PAIN of GROWTH or SUFFERING of COMFORT ZONE! Pain is temporary but Growth will remain for life long

Hey friends. Good evening from Dubai and good morning, good afternoon. Whichever part of the world you are in, I'm sure wherever you are, you must be enjoying your weekend. So today I'm with another interesting topic which affects all areas of your life. Let it be your health, wealth, relationship, career, business, anything choices you make. I learned from my mentor Bob Proctor. He always says that results in your life is sum total or outcome of the choices you make every day. Actions or decisions you make every day. Now what decisions you are making? What do you choose every day when you wake up? Do you choose comfort or you choose suffering? Do you choose procrastination or you choose actions? Do you choose confusion or clarity? So I will just clarify little bit more on this. So let me start this topic Indecision or decision. See what we are programmed. Unfortunately we are not taught in our education system, in our corporate life how to make decisions. So we learn it. Actually we learn. So initially when we were in our childhood, our parents made decision for us. Then you go to say schools, your teachers make decision for you that you are your report card. Make decision that you are good in this subject or not good in this subject. And that's what decide help you to decide your career path. Then you go to higher education, you follow most people, they follow where their friends are going. So they make decision for them. Corporate, your bosses make decision for you. So it is then trial and error. We make decisions and then mistakes happens. So what outcome comes? Like our mind will program that. Okay, no, it's better to make right decision. It's better to be safe than sorry. And many times opportunity comes on our way. But we miss those opportunities. Now if you are one of them, nothing wrong. I also was there maybe six years back. I was not that accurate in decision making. And that was holding me back to make some big decision. But then I learned from one of the best teacher in the world, Bob Proctor, who was master on mind. And Bob Proctor helped me to make a decision and which. Which was one of the big decision in my life I made to do what I'm doing today. People who knows me, they know that I'm basically I'm by academic qualification I'm an engineer. I did 30 years in one subject only one topic, air conditioning, H. Vac. And being a technical person, I never thought that this is what I would be doing today. But then at one day or in one of the event, I was with Bob Proctor and he helped me to find my purpose. What I really love to do what I am passionate to do now that time I made a decision to work with him to become his consultant. But that time I had no idea how I'm going to do it. I didn't know anything about mind. I didn't know anything about the subject of what I'm doing today. Not much about sales. But then he told me one thing. You don't need to know how the moment you make a decision, resources will show up. Now that resources can be thoughts, ideas, money, people, skills, opportunities, everything will show up. It says like when you make a decision and you have a burning desire, universe will conspire to make it happen. And that's what happened with me. I never thought I can do this, but then I'm doing it. Two years back I never thought I can write a book. But I am an author now of Amazon best selling book. And it is because of mentors. So you don't need to know how. But unfortunately as we don't have answer for how we don't make decision, we keep procrastinating. So where you see yourself, indecision or decision. Are you holding yourself back not to make decision? Even not making decision is also a decision. You are either growing or you are staying at same place where you are now. If you are staying same place, you are going in reverse. Because world is growing. It says that change, change is inevitable. Personal growth is a choice. Are you making a choice every day to upgrade yourself? See, we upgrade every day this device. Like maybe you are using laptop. You may be getting message to upgrade your software, operating system. And you do it mobile phone every time different versions come. Maybe you are using Android or iPhone frequently messages come, new version is available and you do it. How about you? How about your mind? Our mind is like a program. Like say our mind works on programs. Now our programs are right from the childhood, the time we were born. Maybe generation to generation. We have some genetically programming and environmental programming, some beliefs, some past experiences, mistakes we make, some you can say culture. All those things are responsible to the decision we make. But if those decisions are not helping you change it. So I just learned last week I was attending one training from my mentor and he was talking about rat race or financial freedom. So I'm financially free and my financial freedom allowed me to do what I am doing today. I have freedom of choice. I sometimes someday I work, someday I don't work. I travel as I want. I'm traveling next week for my training again. And then I have decided to go for a retreat. So I'm going to India, Bangalore. I have decided to go for seven days retreat at Sri Sri Ravi Shankar's ashram. Because I deserve that and that freedom of choice allows me. Now, if you also want that kind of freedom, rat race will not allow you to do that. Rat race means you are busy with work. You have to report somebody. Maybe you are working for a company or you have your own business. I learned from Robert Kiyosaki, rich dad, poor dad, that even entrepreneurs are also in rat race. As long as if you are trading your time, you are in rat race. If you are trading time for money, maybe as an employee, you are trading eight to ten hours a day. As an entrepreneur, you may be doing. Or you may be trading more time. Maybe 10 hours, 12 hours, 14 hours. Then you are in retros. So shifting from retrace to freedom, financial freedom. Are you willing to do that? Would you like to make some change? See, without change, nothing will happen. If you want different results, you have to change. And why? I am telling you because I have gone through that. So you have two choice. Either you can have suffering of comfort zone or you can have pain of growth. Suffering of comfort zone will be permanent. Suffering will be permanent. Comfort zone will be temporary. At the same time, pain of growth, that pain will be temporary. But growth will be permanent. Imagine your life with financial freedom, with freedom of choices. How you will be feeling that time. Even when you are watching this, you can create those pictures. You can create that life with your imagination. That is the power we all are given. But unfortunately we are not able to use that power. And we make a choice for instant gratification, whatever, immediately, like