A speaker confronts the lie that we have unlimited time, drawing on the deaths of a best friend and family members. He uses sand as a metaphor for dreams and relationships slipping away, arguing that recognizing life's finitude should push you to act now on what matters.
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We are all under the spell of a deadly lie. And the lie is this: that we all have time. We treat forever like it's a guarantee. But I think me and you both know this because we're intelligent human beings, that forever, if we're being honest, comes with an expiration date. And to be real with you, I learned that in the hardest way possible. If you know my story and my why, I had a best friend commit suicide. That's why I do what I do today. I thought I had forever with my best friend until the day he took his life. I thought I had forever with my grandmother and my mom to sit across the table and to text her and call her until I didn't. I want you to look at this sand right now. This sand is your dreams, it's your relationships, it's the thing that you care about. And time is ticking.