Dallas Bragg, a chemsex recovery coach, says the difference between men who quit and men who can't isn't desire. It's accepting the concrete changes required: locking down phones, surrendering privacy, allowing chaperones. Wanting to stop hard enough isn't enough. You have to do the work.
So there's a lot of differences between somebody who can quit using chemsex and somebody who can't. Here's one. My name is Dallas. I'm a chemsex recovery coach. One thing that I see are the differences is not that— it's not the desire. Like, if you're in recovery, if you're working with me, or if you're watching this, my guess is you have a desire to quit, and that desire is probably pretty strong. What's often missing is the acceptance of what it takes to stop using chemsex. And when I say that, the acceptance that the phone has to be locked down, you're going to have to lose some privacy, you're going to have to be chaperoned. Your world as you know it has to change if you want a new world for yourself. But many men will Fight and fight and fight and not accept what it takes for this particular drug, the particular setup that we have, that you can get it anywhere in the world within minutes on your phone, that it has its own Zoom channels, it has its own Telegram, it has its own culture. So this isn't just any old addiction. You have to accept What it takes, and accept that it's going to be uncomfortable and it's going to be work. So I don't want you to say anymore, "I must not want it bad enough," and I don't want you to listen to people telling you, "I don't want it bad enough." You want it bad enough. You also have to be willing to do what it takes, and it takes a lot. If you want to work with me, comment the word group below, and we'll get you some information.
