Why the Law of Attraction Fails for Some People (And How to Make It Work!)

So, are you been practicing Law of Attraction and do you feel that it is not working? And you've been trying to follow all kind of affirmations, you do crazy kind of things, but you don't see any kind of a result. And finally you came to know that Law of Attraction is a biggest scam. So how many of you can able to relate with this? So in this video I'm going to deep dive into how you can practice Law of Attraction in a better way, and what are the some of the mistakes you are doing because of that you are not able to attract what exactly you want, and how, how to do it in a right way, we're going to discuss in this particular video. Hi, my name is Arvind Padmaraju. I'm a, I'm a health and wellness coach. In this video, I wanted to talk about how, what is exactly a law of attraction, and why it is not working for you, and why people think it is the biggest scam, and how you can get rid of doing all these miserable mistakes which you're doing. That's why it is not working. And how some of the, some of my own life lessons, how, how exactly the law of attraction has worked like magically by following these steps. So I'm going to deep dive into all these things. So watch this video till the end, and I'm looking forward to share my, my experiences about that, how law of attraction has changed not only my life, in every single area of my life. Yeah, so let's dive deep into it. So are you frustrated with the Law of Attraction not working for you? You've been following very aggressively affirmations and you're doing every single thing, but nothing is working out. And first of all, let's understand what is the Law of Attraction. Law of Attraction is a science. What it exactly says, the feelings and the emotions what you are vibrating with And every single vibration of your thought, every single, um, thought which is creating, it has a frequency. When the frequency matches with your desire, and automatically you start seeing that particular desire is coming to you. But there is a biggest misconception. People think that by just doing positive affirmations you can manifest the desires, because manifestation happens with these 4 important things. Feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. So I want you to go through your existing manifestation. When you did positive affirmations, when you did all kind of, uh, K-Rezi stuff, whether you did all 4 things are very important. For you to vibrate with a high energy, you need alignment in all the 4 things. Your feelings, your thoughts and beliefs, and your actions should be aligned. When you don't do either one of them, then automatically you will not see the manifestation happening. Right, so most of the times, which with my own life, I always used to write a goal but I never used to take action. I think that some magically someone else will take an effort and automatically unfold it. That is the biggest mistake. You need to take action. Action is one of the most important frequency in law of attraction that you need to take. But in that action, there should not be any desperation and lack. So let me explain you. For example, your goal is to achieving a certain kind of a body fat percentage. For example, you want to reach to your ideal body weight or ideal body fat percentage. How would you can create a law of attraction can work for you. The first and foremost thing is you need to have very clear-cut goal. The goal has to be outcome-based. For example, your goal is to reach, say, around 80 kgs as my ideal body weight. I want to reach to ideal body weight. Then your affirmation should be as if it has already happened. It has to be in a present sentence. And it is not about the affirmations, the feelings that affirmation will generate. You literally have to feel from each and every cell of your body whenever you're saying that affirmation. Just reading affirmation without feelings is useless, that you are wasting your time. Okay, every single affirmation which you're creating, you need to create that feelings. When you really achieve it, how would you feel? You need to exactly get that feelings into your body. For example, my ideal weight is 80 kgs. How you can create affirmations? I'm so grateful and thankful that I'm already achieved 80 kgs of ideal weight, and I'm feeling happy and amazing. You need to attach a feeling to every single affirmation. The more and more you are affirming it, the more and more you start believing that affirmations has started working. And once you started doing it, so start showing the proofs that, you know, you are progressing into it. For example, you lost maybe 100 grams, you are feeling a lot of energetic. Start showing your proof that yes, I'm progressing it, I'm progressing it. That creates a belief system when your feelings and your actions that you are taking, and you see, you show the small, small result as a proof, what happens is it creates a belief system. Yes, this particular feeling what I created, this particular affirmation what I created, this particular action is getting me to the result. So once you have the alignment into your feelings and belief system, the next important thing is actions. So actions has to be taken because without actions there is nothing happens. So this is the biggest mistake. A lot of people thinks that, okay, I will just affirm it, everything will magically happen. It's a It's not going to happen. You need to put action. But one thing you need to do it whenever you're taking action, just ask, is that action you're doing with the desperation and the lack and survival mindset? That action you're taking is as an inspired action. What is inspired action? Inspired action is, for example, you decided to lose weight and there is an inspired intuition came into your mind that, okay, so just go and you got one maybe ad where you have one fitness coach is saying that, you know, he can help you with losing your weight in more scientific way. Your intuition came that he may be the right person. Just do that action to contacting him. And once you contacting him, that, you know, he may give you a plan and start taking actions towards it. And start taking actions every single time. When you take action, ask yourself, am I in desperation or am I in flow? The flow action will have automatically happens. Right? When you do start doing it in desperation, then things may not work. Then another important thing is you get— another important thing which you also do is there is a lot of negative about the result, what you're going to achieve. So most of the clients which I have trained, and even with my own journey, is every single time when I start my fitness journey, my weight loss journey, what happens is I have a self-doubt. Oh my God, I need to torture myself. I need to— how do I going to lose my weight? It's going to be too difficult. What is exactly in law of attraction world? Any thought or any word you are saying with the feeling, it gets attracted into your life. Because of this negative self-talk with a lot of feelings and emotions, you are indirectly attracting that, and that's why your actions is not flow. That's why the desperation is coming. That's why you feel very aligned with the negative emotion than a positive emotion. So how you can get rid of that is keep dropping all these negative emotions by using some of the technique which I call it as, um, mind cleanse letter. So keep writing down all kind of negative beliefs around your goal which you want to achieve. List down all of them, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, all of them list down and burn that particular paper in front of your eyes. This is one of the way of you are removing all the negative