The Law of Gestation: Why Your Dreams Are Not Delayed — They Are Developing

Hey friends, good evening from Dubai and good morning, good afternoon, whichever part of the world you are in. Uh, happy Holi to everyone who are celebrating Holi, uh, and particularly people living in Dubai and Middle East. Things are going little bit crazy way which are not in our control. Now see, at this time we only have control of what we think. How we feel and what we do or what actions we take. Certain things are beyond your control, my control. So in this video, I'm not going to share more about this, but I'm going to share what you can do and a principle. I have heard many people talking about Law of Attraction, Law of Manifestation. I'm going to use a very simple analogy to explain this law, and this law We know every time, like when we look in the nature, have you seen the trees? Have you seen the plants? How it grows? How it manifests? How it gives fruits? The process is controlled by universal laws. Now I'm going to talk in this video about the law of gestation, which is a universal law. Take example, say cucumber seed or tomato seed or mango seed. Do you agree that there is a fixed gestation period? Universe has decided certain things. Now, you can't expect a seed of mango to give you the fruit same as the tomato seed takes. Tomato seed grows faster, maybe in few weeks. Cucumber seed, again similar. But mango seed takes few years. And every seed that way has a different gestation period. Now why I'm going to share this? I will show in form of a picture. Anything you want to manifest in your life, let it be results. Everybody wants better results in our life. I'm, I was looking for financial freedom since 2011. For first 5 years, I was not reaching anywhere. There was no lack of knowledge. I had a lot of knowledge. I straight away went to Robert Kiyosaki to learn about financial freedom. But for 5 years, I was nowhere close to it. And when I understood this law, which I'm going to share in this video, everything was clear. What is that law? The law is called Law of Justice. Now I will start with an analogy of a tree or plant. Now if I share my screen, you can see this. So this is how the tree grows, or any plant. It grows like this. You need a seed, correct? Like, see, I have some seeds here. So if I show you, So this is the mango seed. This is the seed of date, dates. This is acorn, which is, which turns into oak tree. Same way, this is like peach. There are different seeds. And do you agree that every seed has a potential to become a tree? But it is not. I have these seeds for many years. I just kept it too. Educate or share the information or knowledge. Now, even though this seed has a potential to turn as a tree, it is not happening because I have not made a decision. So many times people, they attend seminars, they, you can say, write their goals, they make vision boards, but they are not committed. It's not like— see, I learned from my mentor Bob Proctor. He says Your goal should be big enough that can scare you. At the same time, it should excite you. Now, this was not me who understood when I started my financial freedom journey. Being me as an engineer, it was difficult to digest this, that no, I need something different which is invisible. Being me as an engineer, it was a logic. Logic means what is financial freedom? When passive income is more than monthly expenses, you are financially free. But that was not enough. Why? Because I need to know much beyond that. When I'm financially free, what I would be doing. But being left-brain person or engineer or logical person, I never gave attention and I was not reaching there. Now if you are also facing this, pay very close attention to this video. So how a process of tree starts, you need seed. Correct. But unless you don't make a decision to plant it, the seed has potential, but it will not turn into tree and then mango fruit. Now you made a decision. You attended some seminars, you did some program, you said enough is enough, I am sick and tired of being sick and tired, and you made a committed decision. You say, in spite of fear, I'm going to take action. Now what happens? Do you agree that every seed needs a fertile soil? Now say suppose this is mango seed. I live in Dubai. If I go to say desert or Jumeirah Beach and if I plant this seed, is it going to grow? Every day I will go and plant, do watering, take care of that seed, but it will not grow. Why? Because the soil is not conducive. Now imagine that I have a garden or I have a farm which is having fertile soil. But in that soil, in that garden, in that farm, there are already some weeds. And that's what happens in our life. As we have not consciously planted those seeds of our dream, our burning desire, there are weeds. Now what you do when you plant a seed? Do you agree that you will remove the weeds, you will prepare the soil, And then you will surface it, and then you will plant the seed. Same thing happens in our life. But then what happens next? After planting the seed in fertile soil, do you just leave it as it is? I don't think. You take care of it, correct? So you can say you will do watering, you will do fertilizing to accelerate the growth. You will take care of, you will protect the seed, correct? Suppose an animal comes and digs the soil, they will kill the seed. And that's what happens in our life. When we decide to achieve something big, people around us will try to discourage us, even though they are your well-wisher, but they will discourage you. It is better to be safe than sorry. Time is not