expressing what I am feeling. But after that also, I will go and say sorry because maybe if my anger should have hurt you, I'm sorry. Simple. Because we are not, we are not living in a suppressed state at any point of thing. Even if something is hurting you, we— that is why there is a couple of more lessons also we learn in the Mastery Program. So which will also identify beyond whatever right now you are thinking about. There's something like a reflection theory that what you are upset with your wife is not that because of her. Your 90% of the upsets are within you. You are not happy with that part of you, and she is coming and showing you that version of you. Your— our life is a mirror of what we are inside. For me, exactly when my wife says you are inorganized, I'm not— I'm upset that she's identifying my faults. I'm not accepting I'm an inorganized person, which is wrong. Understand? Yeah, which is right, which is reality. I have to accept the reality. If I, if I am bad, if someone is saying bad, if I'm getting hurt, I am saying inside I know that that is truth, but outside I don't want people to know about that part of me.

That is wrong.

That is where we get upset with. So there are multiple lessons. I think once we go through each lesson, you will unfold— everything is interrelated, um, about it. I'm gonna see you. I'm gonna see more, more engagement and more learning there. And let's see how it goes. Thank you once again for enrolling, and thank you, Raju, for sharing. And thank you.

Looking forward to see you in Hyderabad too.

Yes, thank you. Awesome. I want everyone to type in, Rajiv, you are a happy warrior or a love warrior. Yes, yes, Asha. What do you want to show?

Sir, actually you said no, sir, unlimited ketosis is acceptable. Parents, how can Automatic trigger. Angerness trigger.

If the anger is triggering, that means there is a past thing which you're not healed from your parents. You need to heal that. So unlimited hurts and unlimited arguments is the one step. There is a behind, there is a step that, for example, so last 5 years I have gone through some of the memories and that memories is still haunting me. When that criticism happens, you are not talking about that particular scenario of a criticism. You are multiplying the last 5 years of criticism, and that is a pain comes more than the current situation. So we need to also heal. So that is what we do in the first 2-3 lessons of the Relationship Mastery. We heal that part of us first, and then though when you're saying unlimited fights and unlimited forgiveness, there are two processes we are also doing. That means unlimited fight means if I have anger, I'll show it to them, show it to my wife. But again, after certain point of time, I'll go and tell what if she got hurt because of whatever I have caused any kind of a pain. So we are expressing whatever we have, and also we are dissolving any energy blocks happened because of that behavior. But 90% of the time, you are— most of us, we are not fighting for that particular moment. The person of you feeling the pain, the person of you showing the anger is not from the current. The anger is coming from the past. You did that time. Tell me, how many of you agree? Even I was that. Every time you are like this. 2 years ago, on that day you did that. On that day you did this. Anything which is going a past reference, that means you did not heal the past. So when you say unlimited fights, think about the situation then and there. There is one more lesson, extension of this lesson we will be talking about is, so in the, in the, especially in the relationship, we always think two people, two individual people. We are not two individual people. When you married, we are one. Either you are hurting your partner and your partner is hurting you, you are hurting both of your relationship. So there is one more lesson which we go deeper about it, so you will understand the whole logic. For example, if you are the person, do you accept the reality? Do you argue with that? I don't want reality to be seen. If I am— if I have some kind of a fault in me, I cannot hide. I cannot hide that fault, right? I have to accept that fault of mine. So yeah, okay. The third time I am attending, how many times you attend, you will have a different perspective because yes, you're also evolving. It's a kind of a peeling your onion layer by layer. So the same way, the layer by layer you'll be getting. So anything you worked previously, now it will not any impact. There is a new things you are feeling, uh pain. So we need to work in progress.

Thank you, sir. Thank you so much.

Thank you. Thank you. Awesome. So thank you everyone. So if there is any further questions, so you can reach out to Divya. Divya, can you just drop your number? Um, also you can reach out to my team if you have any specific questions about the program or anything. So we will, uh, they will connect with you. Or if anyone wants to have the one-to-one with my team to understand what is this program, you can also drop your number. My team will connect back with Okay, anything, anyone, any doubts, any questions? If there's no further questions, so thank you once again for your time, and I'll see you at the— by the way, Love Mastery Program is getting started from tomorrow. So tomorrow, 9:30, we're going to have a first lesson, and all the people who are not part of it, we, we will give first lesson also free. So please do come consume one more lesson which I'm going to give you free in the Love Mastery Program. And then you can decide if you want to learn the remaining 11 lessons or 12 lessons, whatever is left. Okay, so thank you everyone. Have a great day.