Dean Graziosi argues you have to go all in, not dabble. He walks through a planning exercise: write specific outcomes and deadlines for the next 24 hours, 7 days, 30 days, 60 days, and 90 days, then pair each with how it will feel to hit it and how it will feel to miss it. No one is coming to save you.
Have you really tried everything? You're dabbling, you got one foot out the door. How does that work in anything in your life when you have one foot out the door? Go all in. It'll work. What are you gonna do in the next 24 hours to create momentum? Doesn't matter where you are, it matters where we're going. So what are you going to do in the next 24 hours to keep the momentum moving forward then? What are you going to do in the next seven days? Right, you have to write these. You can just write down the numbers and come back and do this exercise. But next 24 hours, next seven days, next 30 days, next 60 days and next 90 days, I would do a 24 hour, a seven day, a 30 day, a 60 day and a 90 day plan of what are the outcomes? What are you going to accomplish next 24 hours? I am dedicating the time. I'm going into my journal and I am going to dedicate times Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Fridays. I am absolutely working on this. That's all you need to do. That's 24 hours. What am I going to do in the next seven days? I'm going to dial in my dot and I'm going to start laying out my modules. Okay, what are you going to do in the next 30 days? I'm going to record it, I'm going to film it the next 60 days. I'm going to be up on mastermind.com the next 90 days. I'm going to start building my Facebook group. I don't know what it is, but take the uncomfortable action to commit yourself to these. Put a deadline and let's do the work and make this happen. Here's the thing. I want to be here for you and I'm going to be here for you. I'm spending more time with these groups than any time in my life. But I still can't do it all for you. You need to take uncomfortable action. You need to know that there's nobody coming to save us. No one coming to save you. No one coming to do it for you. Doesn't matter if you're liberal, conservative, Republican, Democrat, in the middle, the right, the left, super religious, super Christian, super spiritual. Don't believe it all. It doesn't matter where you are in all the spectrums. There is nobody coming into our home and saying, I know it's been a little shaky, but I got this. Just don't worry about it. It's on us. And how liberating is it when we know it's on us. Even if you have disabilities, even if you're looked at like anything that you have that you feel is a negative, it doesn't matter. Anything you feel is a positive, it doesn't matter. We are still the ones that make the decisions and we're the ones that move the needle because no one's doing it for us. We want to change the world. We decide we're going to change it. We want to change the economy in our home, we have to decide. We want to change the amount of time we spend with family or live into our true purpose or be the woman or man God designed us to be. No one else is doing it for us. But what we can do is what you're doing. Gain capabilities from people who have already been there. Be a part of a group bigger than yourself. You already got the capabilities. You're already a part of a group bigger than yourself. You already got the support of this amazing family. You could come in here and say anything you want and this group will support you. You have all the ingredients. So what's left? You. You have to decide that I'm going all in. And what I would say is when you do your 24, 7, 30, 60 and 90 day breakdown, what you should do is add two things I would love for you to add. So let's just say you did 24, 7, 30, 90, and you make a list of these things. Underneath. I would say, how will it feel when you accomplish it? How will it feel when you accomplish what you put your mind to? On a scale of 1 to 10, how does it feel when you accomplish something you put your mind to? I see you guys mouthing a 10, right? It's a 10. Holding up your hands, it's a 10, right? Okay, but then I want you to do one more thing. After you say, how will I feel? I'll feel confident, I'll feel courageous, I'll feel fulfilled. I'll feel I can do anything. Right, you write down how you feel, but underneath that, I want you to write down how it'll feel if you don't.