right. Opportunities are not there. What if you lose? All those are the people who I call dream stealers. Even though they are your well-wishers, but they will try to steal your dream. You have to allow sunlight on this, and then when it comes out of the soil after, based on its gestation period, you protect it, correct? And then you allow some time. So mango seed takes 4-5 years. To get the fruit. Now, many times people, they want instant results, like 2 minutes noodles. It's— your dream is not instant result. You need faith and you need patience. Now imagine that you have planted a seed and every day you start digging that soil to check whether seed is growing or no. Do you agree that you are killing that seed? And same thing happens with many people because They have Plan B, they have Plan C, and if they don't see the growth, they immediately, you can say, give up the hope. They give up the dream. They will say, no, this is not for me. Maybe I made a mistake. I'm not prepared. I don't have the skills. I don't have support. I don't have money. All those things, they will find all the reasons why they can't achieve something. Now, this example you can see is how you can grow a tree. Now let's come to your dream. So I'm changing the image, and this is the dream. So this is the manifestation process of your dream, your dream, my dream. I was having the dream of financial freedom. First 5 years I was nowhere. Why? Because I was having doubt. I was not having clear picture. I was not having right knowledge and right mentors. But when I connect, I was connected with Dipak Bhadra, he explained me the same principles which I'm sharing. I learned this principle 10 years back. Then I applied and it changed my life. So if you see from top to bottom, there is a dream. We all have dreams. But as we grow, we condition ourselves that dreaming is a child's work. We should not dream. Look around you, the flights, the smartphones, lights, transportation, car, homes. Just imagine that if they would have given up their dream, do you agree that we will not have this luxury to fly, going to outer world like in space? It became possible because somebody dreamed about. Steve Jobs, he dreamed about smartphone in every hand. Now I don't say smartphone is good or bad, it is how you use it. Technology, good or bad, it is how you use it. Money, good or bad, how you use it. So I will not get into that, but then next stage is you need a clear vision. Now being me as a logical person, an engineer, I never thought that, you know, I need a vision to manifest my dream. But when I understood from Bob Proctor, he asked me a question. He says, if you want to be financially free, You need to have a clear image what, how your life will look like when you are financially free. What would you be doing? What time you'll be waking up? How you'll be feeling? Now these are all the questions beyond logic. If you are looking for all the logical answer, you will never manifest your dream. It is something illogical. Everything we see around us is illogical. Flying was illogical when Wright brothers had dream about this. Lights, it was illogical when Thomas Edison decided that he wants to give world gift of illumination. Anything you see around you, even this technology, I'm reaching to you in real time. As I'm doing live, you are watching it in air and ether through that medium. So you need a vision. Same way, using the analogy of a tree, You need a vision, but that is not enough. Many people, they stop at just preparing goals, goal list, or vision board. Now the time comes is planting that seed, that dream, into fertile soil, and that soil is your subconscious mind. Now, how well you know about your mind, I will share a little bit in this video. Then what you, you need to do, you need to protect your dream from negative people. You need to have faith, you need to have patience. So faith in universe. Seed never have a question that I will grow or no. If we do right things, it will grow. Universe is having that power. Same way, patience. Every seed has a gestation period. So I show you 4 seeds. Each seed has a different gestation period. It is not growing at the same time. Same way, your dream, my dream, we have no fixed gestation period. We need to have faith. We need to have patience. So in Hindi, it's called shraddha and saburi, patience and faith. Universe, when you are aligned with universe, it will grow. Your dream will manifest. You need to take inspired action. Now, if I show you this model of Bob Proctor, so you will say, I don't know anything about mind. So this is the model of mind and body, and I always follow or inspired by principles of alignment. Now, as we are not taught anything about mind and money in our school education system, you have a choice to remain ignorant and keep doing same thing, keep getting same results. I am very straight because somebody was straight with me. Now, if I give you example, just suppose you are entering into a dark room. It's a fully dark room. Now what you do? You fight with darkness, or you will just switch, switch on the light. The illumination will be there. Same way, if you are ignorant about your mind and money, the choice is either remain ignorant and keep getting the same results, or shift to knowledge. Have somebody. I have many mentors, and all those mentors help me to shift from Darkness to light, ignorance to knowledge, to awareness. And same thing, I am helping people now. So coming back to this model, this is your mind and this is your body. Our mind only understands language of pictures. You need a picture, what