Aravind Padmaraju argues that healing starts when you stop replaying past interactions and waiting for apologies from people who have already left. True love doesn't send mixed signals, and you don't need a former partner's validation to know you're worthy of love.
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This might hurt you, but please listen to this. Sometimes in life, we keep holding on to the people who have already let go of us. We keep replaying the same story in our heads. Why did they leave? Did I do something wrong? Should I have done things differently? And the truth is, they made their choice. And your healing will begin when you stop waiting for that apology and start giving yourself the closure. Remember, the real love does not send mixed signals. You don't need them to come back and explain why they could not love you. All you need is to remember that you are still worthy of love that stays and that makes you feel seen. So stop begging for the answers from the people who never deserved the silence in the first place. Let them go in and choose yourself.