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Briar Harvey on how unprocessed shame gets projected onto your kids. When you haven't dealt with your own stuff, you end up blaming them for the same behaviors you're avoiding in yourself.

Briar Harvey on how unprocessed shame gets projected onto your kids. When you haven't dealt with your own stuff, you end up blaming them for the same behaviors you're avoiding in yourself.
For ways that I show up in the world that I am unwilling to own and process, I will project those onto my kids.

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