Dr. Aravind Padmaraju explains why you keep dating the same person over and over: you're attracted to partners who mirror your unresolved wounds because it feels emotionally familiar. He teaches Ho'oponopono, a Hawaiian forgiveness practice, to break the cycle by chanting "I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you" to your inner child.
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Ever wondered why you keep dating the same person with a different body? It's not the fate, it's a subconscious pattern. You attract who you reflect with, not just your love but your wounds. This is called as a mirror theory. In relationships, mirror what's unresolved inside you. This is the core 3 truths you need to know. It's a loop, not the bad luck. You attract the familiar things because it feels emotionally normal. The second thing, you consciously choose the comfort over the change. Even if it hurts, it's what you know. The third important thing is healing breaks the cycle. Use the Ho'oponopono. Think about that particular incident and keep chanting, I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you. Say it for your inner child. That is where that's running slow right now. The love you attract changes, the love inside you shifts. So comment, I choose different, if you are ready to break the pattern and follow for the relationship healing and subconscious rewiring today.