Failure shows you who actually has your back. The people who mock you when you stumble aren't worth keeping around. The ones who reach out, share their own struggles, and stick with you are your real allies.
If we fail, it very seldom hurts as much as we thought. Absolutely. And we don't have any regrets about the choice. Found out and all the people that went na na na boo boo, you didn't want them being in your life anyway. True story. You know what I mean? So good. We define them, you know. But the people that when you fail after you make a choice that come over and go, hey man, me too. I did the same thing. You're like, hey, found a good friend. You found a good soldier. You found a good acquaintance. You found somebody that's on your side. That's people you want in your life anyway.