Brendan Kane breaks down what real confidence looks like: asking basic questions without shame, accepting correction easily, staying calm when underestimated, and not needing constant validation. Confident people don't flinch when questioned or corrected.
Here's how you know someone is confident. Epictetus once wrote, "If you want to improve, be content to be thought foolish and stupid." Basically what this means is real confidence is not needing to look impressive all the time. It's about being secure enough to risk looking unimpressive. You'll notice it in how someone handles small moments. They'll ask the basic question everyone else is too insecure to ask. When corrected, they don't punish the room with their ego. When someone else gets attention, they don't compete for it. And when they're underestimated, they don't rush to prove people wrong. They just keep moving. Confidence is not the person who needs every room to know they're powerful. Confidence is the person who can be questioned, corrected, or underestimated without flinching for a second.