self-beliefs, negative feelings about the goal which you want to achieve. Okay, so this is the one of the step you can do it. Once you do that Write down the affirmations as I told you in the starting, that as if it is already achieved, you're really grateful and thankful for it. Once you write down the outcome goal, there are two more affirmations you need to add to the same thing. One is the gratitude affirmations. Start appreciating what you already have. For example, you already have good— you have hands, you have legs, you have a good amount of energy to work out, or a good amount of health, at least some kind of health you have. Start appreciating that. Your health, what you already have. The third kind of affirmations are start creating action-based affirmations as well. Why 90% of the time you are in a desperation in taking action? Because your mind is already registered that this action cannot get the result. That's why the action-based affirmations are very important. Start creating action-based affirmations. Um, I love exercising, I love eating healthy meals, I love sleeping 7 to 8 hours, I love I love drinking 3 liters of water. I'm already drinking 3 liters of water. I'm already being active. I'm already hitting 7K steps so easily, effortlessly. And include all of them and keep repeating them every single day with 100% conviction and 100% feelings. Feelings is very important. Once you start taking this one, and your actions has to be, be part of this journey as well. Yes, this is, this is the way you can create right affirmations along with the Action, frequency affirmation also you can create it. Once you start doing it, then you can also do another practice which you can include as part of this as a visualization. So your 90% of the transformation happens when you match your, when you match this FTBA alignment. Basically, your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions has to be matched. When all of them match, the magic happens like, like this. Yes, so this is what is going to happen with you as well. So don't do these mistakes of desperation. See, law of attraction is is not just a magic, it is a science. You need to make sure that you take each and every step. There are 4 steps to maintain that high frequency, so you need to practice each of each one of them. Then only you will start seeing the result. Okay, so how did I actually gone from being a 40% to, um, 7% body fat? I use the same technique. First thing is I written affirmations. Every single day I used to visualize it, and every single day I used to take action. I kept on repeating, repeating, repeating, repeating this affirmation that I'm already at 7% body fat, I already have amazing body, and I have a flat stomach. And I have been repeatedly saying for almost like 6 months, and my actions used to be automatic, and I was more aware about the actions which I'm taking. I used to be more active in my steps, I used to be more active going to the gym, I used to be more aware about the food what I'm eating, I used to be more consistent with my water intake and sleep. Every single thing was so effortlessly happening because My mind is already aligned. These 4 things are already aligned— your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. Yeah, so hope that helps. So don't, don't just go into law of attraction. It's not something you just write down the goal and everything happens magically. You need to have alignment on the 4, all 4 different things. And also you need to see what kind of energy you're carrying whenever you're creating a goal. Okay, so that is very important. When you don't take those inspired actions, when you don't release, release all the negative patterns, what happens? It is not going to manifest. So if I wanted to tell you one simple rule how you can create any kind of a magic is two things: cleanse and create. Cleansing your all the negative emotions about the goal what you're trying to remove. Either you can use the technique which I told you about releasing by using a mind cleanse letter and burning it. You are using, uh, burn that all the negative things whatever you're there. And also you can use another technique which is also called Ho'oponopono. Every single time there is a negative emotion happens, keep affirming that I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, and I love you. So keep repeating this until and unless you feel emptiness, that, you know, there is no negative emotion, or there is— you feel completely comfortable. Till the time you release it, and then keep affirming it and also visualize it to create that particular thing. So when these two things happen, when you are— all the four areas of your feelings, your thoughts, your beliefs, and actions are aligned, automatically the magic is going to happen. Yes, this is the science, guys. So your law of attraction works. The only thing is why it is not working— you're doing these mistakes. You're doing this in the desperation. You're not taking proper actions. And that's why it is not happening. So hope this video is helpful. This, this thing works for any area of your life. And some of the things which I have achieved by using a law of attraction is amazing. I am able to sell my property which I was not able to sell. I did the same process of releasing all my negative emotions and creating what exactly I want to feel. And even I did the same thing with attracting my dream physique of my body. And I did the same thing for creating an amazing business around health and health and wellness. I also use the same method to have a beautiful relationship with my wife and with my family. And I use the same principle even attracting and becoming an author, becoming a TEDx speaker, and becoming a doctorate. I was able to complete the doctorate in health and wellness, able to meet so many amazing coaches around the world, and able to attract, multiplying my money 10 times every single investment. I use the same kind of a principle. So it is very simple process, but the problem is you do it in desperation. And one more thing you need to keep in mind, there is nothing you cannot— you cannot put a time and what time is going to happen. Leave that to the universe. So once you set a right intention, keep realigning these 4 things: your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, and actions. And you keep taking action and leave the result and leave how it is going to happen, how it is going to unfold to the universe, because it will unfold the time when it comes and when it really has to unveil into your own life. Yes, hope this helps. So Law of Attraction works, guys. So the only thing is don't do those mistakes of being in desperation and not taking actions will not take you to achieving that goal. Yeah, so hope this works. And if you're really new to our channel and if you really wanted to get all the new valuable content which I'm going to create, to be notified, I want you to click on the subscribe button. Also click on the bell icon, you will be notified. And if you want to practice this Law of Attraction and mind re- listening. Every single day I do something called a daily warrior practice. The link is in the below, um, giving you 7 days free where you can use the law of attraction on your health to manifest your dream body. 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Uh, there's only one thing I wanted to tell you is watching this whole video and not doing any action, as if it's a waste, you are wasting your time. So start practicing whatever you're learning and start implementing it. Implementation is a key to attract whatever you want in your life. Yeah, thank you so much. Have a great day, guys. See you with one more new video. Take care, bye-bye.