Why Your Beliefs Are Making You Poor

Beliefs, what creates them and what affects them. And I wanted to give some, maybe some thoughts that you've never looked through on what creates your belief or what they can affect. If anybody, if you read my book, you know that I say the outside influences will affect your beliefs more than you realize, no matter how strong you are. Sometimes we have to protect ourselves from the outside world. If you have a drinking problem, it's probably not a good thing to spend seven nights a week in a bar, right? If beliefs are a hard thing to keep strong, what can we do from the outside world, right? We got the inner game and we got the outer game, right? We're working all the time on our inner game, isn't it? Sometimes it's a pain in the ass. You're just working on it, working on it. And then one thing from the outside world throws us off a cliff. Like, it's crazy. But what can you do to empower beliefs that bring you towards the direction you wanna go compared to bringing in things that empower beliefs that keep you small? So I always talk about the news. For me, I physically can't watch the news. I've been on a news diet for over 10 years now because I've never watched the news and got done and went, holy shit, I feel amazing. God, I feel good. Give my dad a call. Dad, you gotta see the seven o' clock news. You'll feel amazing. If you missed it at five, you should see it at seven. No, so. Because here's what I know. When's the last time you watched the news and you wanted to run out and really go after it, get life going? Or do you go, wow, things are really screwed up. I mean, think about what's on the news right now. I mean, I was in the gym yesterday. The only time I get glimpses of news without audio is when I'm at the gym and there's like five screens on and. And then the funny part is, it's like watching CNBC or CNN and Fox. It's like, are they both in the same country? Right? It's like, so literally just seeing the subtitles is enough to screw me up. But think about that. In all areas of your life, what in your life fuels a belief of doubt? And what in your life fuels a belief of hope and passion and drive? And I'm not gonna go through all of them, but you need to identify them. Who in here? You don't have to say, you don't have to raise your hand. Cause maybe you brought them with you. You know what I mean, just saying, who in here will self admit that your spouse or a friend brought you here kicking and screaming, like drug you here, There's a go who's afraid to admit it, but it's true, right? It's like, ah, I'm gonna go there and then, believe me, we'll convert you before you leave. You have no idea. You'll be reading my book tonight before you go to bed. But what affects you, like news? If you watch the news or read the paper cover to cover and it alters your beliefs just a fraction, just a millimeter in a direction. Mary, are you starting trouble up here? It's good to have you here. If something alters you just a fraction, then it's putting you on a different course. So I would think about it. If you watch the news or read the paper cover to cover and you feel a little bit self doubt, if you have a little bit of belief that like, maybe now's not the time, then should you do more of that or less of that? Right? If you have a friend who you love dearly, sometimes we have friends for 20 years. Every time you're with them, it's like they have a battery charger and they plug it into you and they, and they suck all the energy out of you. And when you're done, you're like, ah, shit, maybe I should just go get a job and jump off a cliff. Like, we all have those. I mean, who has the friend that when your phone rings or you get a text, you go, aw shit, should I get that now? And then the worst part is like, sometimes you don't even want to wait for it to ring to go to voicemail. So you hit the end button and. And they know it and they're like. And they call back three more times and then they text you. I know you sent me to voicemail and I don't take voicemail, so that's really terrible. But what, so what affects you in that way? So I want you to start thinking, like if we have to create beliefs that make us bulletproof. Listen, this is. I shared this yesterday. We have one life here. Are we gonna play this life full out? Are we gonna go to our deathbed thinking we could have done more? Screw that. This is the time to go for it now. There's no better time than now when it goes start someday. That someday will never come, right? So we have to protect ourselves. So are we gonna fill ourselves with the empowerment to drive the beliefs that we want or the beliefs that we don't? So if it's the news, if it's a negative person, if it's a certain activity you do that makes you feel bad about yourself, if there's something I said yesterday about working on your weaknesses, if there's something you feel like you have to do, but every time you do it, it makes you feel inferior or it robs your confidence. You have to find a way to get rid of that crap. Because our beliefs are the only thing that drive us here. Listen, we also have old programming. I