say people like now. New Year is coming. We are finishing 20, 22. And in one month or maybe 40 days, we are entering into New Year. People will be making New Year resolutions. And most of the resolutions are made for dissolutions. Within few weeks, few days, those will be dissolved. If you are one of them, why it is happening? Do you know that when you make a New Year resolution, you are deciding to change your behavior? And that remains as a temporary and incremental. If you want permanent growth, you have to bring changes at subconscious level. Subconscious mind. We know that our subconscious mind controls every move we make. All your results are controlled by subconscious mind. How well you know your mind. Now, if you are ignorant, it doesn't mean to make a choice to remain ignorant. You have a choice to acquire that knowledge. Specialized knowledge which I learned from my mentors. And I'm still learning. I have different mentors now. What you choose? Do you choose suffering of comfort zone or you make A choice of pain, of growth. Are you growing every day? Are your results are changing? If not, think seriously over this. Why this happen? Because we procrastinate now. Procrastination is not taking action. You know that you need to do certain things. So that is called something called knowing and doing gap. People, they know but they don't do they know that yes, waking up early is good. They know that exercise is good. They know walking is good. They know reading trainings, personal development is good. But people have different reasons. I don't have time, I don't have money, I don't have skills, I don't have confidence. People don't support me. All those things stops us. And that leads to procrastination. Think about actions. One action can change your life. Then how you want to see your life as a complex or as a simple success is simple. I learned from my mentor again that success is like alignment of three areas of your life. Conscious mind, subconscious mind, body, your thoughts, your feelings and your actions. Your vision, your belief and your actions. Simple. It's not that complicated. You are receiving this information from me using your two senses which are given to animals. Also. We human beings, we have five senses. See, hear, smell, taste and touch. So what is the difference between human being and animals? We are given six mental gifts. Imagination, will, thinking, memory, intuition, perception. When you learn about these mental gifts, you are already there. You are having these gifts just matter of unwrapping those gifts. Now if you are not using those gifts, even though you have, you are not able to make use of it. You have to learn what these gifts are and how you can develop these gifts. Simple success is simple but not easy because it has to do a lot with mind and mindset. So make a choice whether you want to live a complex life or you want to live a simple life but a better life. And then comes confusion or clarity. What you choose? Do you choose confusion? Clarity. Confusion means you are carrying too many pictures in your mind, too many thoughts in your mind. And your mind is not allowing you to take any action. See, confusion means lot of thoughts, lot of ideas. But those ideas are not planted here in your subconscious mind. Too many pictures you are carrying. Every one minute you have different thoughts. Every one minute you have different message from social media, email, some different distractions. And there is a confusion. There is no clarity. If you have no clarity of your purpose, why you wake up in the morning, your life will be full of confusion. Have a clarity, have a goal. Where you are going, are you going in the right direction or you are staying there or sideways or reverse. So confusion or clarity. What choice do you make? And you have choice to live your life by default which you may be living right now. So you don't have to do anything. You keep doing routine things, routine task and have your life that will be by default. If something goes up and down outside recession comes Covid comes economy changes, the product you are dealing with goes less in demand. Anything can happen. Are you allowing your life to live by default? It's like see I read somewhere. Imagine that there is a river and that is a flowing river or stream. And there is a wooden log and that log is flowing with the stream of river. Is your life like that morning you wake up, you have no purpose and wherever your life takes you are going there. Or you can design your life. You can be either an architect of your life or you can be victim of circumstances. I was victim of circumstances maybe six years back, but now I am designing my life. I have designed my financial freedom. I have designed what I really love to do and I'm doing it. If I can do it, you can do it. But it is just matter of again decision what choices you make. Are you making this choice every day? Think about this and then. Finally is what action you want to take. How I can help you? Somebody helped me which changed my life. My mentors Bob Proctor, Robert Kiyosaki. I have many other mentors also who are helping me for book writing. I didn't know how to write book. I didn't know how to publish the book. I didn't know how to make Amazon best seller. But then I took support. I took help from experts. I took help of Bob Proctor understanding mindset. I took help of Robert Kiyosaki understanding financial freedom and money. I am taking help from other mentors who are helping me on different things. Business systems, business building. If I can do it, you can do it. So how you can take first step book a discovery call with me. It's a free call for 30 minutes. I will ask you some questions and you will have clarity. So as whether you want confusion or clarity, you will get an idea that where which direction your life is going. Decision is like deciding your when you do something is that action or thought or idea is taking you in the direction of your goal or it is taking reverse. And then you will have a clarity what decision to make. I can help you or somebody take help whether me or somebody else. But don't allow your life to live by default. Design your life. That's all from my side. Hope this was useful for you. Give feedback, write comment, like it and share it. Share with people. They also somebody needs somebody your contacts. They need this help them allowing me to reach to them and that way also you will be contributing to universal law. My name is Deepak Badra. I am alignment coach. What I do I help people. Aligning their thoughts, feelings, action. Aligning their conscious mind, subconscious mind, body. Aligning their vision, belief system and actions so they can achieve results. Exponential growth and permanent change. Believe me, you deserve better life if you allow somebody to help you to design. That's all. Have a great weekend and take good care of yourself. All the best. Bye.