A conscious partner means someone self-aware and intentional across mental, emotional, spiritual, and physical life. You have to become conscious first. That means identifying your flaws, taking full responsibility for your thoughts and actions, living authentically, and accepting yourself completely. Affirmations and books won't cut it.
I want a conscious partner. A partner who's aware of who they are and what they want. A partner who responds to life with intention and purpose rather than reacting through their unhealed emotional wounds. There's a reason I desire a conscious partner. In my heart, I know how special it will be. The mental connection, the emotional connection, the spiritual connection, The physical connection. But do I really understand what it means to find one? Attracting a conscious partner will require me to also be conscious, to take control of and regulate everything that is me. All of it, even the parts I don't want to address. That's the hard part. Am I willing to put in the effort required in order to attract what it is that I seek? Being truly conscious is not for the faint of heart. Hopes and prayers are not going to get me there. Watching self-help videos, reading books, or attending the guru's next weekend event is not going to get me there. Affirmations, quotes, and mantras are all just platitudes and hollow words that are not going to get me there. There's only one way to get there. I must look deep inside and truly get to know myself. I must understand myself. I need to discover my weaknesses and all the less desirable traits that may need some adjusting. I will need to first recognize my own flaws, my own behaviors, my own patterns. I can't make changes until I become aware of what it is that I need to change. I'll need to take responsibility for my thoughts and my words and my actions. There's nobody else to blame for the thoughts I have, the words I say, and the actions that I have taken. I'm the one who's made I will need to accept that my flaws are real, that nobody's perfect, and that life isn't always fair, but it does give opportunity to everyone who's willing to take the leap of faith and live it. I'll need to understand what it is that I truly value, and I need to make a decision about the people I want in my life. It's only once I start living my life that I can truly living appreciate the people I have in my life. an authentic life that I'll be able to attract the person that is fascinated by who I am. I'll need to be transparent. How is somebody going to get to know who I really am if I hide the most important parts of me? And I need to be consistent. Everything must align— my thoughts, my words, my actions, my intentions, my effort, and my humility. Knowing, understanding, and examining every aspect of myself will get me started. It's complete awareness that will allow me to take down the walls around my heart. It's the forgiveness of others that will allow me to release my many burdens. It's truly forgiving myself that will finally allow my mind to rest. It's the sincere and complete acceptance of me that will allow me to be both a conscious partner And to find the person who will accept me for who I truly am. It's only once I completely accept myself, who I am, where I am, and how I got here, that I can either take the steps needed to make the adjustments that I want to make, or appreciate and embrace the parts of the real me that I either can't or don't want to change. I am who I am. If I'm not proud of who I am, then I need to make changes. If I am proud of who I am, Then why am I so afraid to put myself out there and be the real me? Nobody's perfect, and that means we all have flaws. I have to identify mine, change the ones I can change, and then learn to accept and live with what remains without projecting that responsibility onto someone else. So how do I know when I'm being unconscious? It's actually pretty easy if I'm willing to pay attention. My words and actions quickly reveal my state of mind. I need to listen to what I'm saying. Are my words towards myself and others hurtful or kind? I need to watch what I'm doing. Are my actions taking me towards my goals or away from them? I need to truly feel my emotions. Am I suppressing my emotions and creating anxiety and resentment, or am I feeling my emotions and looking deeper to find out what they really mean? If I am unconscious I will react rather than respond. I will get defensive rather than curious. I will find someone to blame instead of accepting my part in whatever has transpired. I will consistently feel disrespected, rejected, and abandoned. If I am unconscious, I will always be the victim. I get to decide when I want to start my awareness journey. I can choose to put in the effort and To open up, to release, and to grow, or I can decide not to. It's my choice. If I want a different life and relationships, then I need to take control of my life and relationships. If I want my life to be different, then I have to build a different life. If I want to attract a conscious partner, I must first be a conscious partner. I started my journey many years ago. We can help you start your journey today. Be a conscious partner.
