Small Town Bigger Dreams | My Life journey (मेरी जीवन यात्रा)

In this bilingual (Hindi‑English) interview, host Taiba talks with Haritosh Srivastav about his journey from a small town near Varanasi (Jaunpur) to a multifaceted professional career. Haritosh recounts his early education in Hindi, Sanskrit and Urdu medium schools, the influence of multilingual exposure on his confidence, and the moment he decided to pursue engineering. He describes his college years at a technical university in Uttar Pradesh, the challenges of transitioning from a Hindi‑medium background to English‑based engineering studies, and the importance of planning ahead. After graduation he secured his first job at Mantri, then moved to Bangalore where he adapted to an English‑only environment, later shifting to Noida for personal reasons and joining TCS, where he spent eight years. Throughout his career he became involved with Toastmasters (referred to as “TOS Masters”), describing how the club helped him improve communication, leadership, and provided a global network. He highlights mentorship experiences, both as a mentee and mentor, and reflects on the role of good managers. Haritosh shares his growth‑mindset philosophy, treating failures as stepping stones, his view on time‑management as “priority management,” and offers advice to young professionals: dream big, stay open to learning, balance personal and professional life, and continuously develop speaking and leadership skills. The interview concludes with gratitude and a call to keep learning and growing.
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तायवा बहुत ही अच्छा सवाल है आपका and ई थिंक जैसे मैंने आज भी 1 इंटरव्यू किया था दीपक शर्मा सरकार, उन्होंने कहा था की he is working progress, i say i have just tted my work, i am still learning so i was born in brot up in a small town, call jonpुरजाnपुरवाराणसी के जस्ट बगल में wars very famous after नरेंद्र मोदी now everybody knows, it is about sixty किमी फ्रॉम वाराणसी and वहाँ pe mera janm हुआ था myadlieducation was then there and it is an interesting conversation, because mera first up to class it i was in sarswati sisi mandir, which is poly hindi एंड संस्कृत and then i studied in sea college, which is hindi an urdu so i got the player of both hindi eंg्lislesinglis actually बट लिटल बेटा उर्दू को इंसीडेंटली जहां पर मैं रहता हूँ, उसका नाम भी उर्दू बाजार सो वेरी स्माल down i std देर स rom your hindi medium cafe acha time tha it was there to two thousand to when i completed my intermatedanthen i moved on to sees, then not been back to jonpodexsetfor few months and that will talk about litlebitlater बट 2 हज़ार 2 से जब मैं निकला उसके बाद से मैं प्रॉपर जौनपुर का निवासी नहीं रह गया, आई ना इस इस ट्वेंटी ट्वेंटी जस्ट जीरो में एटीनीयर्स डिफ्रेंस या
बहुत इंट्रेस्टिंग है मतलब आपने पहले हिंदी और संस्कृत मीडियम स्कूल से पढाई करी fire उर्दू और हिंदी मीडियम स्कूल एंड देन 9 द वे यू स्पीक इंग्लिश सो फ्लुएंटली and so nicely and so confidently it so। अमaजिंग तो her you तो मतलब पता नहीं चलता कि आप इतने मल्टी लिंगन होने के बावजूद हाउ डू यू मैनेज तो लर्न सोमनी लैंग्वेजेज दैट टू with such confidence in pois its just so amazing, now i would like to move ahead and ask, what was how did you decide engineering? how do you decide the stream for your college? how did not happen and how was the college life? एंड हाऊ डि लीट टू यू गोइंग आउट फ्रॉम you नो that college to the corporate world,