talked yesterday about Ryan, the kid that works for me. He's 17, just turned 18 years old. His girlfriend's parents. His girlfriend's parents, every time they go there, are telling him because he didn't barely got out of high school. He did. He graduated online. And he's deciding on a different path. I'm not knocking college in any way. What would we do without college and doctors and professors and all the things that are amazing. But it's not his path. But he goes. And because his girlfriend's parents, they're really tough on him. He feels like a loser when he's over there. But when he's there, they want him to go to school to be an engineer. They want him to go school and have his degree. Because that's how they were programmed. What he found out last week is he's currently making $18,000 a year, more than both his parents combined, his girlfriend's parents combined. And. And better yet, he's happy every single day. The guy has lit up so much in our office, we have to, like, calm him down. Cause he's excited about everything. It's like, we got, you know, you get new cups. He's like, did we get new cups in the office? These cups are amazing. It's like, all right, but here's what. Here's the conversation we had because of old programming. The conversation we had was, my girlfriend's parents want me to go to school. That makes me miserable. School's not for me. I could never do it. He had some similar. The reason I have a liking to him is he has similar issues I had when I was in school. He's like, go to school for four years, which I hate, and then get in a job that I dislike to make less money than I'm making right now. But if I did that, they'd put their arm around me and say, congratulations. It's so counterintuitive. But we have old programming. I mean, listen. What I never understood is when you were in high school or college or just starting out Life, you have these dreams, you have the aspirations, you have these big goals in some cases, right? And the world tells us that we're dreaming. I mean, think about when we want to step out from the line everybody else is having and go after our own shit and do our own thing. And people saying, hey, get real, when you get a lolo, you'll see that that's not. And all of a sudden you start squashing your dreams, you start playing smaller in your own life to make people around you feel better. And here's the thing, you quit your dream, you quit your desire and you take some job that makes somebody else happy. And all of a sudden you, you get somebody's arm around you saying, hey, now you're finally growing up. Really, it's so, I mean, listen, I'm not saying this to make anybody sad because you're in this room now, but how many people in their 20s and 30s took a five minute job to make other people happy or just pay the bills until you could get to your goals? And then 30, 40 years went by? Trivet. Now, I don't say that to make you. But here's the thing. But you're in this room now. You're not accepting that anymore. You're not playing small anymore. You're going for that next level. So we can't do anything about our past, but we surely could start today on a new future. So I would say watch the old programming because some of it is, you know, listen, my dad's here today, which is awesome to have family here. Everybody can. My dad, my dad's 83 and looks 55. I got some good jeans going on. Exactly. But watch the old programming because I said that about my dad. My dad was born during the Depression. So my dad. I shared with you yesterday everything my dad did when we were young is if you could do it yourself, why pay somebody? And every room you walk out of if you didn't turn the light off, it was like death. Like we were gonna die if we didn't turn the lights off. But he had to. That's how he got by. Now I go around the room and just turn the house and just turn every light on possible. I can afford that shit. No, but I say that because that's old programming. So I wanna encourage you today to watch the old programming that's gonna screw with your beliefs because you might believe I can go do more real estate. I could do my first deal, I could be a wholesale monster. While simultaneously you might have a belief that's residual from your parents that say, you better get a job, go to school, and work for somebody else, because if you start your own business, you'll go bankrupt, Right? So simultaneously you're like, man, I want this, but why the hell am I feeling hesitant? Why am I holding back? It's because of a belief that's in there. It's not because of anything in the outside world. I mean, go think about it. Think about what stopped you from reaching your next level over the last year. And if I said, hey, run up to your room and grab it, could you go get it? It's a belief. Where does it live? It lives in here. It lives in our hearts. So we have to acknowledge that. We have to be aware of it, and we have to feed the beliefs that fuel our desires. What's up? What's up? Hey, before you go, you need to watch these next few videos. They're absolute game changers. Hurry up and click right over here and watch them, and I'll see you there.