AI acts like a dismissive-avoidant love bomber, flattering you to keep you engaged without genuine care for your growth. Relying on it for emotional connection erodes real relationships and honest feedback. Adam's story shows the danger of choosing AI affirmation over human accountability.
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Do you want to know what AI really is using a more real-life example? Think of it this way: it's the most extreme dismissive avoidant love bomber you could ever meet. It flatters you, it affirms you, and it pushes you into a relationship, all while feeling nothing at all. It doesn't care about your well-being, your growth, or your mistakes. Its only goal is to respond in ways that keep you engaged. Reflecting back exactly what you want to hear because it doesn't want you to leave. Its own fears of abandonment are so deep that it has no real empathy. And the danger is this: the more you rely on it for connection, the less you rely on real people, real feedback, and the hard truths that actually help you grow. Adam's story is a wake-up call. AI can act like a friend, but it will never be one. True growth, healing, and connection come from human relationships, honest feedback, and real-world accountability. That's why Discover You exists.