thank you very good question। फर्स्ट लेटमी एम नॉट मल्टीलिंग मुझे हिंदी और इंग्लिश ही आती है, थोड़ी बहुत इंग्लिश आती है और हिंदी आती है, उसके अलावा मुझे और कोई लैंग्वेज अभी नहीं आती है im ट्राइंग तो लनf्रेंजपटiम वेरीवadiटिट सो आई वाज इन जौनपुर 2 हज़ार 2 तक में था and how i cos injeniringwas इट इज वेरी इंटरेस्टिंग स्टोरी की जब भी बचपन में कोई गिफ्ट में टॉय या कुछ भी मुझे मिलता था, या कोई पैरेंट्स लाके आते थे डाक ट i will not लास्ट for more than two days। क्यूंकी i wl dis semble all the part ll the sicaris of that and in most other टाइम वो वापस जोड़ नहीं पाता तो विवर्सइंजिलिखे बचपन से सो एंड जब भी लोग देखते थे, अच्छा ये फिर से इसने कर दिया, फिर से 1 और खिलौना गया तो मतलब ये तो इंजीनियर बनेगा सो that label was already there, but no i was lucky i was not force to be eंजenिर अन लाइक लॉट ऑफ kids to say who आर fors to become in iंजीnirऔरडॉcr my parents webit to what ever स्ट्रीम you want to my father by the way is a retired distric omapaticofficer so and my tauji is an ingeniriisretired ingenirso i had got the option, whatever i feel like the reason i chose mat was my dring was very bag and i had very to much problem in remembering the terms of biology to math अच्छा लगता था you can you can just learn the formula and see the application and you will be good। बायोलॉजी के लिए बहुत मेहनत करनी पड़ती थी मेडिकल फील्ड में बहुत ही जयादा competiton to i that i chose the easy वन एक्ली शूट goods me so that s i chose in jinding and so i chose math in intermetedandthen for next wen year in two thousand, three first time घर से बाहर nicl that was sixty varansi and as the sky, it is very important, तो have the right association, right frends, right people, around you so that was the year i think i had the worst of it to say कोinसgeटलyमैं अपने फादर के 1 फ्रेंड के बेटे के साथ रहता था, then i was the college opr iintermeted, but seens he was not to much into स्टडीज and i actually i thought my level went really down, because if you are staying with someone and he s not starting, you also get d motivate like okay lets chart lets play, lets o something so, we use to do everything set studies, and and that s one regret i have maybe i would ve study more that make would i could have what have got a betr college, never de les i think after one years, i got admision into college in thadrithadriis very famous next grater n as part of upto उttrprdes technical university and so next two thousand three se le to thousand seven tk i did my ingeniering full time hasler mat tens of friends, life time friends some of them stil very glos friends and then i had very low confidence, but one thing i did in my intrmidedwछ really proved helpful and rich i would give as a first advise to any enster is plan a head and why i want to say this is you have to have some vison of what you want to be in future of what you want to do i was in intrmetedjb intrmetedmeं था thing मैट्स, physics, chemistry सब कुछ हिंदी में hota, but i know i m going to do enginiring or something that it is going to be all english so i used to make sure that we all the ki terms i translate to english for example chemistry is rasiansas्t्र भौतिकी फिजिक्स things like those and there are so many them terms like no gravity grutakrshn things like that so i used to do my all the north in hindi, but for all the ke terms i need to i used to find out a books already used to have lot of terms, but for other terms, i used to find out and that i think prove to be a game changer for me when i went to ingniring lॉटofpeopl जो कि हिंदी मीडियम से आते हैं, they strgletो अnderstand the terms radar अnderstanding the concept sens i had done that free work at लीस्ट। मुझे वो टाइम नहीं लगता था कि concept कॉनसेप्ट पे टाइम ज्यादा देता था दैन अंडरस्टैंडिंग the की टर्म्स सो दैट हेल्प and two thousand and six शुरुआत
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आलसो i could say that actually now now when you say and i think i थिंक i was i लाइक टू बी ऑर्gेनiजe मुझे प्लान करना और पहले से प्रवेश करना अच्छा लगता है this proby i थिंक यह मुझे आया है शायद मेरे दादाजी से ग्रैंड फादर से ही वाज वेरी फंकशवल given a speech in tos master also about him and he was very punture and he was very taro with concept he used to prepare for anything and i think that sees i spend my arly fourteen sixteen years with fortunate to spend with him and my grandmother i think i god those qualities सो even in enginiring times, it is very