Treat emotional energy like money you're investing. God acts as your accountant, telling you how much to put into each relationship. Over-invest and you risk losing everything; invest wisely and a breakup feels like a tax, not a tragedy.
If you stay up, nobody can't break your heart. And they ain't just financial. If you your best version of you, you can't get your heart broke because your energy is in you. Anytime your heart is broken, you have allowed too much energy into that person. That's why you gotta let God be your accountant, because he'll tell you how much of your energy to put into somebody. If you put too much money into a stock and it crash, and it crash your bank account, you should have put that much out there.
Okay.
But if you keep your energy in you, your heart can't be broke because God's gonna be your accountant. You're gonna know how much energy to put into that.
Okay, so only put out what you can afford to lose.
No, only put out what God tell you to put out there. He gonna tell you. You're gonna feel like this person don't deserve all that, so I'm not going to give them. So when they leave, that was just tax money anyway.