Dean Graziosi argues that heartbreak from relationships, marriages, and unsupportive people can fuel success if you convert it into energy. Don't dim your light to match others. Keep growing even when people doubt you or leave.
There's a lot of heartbreak. So what I noticed with underdogs who spin it into a win is they take that heartbreak from any area. From parents, from a relationship, from a marriage to a bad partnership. They take that heartbreak and they ball it back up and use it as energy. So they transform heartbreak into leverage. Your parents or your friends may not have faith in you or support you, and that's heartbreaking. Did you ever have. Just like you watch me one day, you read my book or somebody else, or you saw something online or you got involved in my real estate course and you're like, damn, I'm doing this. And you're using the power of. You can't. You don't even know. You are. You're being innovative. You're enthusiastic, and you go tell the person you care about the most, and they shut you down like a lid. Just like shutting off lights. It's like, oh, that's so dumb. This is the wrong time. You don't have the money and they shut you down. That's heartbreaking. Also, I've watched so many people when they have a desire for more. You're growing, okay, So, I don't know, maybe you guys can tell me. Ever happened in your life? If you're watching me, you're someone who's working on your personal growth. You're working on your success. You want another level of life. You realize one of the biggest plights of our world is living knowing you have untapped potential. It's the worst feeling in the world. You know you got more gas in the tank, but you're not putting the throttle down because people are telling you and you can't. I just told my daughter I stole this from Sean Stephenson, the three foot giant. My dear friend, He. He said, don't ever let anyone dim your glow so you can match them. You're bright. Be like, nah, nah, nah. And a lot of times we turn down our lights so we can match that. Screw that. Brighten yours up more. But it's heartbreaking because here's what I want to ask and you guys can be honest with me. Have you ever been in a relationship? Could be family, friends, partnership, or significant other. You're in a relationship. You. Because you're here, there's a million other things you could be doing. You're here with me. You're working on your personal growth. You are your success abundance. You want to tap into that next level, not leave it. Don't die at 98 years old and go, wow, I had a lot more to Give the world. But I didn't. Oh, my God. Did you feel that? Screw that. I want to be like, nothing left. I'm done. Time to go. Nothing left. But think about this. You're working on your personal growth. You start with somebody. Here they are at this level, but they decide this is a perfect level for them. And all of a sudden, you're continuing to work on your personal growth, and you're going higher, and you're going higher. And now they're saying, oh, stop, you're getting all foo foo. Oh, you're too. Oh, my God. What, are you going to go to a Tony Robbins event and jump up and down? You're going to go to a Dean Graziosi growth event and blah, blah, blah. And all of a sudden you're going, and I'm going and going. And you get to a point, and they're like, oh, my God, we've grown apart. And somebody leaves you, or someone calls you, tells you that you're a dreamer or, you know, good. I've watched it happen so many times with people who desire another level of life because the people around you want to stay stat. And you make them uncomfortable. So heartbreak is pretty high in this world, in this world of growing, of going next level. And that's okay because that's the way it's supposed to be. I believe God, the universe, whatever, designed it that way because they're meant to be with these people and you're meant to be with us. It doesn't mean you have to hurt anybody along the way. But there's a lot of heartache. There's a lot of heartbreak. So what I noticed with underdogs who spin it into a win is they take that heartbreak from any area. From parents, from a relationship, from a marriage to a bad partnership. They take that heartbreak and they ball it back up. Poof. And use it as energy. So they transform heartbreak into leverage, heartbreak into energy, heartbreak into success. Now, maybe I'm completely off. Maybe no one on here has ever had any heartbreak, and I'm totally off. No one in here has ever felt like they were growing and the person alongside them was staying still, and it felt uncomfortable. If that's the case, I'm sorry, I'm completely wrong. But I bet to say it's over 75% of the people that are watching me right now, maybe even more. Let me know what you think.