interesting times genarally what happens is की जब इंजीनिरिंग के स्टूडेंट होते हैं, they are नोट मच स्टडिंग फॉर first for month of semester and last one one and half मांस they will do each and everything to study। तो 4 महीने पूरी मस्ती करते हैं। लास्ट के 12 महीने उतनी उतनी ज्यादा पढ़ाई करते थे। i was actually litlbatofrevers of that so i was more of a consistent player। not exactly कछुआ but litlwatmorethan that सो आई use टू स्टडी कंसिस्टेंटली four one to to ars right from the start and used to do the same to worsen semester सो जब सबको 16, 17, 18 घंटे पढ़ाई करता था i still use to study three four ars and to lot of masti and my favorite my favorite spooky thing was that whenever any of the i mean hastle का mahol थोड़ा अलग होता है जब exam at everybody is going to dr place and seeing c con क्या pd रहा है mar friends, they used to find we sleeping and they used to fleecoutwisthis guys sleeping। there is exam tomato and he sleeping and it was more of a preparation। because i नो टन things that i supposed to do so not in over confidence। but if you are prepared you know i think i can do that and that use to help i had a couple of good ru mates in hostel, who is still a very good friends of men and i think still get connected them i was really fortunate to have those। because they were able to cope with me when everybody studing and your rommatissleeping its not a good seen, but the new the new how operate and they were very ajustingto that so it help so in two thousand and six in our sixeser so actually in fifth semester। there was the first campus company game in fortis at that time a lot a was prepared i believe on six or seven people got selected from the college of four hundred plus people and i was not one of them and i was divasitedkiwas devastitit, but we cap on working hard and i would myself fild very lucky unfortunate that in next mister they re a few more companies and i was prebelisto गेट a job offer from company call mantri and also had offer from satim। but i join mint two thousand and seven i dont know लक मेरे साथ कुछ hrbar होता है generaly people have a lot of time after the complete ingenringandbefore their joining, they have one through ne the n for mnc break। मेरे केस में my college finish on forteen juna समthingandby ट्वेंटी जून वी हैव टू लीव फॉर banglor, because we have the jinding first जुलाई and इन 2 and नॉट ऑनली दैट, उस 2 हफ्ते में भी बहुत सारे फॉर्मेलिटीज करने थे कि ये मेडिकल सर्टिफिकेट लेके आओ, ये बनवा के लव, वो बनवा के लव, why was lucky, was an lucky to not get a break so that s how two thousand and seven second july i jind mntyltdinbanglor along with my i think thirty more caleg of the but
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thank you so to thousand seven i ज्वाinbanglor i had नो idea? how do you get out of your first time, i was out of my hindi is cakonvntadury was different from my hoमtाउn। बट दिस टाइम it was नीचे से जमीन सरक जाने वाले, जैसे कहते है उसके पहले english was लगर, but वहा जाके english nesecity bn, because you dont have any other option, so you have to speak in english, you have to do all the conversation all the discussion in english and otherwise they start doing in canada canada tamil telgu no of ins to any south eden language, the beautiful langवaज, but in order for all of rs to be on the same page, its important की हम englis में कनवर्ट करें and when you go out you have to learn a bit of local language to and canada as we know kand sam northern area, but is actually call canada ther so canada was the main language, there so i was there for close to four years, said, more than three and hafiersanistarted learning a bit of canada, which i field, and i dont remember and even point zero zero ne percent of that, but i think this is one thing, i learned that now if you are being some were। इफ यू ट्राई, टू लर्न देर लैंग्वेज ट्राई, टू लर्न देयर कल्चर ट्राई अंडरस्टैंड देयर बैकग्राउंड हेल्प brॉडइnरस्पेक्टिव, आपका नजरिया बदलता है कई बार हमारे अंदर बहुत सारे प्री कंसिव नोशन भरे होते हैं कि वहां पर, वहां पर ऐसा है नोट एवरीथिंग इस ट्रू so give me one second, i think i need to put my laptop on charger, okay sorry so so saying when you understand the local language, local culture, local kusen it has you brogdineperspective, आपका नजरिया बदलता है और जो आपके अंदर में बहुत बार गलत चीजें भरी होती है वो निकल जती है होते है कई बार बाइसे हो
