Dr. Aravind Padmaraju explains why women can feel emotionally unloved in supportive marriages: wounded ability to receive love from past rejection and abandonment. The nervous system expects love to be intense and dramatic, but healthy love is quiet and steady. Healing yourself matters before deciding the marriage is wrong.
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Women want sex more than a man. Women want love more than a man. Women want validation more than a man. But sometimes in marriage, you can be deeply loved and still feel emotionally unloved. Your husband may be supportive, loyal, present. He may genuinely care about you. But still, somewhere inside, you have been thinking, why don't I feel anything? Why does this marriage feel empty? Why do I choose the wrong person? Look at Michelle Obama. She has spoken openly about difficult seasons in her marriage, including a period when And they had to work through the major stress and find a new balance. So here is what I want you to understand. Sometimes the problem is not the love is missing. Sometimes your ability to receive and feel the love has been wounded. The old rejection, abandonment, low self-worth, or emotional patterns can make your nervous system expect love to feel intense, dramatic, and consistently reassuring. But healthy love can feel quiet. In my work, I see this often. Before deciding your marriage is wrong, understand what is your own healing. may be asking you to look at. If you are struggling to feel love even when love is present, comment love. I'll send you an exclusive free ticket to my 2 days of Heal and Manifest Bootcamp where you can identify the root cause and fix it.
