Dean Graziosi records a short "Weekly Wisdom" talk from the beach in Del Mar, California, urging viewers to "check your reality": don't let imagined or emotionally magnified problems become bigger or more powerful than you, and consciously celebrate your personal wins. He uses examples from real estate and relationships, frames setbacks as learning experiences (quoting Winston Churchill), and closes with a promotion for his free books at deansfreebook.com.
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"The definition of success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm."
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Hey, everybody. Dean Graziosi, welcome to the weekly Wisdom. This special version from the beach here in Del Mar, California. You know, I want to ask you, do you make your reality, in some cases bigger than you, stronger than you, more powerful than you? You know, we all know that reality is nothing more than our opinion or the way we let our emotions feel about a circumstance. But what happens is we let our reality get bigger than us sometimes. And let me explain. I want to give you or remind you that you have the power to make something as big or as small as it needs to be. How many times in life do we have something go wrong or not go the way we'd like it to go? And in our minds, our reality makes it bigger, makes it stronger. Let's just take real estate, if you're one of my real estate students, that this market is too. This market's moving too fast. There's no good deals left. And you tell yourself that reality in a hypnotic way so much, then it becomes bigger than you, it becomes stronger than you, it becomes paralyzing. And all of a sudden you're flat, you're scared, and should we say you're paralyzed? Right. What about even in a relationship, you let a reality of a relationship or a circumstance get so big that you give its power away, and you're giving its power away to your own reality that you made up. Let's take the complete opposite side of it. When is the last time you did something, something incredible and celebrated? You know, I know you might be going through a tough time or you've experienced tough times, but do you know how many incredible things you've done, amazing things you've done in your relationship? Being a parent, being a son, being a daughter, being a co worker, starting your own business, evolving up through your business, or just helping out a stranger, helping out your church. You've done so many things that you once thought you'd love to do. You accomplished it. But when's the last time you were like, yes, that was amazing and took yourself out, celebrated, celebrated with someone else, jumped up and down. You know, we'll jump up and down if our favorite team wins a sporting event. We'll jump up and down if our kids do something great. But when's the last time you jumped up and down for something you did? For watching these videos, for getting involved in real estate or getting involved because you want success on the next level? We don't. We let our reality dull the great things, and we let our reality make the things that are a little bit of a challenge become so big that they paralyze us and hold us still. I I want to challenge you this week to take ownership of your reality, to understand what's big enough to stop you and understand the little things that are great that you've accomplished. Because we can empower ourselves through our own experiences, knowing the things that don't go right were meant for us, were meant to be there as our challenge, as our learning experience. Like Winston Churchill says, the definition of success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm. So this week this weekly wisdom is simply to say, check your reality. Don't give power to something in your own head, making it bigger that paralyzes you and stops you from going forward. And make sure your reality in your world, you give yourself credit and you celebrate for the wins that you've done in the past and the ones you accomplish in the future. I'm Dean Graziosi. Thanks so much for watching this weekly wisdom from the Beach. It's real early here before I even had the chance to get in the shower. But this morning message was on my head and I wanted to get it to you. You guys have a wonderful week and check your reality. If you don't have my New York Times best selling books, one on personal development, one on real estate, you know you can always go grab them for free@deansfreebook.com that's deansfreebook.com have an amazing, amazing week. Take care.