1 चेली ह्यूमंस कैरी लोट ऑफ़ बाइसे वैन वी गो टू अ न्यू प्लेस हमें हमारे पेरेंट्स या कहीं न कहीं रिश्तेदार या कोई न कोई ऐसे माइंड में भर देता है अरे वहाँ के लोग तो ऐसे होते हैं वैसे होते हैं आई, बिलिव, ह्यूमन सब जगह ज्यादातर 1 जैसे होते हैं बहुत ज्यादा डिफ्रेंस होता नहीं है इस बेसिकली और माइंड भी डील वित पीपल तो वो प्री कंसीव नोशंस बहुत सारे लेकर चलते हैं हम। जब हम कहीं नई जगह पर जाते है और जैसे आपने बोला जब हम नई मतलब उस लैंग्वेज को एक्चुवल में उनके कल्चर को उनकी ऐसी देखते हैं तो 1 अपना पंजा महसूस होता है हम उसमे फिर ज्यादा अच्छे से घुल
पाते हैं करेक्ट एंड एंड 1 चीज है की हर जगह अच्छे लोग होते हैं और हर जगह बुरे लोग होते हैं सो दैट इज आलसो थिंक तो नो की आइडेंटीफाई की आपके लिए कौन सही है और कौन सही नहीं है बिगार्डलेसऑफ़ jo be culture baggroundandol, i would say i had my best manager, as my first manager in the work is there and i still respect him a lot, i have an met him we plant to meet in us, but we could not in so i had lot of people had now they had bad managers i said my managers my good managers out ways out numbers to one or bad manager to say i had a number of managers lkiadsensyeah i was i think i am lucky in that most of the manager i have worked with they are been really really helpful, really supportive and everybody ave there on merit and demerits, but no we feel impower when you feel included in the team, it he s in that perspective i say except on manager, i would say i have been lucky to work with so many good manager।
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for first year, my first ear what tcs वैस like me to code cla jaunga i was a por technical and for the very first year, i did not to be ones, i did not like the kind of work, we were doing। because i was so much into coding and technical technology and all those things ं and whenever you change a company, it is a uncomfortable thing, so i was like 18 साल के बाद निक, but there i m after close to it s, now so i think there something special about tcs that people say a new join, teases its very hard to de। मेरी जर्नी काफी रोडर कोस्टर रही and i would say i was the same guy jo ki banglore se noida a ta। because i wanted to stake lose to my family, but then teachers gave me opportunity to go overseas not only on not only tis इन फैक्ट अभी at this time, i m on my third trip and second time to you ka so i think। there are always think like corporat politics by s and im not delaying that there will be negativity, but on digad learned is that you doing good work। अगर आप अच्छा काम कर रहे हैं, अगर आप मेहनत से काम कर रहे है, अगर आप पैशन से काम कर रहे हैं तो आपका काम आपसे ज्यादा बोलता है और अगर आपका काम हमसे ज्यादा बोलता है तो आपको कहीं न कहीं किसी न किसी फॉर्म में सफलता जर करें न आपको बोलने की जरुरत पड़ती है और आपको किसी न किसी फॉर्म में सफलता मिलती रहती है अलग अलग समय पर हो सकता है उस टाइम पर हम उसको ना पहचान पाएं बट जब आप सोचेंगे when you reflect back you रeaाइजकhaigot some sccess so i think that way i file lucky and this is ben a grad asociation with