you want, how your life will look like, what kind of house you want to live, what kind of car you want to drive. Even though those are material things, you need a clear vision or clear picture. And we are given a gift called imagination. Imagination is a gift given to only human being. Animals are not having this. Animals are not able to create what humans have created. We are given imagination. There are 5 more mental, mental gifts. I will not get into this, but we are having imagination. Imagination is our ability to create pictures, vision, or images which is not existing. But 95% people, what they do, they are influenced by their senses. Now these days when the war is going on, political instability, multiple things are there. People are stuck to TV and news and social media, and they are allowing this information inside their mind. I've seen some people, even though something has not happened, Dubai has protected its residents and citizens. But some people started going out of Dubai even though they are residents of Dubai. I have seen just video that they are going to Oman, they are going to India because they are scared. They see what is happening. Now I don't say be stupid and don't protect yourself, but then have faith. Same thing. So we have 5 senses: see, hear, smell, taste, and touch. And 95% people, their thoughts are driven by what they see around them. Even their own results, their own bank balance, their own P&L report, their own medical report will dictate their thoughts. So what happens? Our thoughts turn into emotions, emotions turn into actions, and actions turn into results. See, sometimes success is very simple, but we make it complicated because we are conditioned with different programmings and weeds. So coming back to this diagram, what you see here, this is where you have created your vision, your imagination, that what kind of life, what kind of results, what kind of fruits you want to have. And then it needs to be planted in your subconscious mind. But your subconscious mind, if there are already weeds in it, old programming, old conditioning, I'm not good enough. I don't have support. I am not good at money. I'm not confident. What if I fail? Money, money doesn't grow on tree. Money is root of all the evils. All those things are weeds. So before planting a seed, you remove the weeds from the soil. Same way, you need to remove those conditioning, those weeds. How to remove? These are called paradigms. These are called programming. You can't remove just by reading something or watching something. People think that, okay, YouTube is enough. You see, information— there is plenty of information around us. It is implementation. So information is here, implementation is with body. Without taking inspired and aligned action, nothing will change. So your thoughts, your feelings, your actions— this is how the seed is created here, seed is planted here, and then you have to do nurturing. Nurturing is having faith, having patience, taking right actions, watering it, fertilizing it. So this is the process. If you see in this diagram, it starts with dream. What is your dream in 3 years or 5 years from now? How you want to see your life look like? So that, that creates a picture, that creates an image. The life which I'm living now, I have envisioned this with the help of mentor. What time I want to wake up, where I want to travel, what kind of experiences I want to have, irrespective of worrying about how my bills are going to be paid. I built time freedom and I built financial freedom. Now I am not telling you to impress you, I am telling you to impress upon you. That if person like me, logical mind, left brain engineer, can do this, you can also do this. When I started this journey, my belief was I'm not public speaker, I'm not good in English, I'm introvert, I'm not a good networker. All those things were my weights. What are your weights? I want you to think what are your weights that are holding you back. Then, so subconscious mind is the soil, fertile soil. And then without action, nothing change. Any information, all the information remain here. People are getting degree and lot of seminars and they attend, but their actions are not according to the knowledge. Now this is what interesting is. So it's called knowing and doing gap. So this was just today's video. I wanted to— it, it has gone little longer, but I wanted to share something very interesting which has changed my results, my life. I want you to think over this, and if this makes sense to you, type growth or gestation in the chat box. So that will give me idea, and then I can share a copy of my book, which is Grow Your Money Tree. You can see this. So just sharing that, being me as an engineer, I never thought I can write books. So I have not written just one book, I've written two books. Now my limitation, or I thought I'm not good in English, I can't write a book, but now it is. The help of mentors is manifested. So purpose of this is messages. If I can do it, you can do it. Only what you need to do is work in alignment with universal laws. So there are 7 universal laws which I will create another video. What are the 7 universal laws? But one of the laws is law of gestation. It needs fee, it needs patience and some support from people who have walked that path. Hope this was helpful to you. I'm on this journey to inspire, influence, and impact people, let it be entrepreneurs or working professionals. We all deserve a life with freedom of choice, and that can only happen when you are aligned. See you there in the next video, and take care.