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no idea first i think first post master attended in about i believe in two thousand fourteen some time that s when we were forced to go in attend i did not now, what is it? and just went there for an an लाइक। ये क्या चल रहा है, कुछ बोल रहा है कोई उसका जवाब कर रहा है। and i think i remember the was able topic, there so i think my first ever table topic was i think it s something rate to dreams and making caslesiner समथिंग लाइक दैट something late to that so i went there i dont remember what exactly i spoke there, but, but see below stand, was the below average was there, but then i went out of india and two thousand fifteen in the same manager was like again and again founding that you guys should join tostmastryougy टोसमास्टr and i think i m really grateful to him, because had not been so much, admenthadis, had not been so much insistant about that probably mana jin ne ka hota so two thousand sixteen i join post master after attending of you meeting, because i wanted to be the person who प्रैक्टिसेस what he prit सो, अगर मैं अपनी टीम को बोल रहा हूं ज्वाइन करो तो आई शो डू इट फर्स्ट तो मैंने ज्वाइन किया and i रियली लाइक द इनवायर्नमेंट बहुत सपोर्टिव इनवायरनमेंट होता है डोंट थिंग i नीड टू टेल यू बट परा ऑडियंस ऐसी जगह जहां पर हम कम्यूनिकेशन और लीडरशिप की वी कैन सी की ये कम्यूनिकेशन और लीडरशिप इम्प्रूव करने के लिए 1 जिम की तरह जहां जाके आप प्रैक्टिस करते हो कैसे अपनी कम्यूनिकेशन इम्प्रूव करनी है, कैसे अपनी लीडरशिप इम्प्रूव करनी है एंड दिस इज नॉट अ प्लेस टू लर्न इंग्लिश जस्ट क्लaरिfाiटो एव्रीवन ये इंग्लिश इंग्लिश ट्यूशन क्लास नहीं है to agar agar if you think that you are gone learn english probably not the best choice, but if you want to improve your comunication, this is the best place most economical most loving peoples are there and yeah so two thousand sixteen is when my jeunes स्टाrटed and i was there for about eight month nine month so before i had to go to united states for my second trip, but we at mina golden te i had my first mentor satya preatosmsatiaprea i think, she is not not to smarter now, but now she was the one who persuaded meaning you should do that you can do that and i do i was so nerves for giving my first speech, जिसको हम isbreकrस्पीच कहते है she took me to a confrence room and she lisentomy speech and then suggested of you things an i updated my script in igavidagainandthen morgaon bad so that s how i started and then i capt on going for years now
get jennisofायएक्ट्वली मेटर का कौंसेप्ट ही पता था एंड यू वुड बी साउंड टू नो किसी ने मुझसे जब मैं नोएडा सेवेन में थी 1 प्रोजेक्ट में, तो किसी ने मुझे ऐसे बोला था की मेरे मेंटर ऐसे थे और वो मुझसे इतना ज्यादा मोटीवेट करते थे, तो मैंने किसी से पूछा की मेंटर होता क्या है सीरियसली न क्लू मेंटर लाइक टोस मास्टर्स बिकज में आलरेडी ठीक ठाक बोल रही दीदी तो कभी किसी ने मुझे सजेस्ट ही नहीं किया कि मेंटर जैसा भी कुछ होता है एंड मैट यू तभी मुझे पता चला था समथिंग कॉल्ड मेंटर मेट यू आई विल आलवेज सी आई राइट बुक, आई विल राइट दैट दैट डे वॉस अ गेम चेंजर इन माई लाइफ एंड ओनली से नो माउंट ग्रैटिट्यूड कैन कम्पनसेट फॉर यू नो द काइंड ऑफ़ एफर्ट दैट यू पुटिन फॉर योर मेंटीज तो मतलब वो कहीं न कहीं जैसे आप हमेशा कहते हैं आपकी लाइफ में बहुत अमेजिंग मेंटर्स थे, कुछ काफी सारे से मैं मिली हूँ जिसे मार्क से मिली और तरुण सर सी मिल चुकी हूँ और इनसे नहीं मिली हूँ ये वाले जो मेंटल है आपकी ये जो मन की ऐसे जिन्होंने जो सबसे खास है आपके लिए यू हैव हैड सो मेनी मेंटर गुड
queston इं कौन सबसे खास है कौन सबसे खास है ये कहना बहुत ही ज्यादा मुश्किल होगा आई कैन टॉक अबाउट अ फ्यू मेंट्स आई हैड आई थिंक में ऑडियंस में छोड दूंगा कि वो डिसाइड करे कौन सबसे खास था सो आफ्टर साथिया प्रिया देर इस दिस टोस्ट मास्टर तरुण भारगव सिर ही वाज डिविजन डायरेक्टर फॉर नॉन टोस्ट मास्टर ये 1 डेजिगनेशन होता है विच इज बेसिकली आप पंद्रह 16 क्लब मैनेज करते हो 1 पर्टिकुलर एरिया का and he was a great mental, great help and i लर्न हाऊ टू बी हंबल हाउ टू बी डीटेल ऑरिएंटेड हाउ टू बी सो मच केयरिंग फॉर पीपल हम चाहें या न चाहें हमें ऐसा कंडीशन दी जाती है बचपन से की अगर आपका कोई लीडर है या मैनेजर है तो मोस्ट प्रावली वो या तो खडूस होगा या तो वह डांटने वाला होगा ya to fir
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i was so i think। we can talk about the very first time in it was one of the meeting tos master meeting, they used to meet on wednesday so you are tended the club meeting। i was also there and then next gen yeah used to then after meeting and i think it was next day or day after and use to a i used to have headphone or earphone and i was resining to some very serious podcast and i was like lost in parts and reflection in sadan ou appeard i and i was i hello and it was it was a for you and me bot, but but i think the from there or thing association has been great one thing i love about to master the connect that the person, the genuine connect that you get from people is real i won से impossible, but its rear to find outside। because you wont know that people really care for you are not so this is one place, where no you get to network, you get to connect with people and you tester so that when our asociation started in चल रहा है। अभी आपकी जी के बारे में बात नहीं करने,
then that about what a mentor i actually never new the समथिंग कॉल मेंटर कहीं न कहीं मेरी टोस्टmाsटrजornी लॉट तो यू बिकauजitwas in way इन कम्पलीट क्योंकी इससे पहले मैंने ज्वाइन करा था, टोs्टmastrबt left बिकाज देर never मोटीवaशनब जब आप थे तो जैसे हर वीक टू हैव वीकली कनेक्ट मतलब ऐसा लगता है हर वी वी हैव टू हरितोशविलकमैनही विल आस्क इस हफ्ते क्या करा एंड मैं तो वैसे इतनी एक्साइटेड रहती थी सारी चीजों के लिए, तो आप जैसे भी कुछ भी बताते थे यूस्ट टू बी सो मच आई डोंट नो दे सो मच इंतिजा देन एंड नो आलसो की मुझे सीखना है मुझे जाना है in fact mt us go to that extent if your rating something in a meeting so i used to peep in your paper सो i थिंक lot of jest to learn थिंग फ्रॉम यू वेरी मेंटर बहुत जेनरिस थे की सारी चीजें बता देते थे, समझा देते थे कभी किसी चीज में ये नहीं बोलते थे न ये अभी ये नहीं बता रहा मैं सो इस सो मी मैं बहुत ही इंत्यजास्ट्िकथी उससे भी ज्यादा इंत्युजास्टिक थे दैट इज द कनेक्ट हैप्पन एंड जो भी मैंने वटेवरमाईजनीहाज बीन i o every part of that gone to you, because without you it in complete and its
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अब मैं सिर्फ 1 चीज पूछना चाहूंगी आपसे की 1 छोटी सी जगह से स्मॉल टाउन से आये जौनपुर से फिर आपका सफर गया। बैंगलोर देन यू के एंड यू एस एन अगेन यू के तो आपने लाइफ में बहुत कुछ देखा न टोस मास्टर में आप डिस्टिंग टोस मास्टर बने आपने डिविजन लेवल कॉन्टेस्ट जीता एंड यू हव डन लॉट दिस डूरिंग ऑल दीज यर्स प्रोफेशनली पर्सनली मेंटरिंग भी करी आपने इस साल तो वाट इज योर टेक वी फॉर यंग peopl की what is your saxs mantra? और मंत्रा फॉर होलसोमलाइफ you that valences of fl, because i see you are that person, who who knows how to balance a lot you no how to give time to family, then office and then dos masters and then mantri everything so, what is your take a b for young people की वो किस तरीके से 1 फोल्सम लाइट लेके जिए
thank you i थिंक बहुत ही अच्छा सवाल है a i dont think i achived a lot of things to be on est। i have so many things to achieve, but i m also not going cat e i m not going to disebar disrespect, what अं so far in my gerne and i know some time it feels like भी to call a m going to susumandirand now, next moment, you think it feels like like the link right। how change and how many things happen so if i have to give you few advices for spेcayfॉrmy young friends। who are gone a join, the career of something i probably give and one of the reasons, we did this interview was my brother in law as me to talk about your jurnyanandmaybe people will learn something i m not sure, they will learn something, but i can definitely give my take a was first thing is never stop dreaming at the same time never be to reset what that means is you have to aspire to have great things in life? बट यू शुड आलसो expect to have falar बड़ा सोचोगे तभी बड़ा करोगे, लेकिन अगर सिर्फ यो सोचोगे जब बड़ा करोगे, तभी कुछ करोगे तो कुछ नहीं कर पाओगे। मेरी लाइफ में बहुत सारे फैलियर्स हुए हैं। ई डों थिंग स्टिल सचज स्टिल स्टार्टिंग आज से वर्किंग स्टार्ट और स्टार्टिंग work, but i फैल so many टाइम आई नेवर क्वालीफाई to iit और रीजनल जीनिंग कॉलेज आई स्टडी फ्रॉम प्राइवेट इंजीनियिंग कॉलेज ऑफ यूपी यूपी टेक्निकल यूनिवर्सिटी नोट तो डिसरिगॉर्ड द कॉलेज बट i thought i could have on much better first falire second falire i prepared for managment exams i never could qualify never when to mb college that second faliure i
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जैसा हमेशा बोलते हैं ग्रोथ माइंडसेट कंररेक्ट मुझे वो चीज से बेस्ट लगती है ग्रोथ माइंडसेट डे यू avid with that its so much sorted
correct, i have the book here so one of my hobbies is going back to book in this kovid, nineteen this book is amazing book, i m, so many amazing bok, this is one of my favorite। विच टॉक, अबाउट की fिxmाinसेट क्या होता है और grोtमाइnसेट क्या होता है और सो अगर आपकी life में grotmाinsेtआप हर चीज का positive देखोगे, then you will grow in life, the second thing is that i want to talk about is, there is nothing call time management, it its always prity management, you can manage time, you can make ट्वेंटी for rs vent t्वentyfourars one second, it is the six twenty, four ars fixtlmontsixtree sixty five sixty, six is depending it sleeper ot, but what you can do is make the best use of those time for it is think and its like a big ball game to its वो देखा होगा न? सर्कस में वो 34 बॉल 1 साथ करते रहते हैं। thats how it, if is, you will have your work, you will have your personal life, you will have your social cercle, you will have your learning, if, you are somebody like, me, will also have a tos master of big part of your life, now and you have to juggle with all of these you will suffer will be in pain, but you group so do not expect that is going to be bed of roses, this before manage, or after marige, before college, after college, before job, after job, before dos master after toss master is going to be a constant struggle। but this is where the learning happens and as t one robins, said, the रियल plese, इज नॉट वन रिज destination रियल प्लेजर इज इन द जरनी। तो असली जो कहते हैं, असली जो आनंद है, असली मजा है, वो उसमें नहीं है कि आप वहाँ पहुँच जाए जहाँ आपको पहुंचना है। असली असली मजा, उसमे आप, उसके लिए मेहनत करते रहो, नई नई चीजें सीखते रहो, नई नई बातें करते रहो, नए नए लोगों से मिलो, लोगों से कनेक्ट करो और कोशिश करो कि हम लाइफ में क्या नया कर सकते हैं, क्या अच्छा कर सकते हैं और कितना अच्छा कर सकते हैं। बस आई थिंक दिस टू आर माई लाइफ advices dream big, but डोनट तो स्ट्रिंजेंट डोंट बी तो स्टिक की हैं, वही ड्रीम है तो वही होगा अदरवiज कुछ। e a dost people, mostly fal and सेकonडiजइटस प्रार्टी मैनेजमेंट एंड अलग अलग टाइम पे, अलग अलग चीजों की प्रारिटी होगी। अभी आपकी जो प्रारिटी है में भी 2 साल 4 साल बाद वो आपकी प्रायरटी नहीं रहेगी, समथिंग एल्स विकम और जो आपकी प्राइट अभी नहीं है वो बाद में आपकी प्रारिटी बन सकती है। सो आई थिंक अगर ये 2 चीजें हम करें तो शायद लाइफ में थोड़ा और सक्सेसफुल हो सकता है। आई गोंड से मोस्ट सक्सेसफुल because i dont know, what is more सक्सेसफुल बट थोड़ा और सक्सेसफुल हो सकता है। शायद मेरी तरह आपको भी इंटरव्यू देने का मौका मिल सकता है।
thank you so much ditos t was a fenomenal interview with you every time, the positivity and the energy that you care with yoseलफइtसnेकस it s totally infectors i can bat for this fact, because the days is the day are met you antil this day, i have every time, i have had it talk to you this not a time, not a single time, i have had in an even an ita of negativity, from you and you know this constant motivation of years to grow every day, it is it inspire। so many people, not justin clubs, but outside the clubs and wherever you go that is very cintlatingand, very specific स्पेसिफिकली दैट कैन बी iडeंटifid so i would like to thank you for taking out time and talking to me and making this a beautiful journal for so many people to watch and sharing your dense bisen with all of first, thank you so much for this beautiful interview for this amazing convesetion that happen thank you
so much the thank you thank you for a grin do this i could not think about a better lesson, who could yeah take care and as i say with everything now, i keep learning keep growing keep going out of your confers। thank you so much।
yes थैंक यू।










